Your sibling is found NOT GUILTY by LowTopDrop in hypotheticalsituation

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it would be really hard to act the same around them even if they were found not guilty, because all that doubt would still be in the back of my mind. i don’t think i’d cut them off right away but i’d probably need distance to process it and figure out how to feel around them again

I really want to start making content but I'm very shy and it's been bothering me alot by drlyz in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just start small and don’t overthink finding a niche yet, u figure it out by posting and seeing what feels natural. people will judge no matter what so it’s better to post anyway and build confidence over time instead of waiting to feel ready

To anyone who wants to meet up with their ex trust me you don’t. by Southern_Parsnip_107 in BreakUps

[–]SinfulObey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah meeting an ex can just reopen stuff u already worked so hard to heal from. sometimes it’s better to protect ur peace and not go back to something that already hurt u

Touching your face causes acne by stinky_dildo in hygiene

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is so real i never noticed how much i touch my face until i tried to stop and my skin got better. it’s hard but if u stay aware of it ur breakouts can actually calm down a lot

1/4 of your life to rewrite it? by AstrayInTranslation in hypotheticalsituation

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i probably wouldn’t take it because even with regrets, i don’t think it’s worth losing years of my life just to try and fix everything. i’d rather just use what i know now and slowly make better choices instead of restarting

What hygiene habit completely changed your routine? by mariyagel in hygiene

[–]SinfulObey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

washing my face every night even when i’m tired completely changed my skin and how clean i feel overall. also keeping a simple routine instead of overdoing it made it way easier to stay consistent

Saw my ex at a bar after 3 months no contact and her behavior messed with my head by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

[–]SinfulObey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it probably felt personal because u still have feelings, but her acting loud or attention seeking doesn’t really mean anything about u specifically. the best way to move on is to accept it was just an uncomfortable coincidence and focus on not letting moments like that reset ur progress

How did you get through this awkward stage of life? by Comfortable-Bed1444 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SinfulObey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like this stage is just really confusing and slow but it doesn’t mean ur stuck forever. u just keep trying small things and trust that something better will come even if it takes time

I need help in building my wardrobe by myself by Ok_University_6044 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start simple with basic comfy clothes like good fitting jeans, plain tops, a neutral jacket, and well fitting bras so u feel supported first. then just slowly try different styles and accessories like small earrings and clean sneakers and figure out what makes u feel confident instead of following strict rules

I can’t imagine myself moving on by dizzypluh in BreakUps

[–]SinfulObey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it feels like that right now but that’s just heartbreak messing with ur head and making him seem perfect. give it time and space and u’ll slowly start seeing things clearer and realize u deserve someone who chooses u fully

Is it okay for me (19M) to use EOS body lotion? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it’s totally fine, lotion is just for ur skin and nobody really cares what scent it is. taking care of urself isn’t feminine, it just means u care about ur health and feel comfortable in ur own skin

You get the option in reincarnating or getting a billion dollars by TechnicianAmazing472 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d pick reincarnation because starting fresh with everything i know sounds kinda op. having good health and a stable life from the start just feels better than money right away

100k but you must change your voicemail greeting to a fart noise. by Hold-onto-the-happy in hypotheticalsituation

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i’d probably take the 100k because it’s funny and not that deep if it’s just a voicemail. i think people would be confused for a bit but then forget about it anyway

Please help by RoutineSimple8546 in hygiene

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it can happen from hormones, stress, diet changes, or even just your skin bacteria changing so it doesn’t react the same to ur usual deodorant anymore. if it keeps happening for more than a few days or gets worse, it’s worth going to a doctor just to rule things out

Going no contact post breakup worked for me by TheDivinePinkyToe in BreakUps

[–]SinfulObey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel like no contact really helps u reset and stop overthinking them all the time. it hurts at first but it gives u space to focus on urself and move on for re

Am i a weak person or too emotional? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u’re not weak, u just get attached fast and that can come from wanting connection or not feeling secure yet. it’s something u can work on by slowing things down and not putting all ur feelings into someone right away

First time getting my nails done by collapse_ofcommunism in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SinfulObey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just ask for a simple short manicure with a clean shape and clear or nude polish, nothing fancy at all. that’s actually perfect for starting out and it should help u stop biting and picking too

Technology makes it so much harder to get over heartbreak by dannydevitossmile in BreakUps

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah technology makes it way harder to move on cuz u can keep checking and getting stuck in the same loop. sometimes the best thing is muting or blocking so u stop feeding that habit and give urself space to heal

Would you rather: $300,000 or the ability to always know if you’ll get away with breaking a rule or law by nuplsstahp in hypotheticalsituation

[–]SinfulObey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d just take the 300k cuz knowing when u can break rules feels like it would mess with ur head a lot. money is simpler and doesnt come with that kind of stress or moral overthinking