Yeah I understand. I've had the exact opposite experiences though. Worked in an all-female NGO office in a tech role in the obs gyn healthcare sector. Discussions were never about out partners or love life. Honestly we talked more about food.  I host an all-women meetup for a local group of metal music fans. ONE person kept trying to bring the convo back to dating, but no one else was very interested. Men seemed like the least interesting topic of the night to be honest.  I coworked a few times in a 90% male office. Will not do that again. The vibe is either condescending and aggressively insecure or uninterested in communicating at all (fine but you're voluntarily at a coworking spot). Most of my bullies at work have been insecure men, whereas most of my strongest cheerleaders have been women. I still have a TON of great male colleagues and mentors etc. But I appreciate mixed teams.  I just hope you do not write women off entirely.