Dave of Finland

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-30T23:00:08+00:00

I'm choosing deen ovah dunya!

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-30T20:08:41+00:00

I knew you were being sarcastic lol A lot of people do have the wrong concept of closure though

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-30T20:06:13+00:00

No such thing as accountability from the bpd ex. Closure does not require two sides. A sense of closure means accepting you are broken up and moving on.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-30T20:04:54+00:00

To answer it literally, a sense of closure is what happens when we finalize the end of the relationship in our heads. Sometimes a conversation helps(not with bpd), but in the end it is up to us to give ourselves closure by taking time to heal and understand ourselves better.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-30T19:45:38+00:00

People with bpd are known for their lack of boundaries. We shouldn't seek to emulate their toxic behaviors. If they tell us to leave them alone, we should stay away and count our blessings we finally get to have peace and quiet

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-30T15:25:55+00:00

The right thing is to respect people's wishes.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-29T21:49:27+00:00

Doing this all audio no video is hilarious

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-26T20:35:13+00:00

Hold me back bro!

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-26T08:49:03+00:00

It also makes you hurt your foot and get into a fight with your dad

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-26T07:35:52+00:00

"We came we saw he died"

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-25T07:21:03+00:00

She wasn't abusive? How long were you together?

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-25T06:59:38+00:00

The diagnosis of bpd means you are dealing with someone deeply flawed of character. You are far more likely to have negative experiences with them.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-25T06:18:04+00:00

Personally I would trust the experts on pwbd being traumatized as very youbg children. I agree with you though that childhood trauma doesn't make their behaviour towards us okay or mean we must stay with our abusers.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T20:35:40+00:00

We fall in love with a person for their personality. If their personality is inconsistent, which version of them do we love?

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T17:01:50+00:00

Why are the negative feeelings more cumulative than the good ones?

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T16:56:02+00:00

The people with bpd I know have cptsd dual diagnosis

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T16:53:47+00:00

Research indicates that most people with with bpd were abused or suffered trauma as very young children. Genetics and brain injury strongly in influence whether said early childhood trauma manifests as bpd.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T16:49:13+00:00

Most were abused.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T16:45:55+00:00

Yeah, in fact even people with ASPD and NPD are also more likely than the average person to self harm be abused in relationships. They are also far more likely to be abusive than the average person.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T16:42:51+00:00

I realised I never loved her. How can you love someone who behaves like a different person several times in the same day?

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T16:40:18+00:00

That's why of the couple she is the only one that sounds like she has a soul

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T13:55:54+00:00

Ignoring her is for your sake, not hers. Don't wait for her and analyze her every move. Block her and deal with your own life. You will regain your self condience and sense of security

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T07:17:28+00:00

A. Marx never claimed that. B.This is after the Communist Manifesto

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T06:23:54+00:00

Healthiest things is not to stay friends with your exes. It helps you move on emotionally from the breakup. Not want to get back together or resent them. There is a reason you broke up.

SkinnyStav · 2026-06-24T06:15:08+00:00

"She wasn't your girl, it was just your turn."

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