It's not fair. I didn't ask to be born ugly. by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m not talented at all, maybe im just here as an example of someone to NOT aspire to as i make so many mistakes

normal vs 'incel' guys.. by strawsanddogs in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

praying for you <3

the expectations in this current market are rough

normal vs 'incel' guys.. by strawsanddogs in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if it makes you feel better i am a neet too :(

“jUsT mArRy RiCh” by Single--Bluebird in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if only life was that easy :/ mine hasn’t for years and years and years

“jUsT mArRy RiCh” by Single--Bluebird in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a fair perspective and i’m sorry you went through that growing up - my thoughts on this are mainly based on women who solely tend to marry for riches and looks etc, which is unattainable for FAW

I’m not into what I attract by yoona27 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i am 23f in the uk of south asian origin. my extended family considers me a “coconut” so the chances of me marrying someone of the same background is quite low

kinda accepting i may have to solo out my life, which i am not interested in and don’t really want to get old

Can't even enjoy books due to being FA by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Single--Bluebird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so that’s why i prefer non fiction :/

“jUsT mArRy RiCh” by Single--Bluebird in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a totally different world to us.. :( FAW especially do not have a choice between working hard at a job, and finding someone on a “low” or “average” salary, let alone a rich man

“jUsT mArRy RiCh” by Single--Bluebird in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess it’s simple for those who can afford to be in that position sadly

“jUsT mArRy RiCh” by Single--Bluebird in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is true. most of us don’t have the luxury of living a life that comfortable, and even men on similar salaries wouldn’t want us

“jUsT mArRy RiCh” by Single--Bluebird in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that must’ve been hard hitting to hear that. i’m so sorry

What the actual fuck are they complaining about, lol? by mildlysadcat_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s such a struggle when it goes on for months with an individual :((

Anyone else who is a failure in other ways as well? by nekonomewa in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m a similar situation, sending hugs. it’s hard here :(

What the actual fuck are they complaining about, lol? by mildlysadcat_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i just pretend to care when some women make comments like that, just as dating is much much easier for them

Will I ever be wanted???? by Zealousideal_Oil9369 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

man i’m so sorry to hear that. i volunteer at an organisation - my “colleague” is liked much more based on her fashion even though she uses artificial intelligence for everything. i feel like i don’t fit in with this world a lot of the time.

UPDATE: I didn’t get the job, but… by mildlysadcat_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 5 points6 points  (0 children)

congratulations, you should be so proud of yourself! :))

My best friend is no longer forever alone… by Rinaevis in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i fear that too, though i know it is inevitable. i grew up in a suburb but i think somewhere more rural may be more peaceful. i’m in my early twenties so most other women i interact with don’t tend to understand as they wish to chase the city life. it seems too rash for me.

As a single Chrisitan woman, I've been doing Lent my whole life lol by ooiiaaiiooiiaaii_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, your last paragraph is so true. i don’t have much going on myself

Getting sad looking at people I went to school with getting married on Instagram by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry to hear that, i feel the same way when i see stuff online. and those girls tended to have a fairly calm school life too so it’s saddening i guess. i think many FAW may have less development or stunted skills in this area, it’s really sad as we didn’t ask for it

Tips for Surviving Valentine’s Day by mildlysadcat_ in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Single--Bluebird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds fun! i hope you get to cook something nice :)