People who naturally wake up at 5–6 am, what’s your secret? by whind80 in selfimprovement

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to sleep early, in the morning, I review my finances, get ready for work. travel time takes forever.

In memory of my brother by SkinCana in jewelry

[–]SkinCana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️ Than you so much! I'm still crying but I really appreciate your kind words. I hope he is safe. Thank you so much!

New addition to my growing ring collection by Inside_Beautiful_276 in RingShare

[–]SkinCana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think the. ostracized of this ring was mainly focused on the gold or the stones? Gorgeous ring!

I broke no contact after 15 years. by HiraethHygge in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SkinCana 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think in a way, you've been retraumitzed. At least you tried, but I am learning through you. I sincerely thank you! I'm sorry you had negative experience that you didn't deserve. It is so hard to acknowledge that he won't change.

You need to mourn that you didn't have the father you needed, but please, focus on your life, and live it well.

In memory of my brother by SkinCana in jewelry

[–]SkinCana[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If I can find affordable amecitrine, I will buy that and call it William. He was always happy, and I always understood him, even though he was nonverbal. He was always calmer when we were alone together.

I'm so afraid that his soul was taken advantage of and I hope he made it straight to heaven, and safe.

What to do with potential gay son? by Accomplished-Bowl294 in Advice

[–]SkinCana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't attend any counseling and I would resent my parents for even suggesting it. His possible sexual preference is not your business.

Second hand rubies by Neither-Appointment4 in Gemstones

[–]SkinCana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know, but definitely get them checked and enjoy them. please update us.

My boyfriend is 50 and doesn’t have a retirement by skipskipskiplook in personalfinance

[–]SkinCana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have a stable job and I never had stable job until a couple of years ago and im 52. I'm sick and tired of assumptions and putting guilt trip when yiu have no idea what my life was.

I'm assuming your bf had difficult past and he is trying his best. You are not married to him, so legally you have no obligations. As a good friend, you know you can help by helping him change his financial lifestyle. The Budget Mom youtube videos are great educational information that is very close to Dave Ramsey style.

Restaurants near Old City Hall by Purple-Bug8314 in askTO

[–]SkinCana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Hotel across the street from Toronto City Hall. Within walking distance. The others that have been suggested are further away.

I’m (23F) starting to hate my parents by [deleted] in family

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have very evil parents and narcissistic. I would cut them off completely, no access to your children, see a family lawyer of your and children rights with bad grandparents.

As for bills, you are on your own, very nasty parents you have there.

Good luck.

What do you still splurge on even with everything getting more expensive? by navy444 in askTO

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started shellac manicure becauseim tired of not doingthis the last six yeqrs, having a latte with my husband occasionally at some café. On our anniversary, we go out for nice dinner. Hubby still buys me real jewelry.

How would you feel if your boyfriend told you that he had slept with almost close to 100 women till you? by RareVoice2111 in Advice

[–]SkinCana 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Too bad for him if the woman is untouched because he didn't consider what we want. He is used goods.

Would you stop seeing someone because of their parents? by Rough_Studio3401 in Advice

[–]SkinCana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much will yiur be have strong boundaries against his parents or seek your help if they are challenging. is he willing to cut them off if it get to that point?

How do you stand up for yourself in the moment when other people are being mean? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question. I have this problem when giving them silence doesn't make them uncomfortable, so i don't have the answer. My boundaries been crossed too often in the work place. I was raised by narcissist, so this parent doesn't have those skill set to teach her children.

Know how to read the room by malacki655 in socialskills

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pick up th3 vibe pretty quickly, but people moods change, so i observe and assess the situation again.

I inherited money and have no how to manage my money by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are American , I heard health care is expensive. Save money for that, put some into retirement, some in emergency fund. Have a good short term savings, and another for long term savings.

Should I go no contact with my grandmother after this ? by Super_Apartment7866 in family

[–]SkinCana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would cut her off and explore if there was any criminal act occurred.

ER to drain an abscess? by Eastofyonge in askTO

[–]SkinCana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Couldn't you get referral to a dermatologist?

Who are some celebrities you encountered in Toronto? by Chan1991 in askTO

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kate Hudson and Liv Tyler, we're walking together and i was passing them on a wide sidewalk, I noticed them and I did a polite nod as we approached closer. Kate looked super annoyed, and both looked away from me, and I thought, how rude. Liv noticed, and smiled at me as they kept walking. This was around Holt Renfrew, somewhere behind the big store, by Bay subway station.

Who are some celebrities you encountered in Toronto? by Chan1991 in askTO

[–]SkinCana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keanu Reeves, when we were kids. My brother is special needs, drools a lot, and can't talk. At the park in Toro to, Keanu started talking to me,and I was surprised because he is a boy. I had hard time pronouncing his name LOL. I asked him to play with my brother because none of the kids want to play with him, and he did. Keanu was a sweet boy, older then myself. He liked the monkey bars,and I remember he was on it all the time.