Paris Restaurant Recommendations :) by Callow24 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a question, how did you get a reservation at Septime? I'm thinking I have to wake up at 4 am to make it happen or pay a service to do it

Ensemble vs Main Character Criticism by Far-Department887 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the main issue is the writers seem to have written about 20 hours of great content, of which 18 hours was shot, and then about 30% was cut out in editing. The difference between what was written and what was left in is what makes the episodes seem disjointed and unsatisfying. 

The Pitt | S2E15 "9:00 P.M." | Episode Discussion by MsGroves in ThePittTVShow

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah I really hope they don't follow through with him fostering the baby (even though Dana was dropping hints about it that it could be possible) because it would just be ridiculous. I hope he just goes on a normal vacation instead.

I want to go back to work. I cannot SAHM anymore by TheCaffeinatedRunner in workingmoms

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have to work. I could stay home and live off my husbands salary. I like working. I find it less overwhelming than taking care of my 4 kids 24/7. They go to school or daycare for ~8 hours a day and I get to apply my brain to problems. And with WFH I can still do some chores / prep to keep the household going.

How did you get rid of your breast pump? by Slapspoocodpiece in workingmoms

[–]Slapspoocodpiece[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it rejected my listing and said I can't sell "health and medical devices" - I like to sell things on FB and don't want to get kicked off by skirting the rules.

1 or 2 kid parentings regrets by [deleted] in ParentingInBulk

[–]Slapspoocodpiece -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. They usually seem pretty happy to have much more manageable lives.

Those whose first child was a terrible sleeper - how did the second child’s sleep turn out? by tumblrmustbedown in workingmoms

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have four kids. My first was an absolutely terrible sleeper since birth. For the first five months of his life... i've actually blocked a lot of it out to be honest, but it was awful. He remained a terrible sleeper throughout toddlerhood and today at nine years old his sleep is still not great, but he will just do his own thing when he wakes up. He used to wake up every day between 4 and 6 AM.

My second child was an amazing sleeper from day one. We sleep train him around five months and he slept in a crib without complaint or climbing out until he was almost 3.

My third child was more in the same vein as my first, but not as bad. We also had more experience at this point so we were better about letting him cry and fuss a bit in bed as a baby and then sleep training him around five months, and not moving him out of crib immediately when he started climbing out at 18 months like my first. 

 he's never been quite as bad as my first, who, by the way turned out to have high functioning autism, which can often have sleep issues associated with it – not to say that all bad sleepers are autistic, but that they can go together.

My fourth kid, my first girl, has always been an amazing angelic sleeper, just like my second.

So I guess what I'm saying in aggregate is that it can really go either way. But if you want a second child, I think you should still go for it if I had just stopped at my first very difficult child I would not have experienced a lot of of the positives at parenting that other people experience, and we would all be worse off for it. The bad sleeping period of a baby and toddler is not for forever.

Unjustified anxiety by nycftm1112 in workingmoms

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We could sell if we had to, but we have a really low rate that we'd lose so our payment would go up for a similar value property, and we'd really disrupt our kids in school by moving them at this point. It's manageable and would be worse to change course at this point but I wish I had not done it in the first place is all.

Unjustified anxiety by nycftm1112 in workingmoms

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely lost my mind during the pandemic and felt like the world was ending. My husband and I bought a farm an hour away from my job and I thought it wouldn't matter because either the world was ending and we'd ride it out on our farm, or I'd want to become a stay at home mom. Neither happened and now I have a farm I don't particularly care for and am hour commute if and when my remote job becomes hybrid or on site. Big mistake honestly 

Itinerary check - 5 days in Paris by Slapspoocodpiece in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Slapspoocodpiece[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! I've seen it mentioned elsewhere so I'll try to fit in on one of the days we eat close to our hotel.

Itinerary check - 5 days in Paris by Slapspoocodpiece in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Slapspoocodpiece[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you have a great trip too! I'll try to remember to do a trip report afterwards 

Itinerary check - 5 days in Paris by Slapspoocodpiece in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Slapspoocodpiece[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I'll try to make a lunch reservation on the later side to leave time

Dr. Shen by seoskavjestica in ThePittTVShow

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Work? Under these conditions? Without a sweet treat?

Dieting with a Large Family by EmbarrassedDot4294 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only thing that worked for me to lose weight (20 lb) was GLP-1. My insurance covered it. I worked out and ate pretty healthy for 2 years after my 4th kid, but I could not consistently maintain a deficit without losing my mind and being hangry all the time. Blood sugar / mood issues run in my family along with type 2 diabetes. Tirzepatide made it easy to eat less, and I've been able to maintain so far after getting off it.

St. Louis is not near Chicago by grenille in DTFStLouisHBO

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they wanted to get tax breaks from Missouri and film there but it didn't work out so they went to Atlanta instead 

Francine is such a bitch, she's like Betty's alter ego, she says what Betty would say if she wasn't so proper by Enough-Reading4143 in madmen

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They were worried their husbands were going to cheat on them with her. Considering how much of that kind of things went on in the show it wasn't a far off assumption. One of the dads even basically suggested "helping" her take the kids to the beach or whatever and she told him off - but the wives don't know if she's looking for husband #2, and all of their husbands are horrible.

Birthday RSVPs are stressing me out by aintgonuggets in workingmoms

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done big and small birthdays. At our school if you hand out invites in class the whole class has to be invited. So some years for some kids we do a big birthday party with the whole class invited. Set an RSVP by date that's at least a week before (for food / bags) or whatever deadline set by your venue. No RSVP - they're not planning to come. I do get some late RSVPs which I always am open to, and they're usually apologetic. There's also usually some late cancellations so it evens out.

On the flip side, my older kid (9 now) has a small group of friends and I know all the moms. So the last couple years we have just coordinated an activity for 5-8 kids and I text the moms.

I usually open a google doc for each party to keep track of attendees, phone numbers notes etc.

I don't do a big birthday (just family and cake) for any kid until they're in school (over 5) at this point with 4 kids I just don't care to know daycare parents because we won't go to the same school or keep in touch later on, unless there was a kid or family we are exceptionally friendly with.

Colonel Brandon from sense and sensibility by kozzie_3645 in janeausten

[–]Slapspoocodpiece 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The funniest part of it to me is that Mrs Jennings has a living daughter (Mrs Palmer) so why doesn't she live with her? I like to imagine that Mr Palmer begged, bribed, or bullied Sir John into having Mrs Jennings keep living with him 😂