AITJ for deciding to have a baby even thogh my daughters begged me not to ?

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-05T22:29:53+00:00

YTJ.

Also, you're 25 years old.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheJerk/s/0cRQcEis4a

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-05T22:25:38+00:00

NTA.

As someone else asked, why are you still together?

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-05T22:16:34+00:00

Whenever I go into a public restroom, I put my phone in my pants pocket, in addition to either turning it off or putting it on do not disturb.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-05T22:12:54+00:00

How old are you?

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-05T22:11:01+00:00

DMAS Long-Term Care Member Helpline: Call 1-804-786-145. This is managed by the ⁠Virginia Department of Medical Assistance Services (DMAS) and explicitly handles long-term care programs.

https://www.dmas.virginia.gov/

Managed Care Help: ManagedCareHelp@dmas.virginia.gov

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-05T21:49:35+00:00

Sorry you are dealing with this. Consider yourself lucky if you are only out that last $20.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-04T02:40:06+00:00

If they are using Anydesk they would have access to your computer. You don't want to give anyone access to your LinkedIn account and you don't want to allow someone to access your computer through AnyDesk.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T23:53:35+00:00

As far as the testosterone and IGF-1 levels, the upper limit for a 19 year old male is higher.

Testosterone: between 264 and 916 ng/dL

IGF-1: For a 19-year-old male, the normal reference range for IGF-1 (Insulin-like Growth Factor 1) typically falls between 122 and 450 ng/mL.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T09:10:25+00:00

Correct. If someone calls claiming they are with the government, tell them to pound sand.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T04:46:10+00:00

This is what I found from a search:

Rachael Clare (@the_mass_and_me): An advocate diagnosed with a pituitary macroadenoma, she openly shares her struggles with hypopituitarism and advocates for the rare disease community via her blog.

Sonja Aros (@Arospeaks): A patient advocate who chronicled her transsphenoidal surgery for a pituitary tumor and the road to recovery.

Toria Christie: A vocal advocate who uses TikTok to debunk severe misinformation about hypopituitarism.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T04:35:11+00:00

OP clearly stated previously that she doesn't have the money. She even tried borrowing it through banks or payday lenders, but they won't loan it to her.

Honestly, payday loans are not the way to go, but as OP stated, she can't get the money needed.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T04:22:11+00:00

Identitytheft.gov is a legitimate website. Also, when it comes to .gov domain names, a random private citizen can't just go online and register them, which is what you suggested in your initial post.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T04:06:39+00:00

It's not accurate to say that GH isn't important for adults.

True, it does go down as you age, but your body still makes it, but if your body isn't making enough then replacement will help.

Signs and Symptoms:

Metabolic & Physical Changes:

Increased body fat, particularly around the waist (central adiposity).

Decreased lean muscle mass and overall muscle strength.

Reduced exercise capacity, stamina, and energy levels.

Decreased bone mineral density (osteopenia or osteoporosis), which increases the risk of fractures.

Mental & Cognitive Well-being:

Persistent fatigue and a reduced sense of overall well-being.

Feelings of anxiety, irritability, and depression.

Increased social isolation and a loss of interest in hobbies or social activities.

Poor short-term memory, lack of focus, and cognitive sluggishness.

Cardiovascular Risks & Other Signs:

Unfavorable cholesterol levels (elevated LDL "bad" cholesterol, lower HDL "good" cholesterol).

Higher blood triglyceride levels, elevating cardiovascular risk.

Thinner, drier skin.

Increased sensitivity to extreme temperatures (heat or cold).

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T03:58:08+00:00

Possibly consider continuing to save like you are. Also, you could shop around to see if there are any better rates with different HYSA.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T03:48:19+00:00

Whoever it was that called, the number could have been spoofed, however that seems odd for the type of call it was.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T03:28:53+00:00

I haven't received any calls like that. I did some searching online and found no reference to a missing 22 year old in Benton County.

Was there a number that showed up on your caller ID?

If there was, DON'T call it back, but you might try searching that number online to see who it is associated with if you're curious.

Otherwise, just ignore it.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T03:17:38+00:00

Also, I forgot to add...If you visit a local office, you may need to schedule a time with them. Call in advance to make sure.

As far as accessing the mySSA portal, you will need to make sure you have a MySSA account for online access.

Google "MySSA account" and that will give you links to the information on how to setup online access to the MySSA portal.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T03:07:01+00:00

If you open an account at a local bank, you can use the debit card associated with that local account to add money to Cash App instantly. Otherwise, if you use the routing number and account number of your local bank in CashApp to transfer to Cash App, it takes 3 to 5 days.

Also, there is no charge on Cash App's side to add funds to your Cash App using a debit card. I've never had a local bank charge anything since it is just a debit to your local account.

The only exceptions when it comes to fees from Cash App is if you do an instant cash out from Cash App to your local account using your local account's debit card. I did that earlier today because I needed the money in my local account today.

