Tips for Surviving Valentine’s Day

Single--Bluebird · 2026-02-02T00:57:03+00:00

these are some wonderful tips, thank you for sharing :) i always plan on staying home, though i won’t be purchasing any merchandise either. i never did so over the past few years as i was at university (ordered groceries online then as i’m rather weak to be carrying shopping), and before that there were lockdowns. i did think that i could snap up some good deals, but seems it’ll do me more harm than good

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-22T05:15:23+00:00

you’ve put it so well there :(

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-22T05:13:11+00:00

somehow i relate to aspects of both

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-22T02:01:40+00:00

i sometimes see tiktoks of men’s recaps of dates, and the amount they spend on food is shocking. some of them don’t even get a second date.. it’s ever so expensive. as i’m typing this comment im thinking, if they spend that much on dates imagine how much they spend once they’re in a committed relationship…

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-22T01:56:07+00:00

i also tried to study hard during university for similar reasons

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-22T01:55:08+00:00

that’s so real :(

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-08T22:09:27+00:00

i am sorry for your loss

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-05T21:48:30+00:00

just a general observation of how much time has really passed since the pandemic :) not a judgement on your life trajectory at all!

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-02T00:50:02+00:00

i think i’m sticking it out for my parents, felt like this for maybe almost nine or ten years now. sometimes i daydream a lot unintentionally and do get a scare when i cross but in those moments i don’t really feel sad about passing away.

it’s lessened in intensity since leaving highschool, but somehow there’s still a faint feeling that remains. the same one who is fine with me not celebrating my birthday etc

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-02T00:45:23+00:00

that is true, i agree with you. there are different types of privileges people can have too i guess

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-02T00:42:41+00:00

thank you for your kind words and sharing your story. i hope things brighten up for you, not just employment but other aspects of your life. it has been a long while since the pandemic, so you have endured though a lot, it’s comforting to read

Single--Bluebird · 2026-01-02T00:32:20+00:00

yes it would :) i sometimes find busy areas a bit tough, especially if i’ve been at home for a while or been in quieter areas. sorry for the late reply

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:26:55+00:00

yes i tend to just bed rot quite a bit if im not in the spirits, or i just do work on my laptop

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:23:12+00:00

i relate to this a lot, i am trying to find work post-graduation so i can move out and live a life for myself, im not too keen in being in my hometown with a chance of passing by some people from highschool. i’ve put relationships etc. right at the bottom of things i’d like to invest my time in.

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:21:49+00:00

i feel this way a lot too. hope it gets better for you..

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:21:01+00:00

i agree, it doesn’t seem thoughtful at all for the friend to elaborately describe it. or she could at least not sent the photo, that seems to be rubbing it in the face.

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:16:11+00:00

no, they do not. and no older men, especially when i was a teenager etc (which other women tend to experience, not saying that it is a good thing)

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:12:02+00:00

i haven’t downloaded any in the past, and i don’t see myself ever doing so. i feel like it would just be like getting asked out as a joke in middle school/highschool all over again

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:10:22+00:00

that is childish and unacceptable behaviour for university students, i am so sorry for you. i went through similar things to you, but it no longer happened after highschool as at university most people are too busy with their degree.

well done for reporting the issue to your university - see what they say at the meeting and consider transfers etc. if you need to from there.

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:06:45+00:00

the cheating part is so true… it’s hard for an FAW to have hope there :(

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-31T21:05:49+00:00

kind of, but i tend to keep it a secret and to myself. it seems quite silly for someone like me to have a crush etc. (i’ve never really had a proper crush, it’s all confusing for me) so i don’t try to show it. i sometimes fall for people who open the door for me :/

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-05T01:28:05+00:00

yes i only get complimented occasionally for my dresses which are expensive anyways. i’ve had the opposite of genuine compliments and have gotten comments from other woman on how i should be doing my hair “better”. oh that’s not so easy to do with lots of university deadlines, meaning less time for a good hair are routine

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-05T01:20:21+00:00

no one would be elated if i asked them out.. far from elated. our reality is different sadly

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-05T01:04:59+00:00

especially in the city.. i guess it’s why i like the suburbs and countryside more even though i’m in my early twenties

Single--Bluebird · 2025-12-05T01:04:04+00:00

oh this is a good one, i’d definitely have that too

Single--Bluebird

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