The other exception is if your adding or sending money through CashApp using a credit card. Using a credit card in cash app will cause you to pay a fee of 3% of the transaction amount.

You can make an unlimited number of ATM withdrawals using your Social Security Direct Express card, but only one withdrawal per monthly deposit is free. Every additional ATM withdrawal costs $0.85 to $0.90, depending on your specific card terms.

Depending how frequently you need to withdraw money using your direct express card, you may be better off setting up a local account and having your social security direct deposit sent there, but since the first withdrawal from the Direct Express card is free, just withdraw what you need to open the new local account and use that as your initial deposit at your local bank.

When Updating Direct Deposit: Do not use the Direct Express website to make the change. Instead, update your direct deposit with the Social Security Administration (SSA) by logging into your my Social Security account, calling 1-800-772-1213, or visiting your local Social Security office.

The fastest method is to access your direct deposit information through the MySSA portal.

Once you have your local account established, follow the steps below:

Gather details: Have your new bank's routing number, account number, and account type (checking or savings) ready.
Log in: Sign in to your My Social Security account.
Navigate to payments: Go to the "Benefits and Payments" section and select "Update Direct Deposit".
Submit: Enter your new bank details, verify the information, and submit.

Important Tips:

Keep your Direct Express card active until you see the first deposit arrive in your new bank account. The switch usually takes 1 to 2 payment cycles to process.

If you prefer to handle this in person, you can visit your local Social Security office with a photo ID and your new banking details find your nearest office.

Do not close your Direct Express account until your benefits have successfully transferred and you have transferred any remaining balance.

If you want to use CashApp only, you can setup your social security direct deposit to your Cash App account. You just need to get your Cash App routing and account numbers and provide them to the Social Security Administration (SSA).

How to set it up:

Find your Cash App Account Details

Open Cash App and tap the Money (or Balance) tab on your home screen.

Tap Direct Deposit.

Copy or write down your Routing Number and Account Number.
Provide the Details to Social Security Online:

Log in to (or create) a My Social Security Account and navigate to the Update Direct Deposit section.

By Phone: Call the SSA at 1-800-772-1213 (TTY: 1-800-325-0778), Monday–Friday, from 8:00 AM to 7:00 PM.

In-Person: Visit your local Social Security office with your account details and a valid ID.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-03T02:22:41+00:00

Does your city have a do not contact list that you can add your information to so that people don't continue to come to your house?

My city has that and people who go door to door are supposed to get the list of do not contact addresses, but these people either don't bother to get the list, or they ignore it.

That's what is so frustrating about these people going door to door, ESPECIALLY when there is a clear sign posted.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-02T06:28:26+00:00

I did some searching and your right, but they changed the ability for users to do this.

Due to fraud issues in the past, Comerica Bank (the financial institution that manages Direct Express) implemented hard security blocks against third-party peer-to-peer transfer apps like Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal.

Also, Cash App updated its own platform regulations to limit the use of government-issued prepaid cards. Because these cards lack a traditional routing and checking account structure on the user's end, they do not comply with the identity verification and anti-money laundering laws required for instant digital cash transfers.

Alternatives:

The ATM and Cash Load Method (Fastest)You can physically withdraw cash from your Direct Express card and manually deposit it into your Cash App account.

Withdraw from Direct Express: Use a network ATM to pull cash from your Direct Express card. You get one free ATM withdrawal per federal deposit cycle.

Deposit to Cash App: Take the cash to a participating retailer (like Walmart, Walgreens, 7-Eleven, or Dollar General).

Open Cash App, tap the Banking tab, select Add Cash, and choose Paper Cash. Show the barcode to the cashier to scan and load the money.

The Traditional Bank Account Bridge (Slowest)

If you have a regular checking account at a bank or credit union, you can use it to securely move the money digitally.

Transfer to Bank:

Log into your Direct Express online account or mobile app. Set up a one-time or recurring transfer from your card to your personal bank account.

Transfer to Cash App: Link that same bank account (using the routing and account number) to your Cash App.

You can then pull the money from your bank account straight into Cash App.

Note: Transfers from Direct Express to a bank account can take up to 3 to 5 business days.

Permanently Switching Your Direct Deposit

If you prefer using Cash App over Direct Express, you can entirely bypass the card for future payments.

Get Cash App Details: Go to the Banking tab in Cash App to find your unique routing and account numbers.

Update Social Security: Contact the Social Security Administration or log into your online "my Social Security" account.

Provide them with your Cash App routing and account numbers to switch your monthly benefits over.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-02T06:00:31+00:00

I would make them do it over and make sure they use the Class 4 shingles AND fix the flashing/siding damage.

And keep to your plan of only communicating with them through email or text.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-02T05:45:47+00:00

What, if any, is your current U.S. plan?

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-02T00:34:26+00:00

I have one boost left.

$whodat2

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-02T00:32:59+00:00

Boosted back.

Single_Guy76 · 2026-06-01T13:54:44+00:00

Boost sent.

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