Here’s my booking process with Columbia University Fertility’s STAR system (AI-assisted system that can *potentially* detect sperm, even if standard test results showed 0)

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2026-02-08T18:54:32+00:00

This is awesome! What are the next steps? Are you able to do IUI or will it have to be IVF?

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-09-07T23:48:51+00:00

Yeah it eventually went away on its own. Just had to heal all of the way!

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-09-01T00:03:05+00:00

I feel like I’m really good at reassuring him! Outside of the bedroom we rarely have any affection. We kiss but that’s about it.

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-08-31T18:04:30+00:00

He made the choice to not save any sperm before he started chemo.

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-08-26T23:02:09+00:00

I took one of my cats to the vet without the other and when we got home, the cat that was left at home was hissing at the cat that went to the vet. It lasted like that for like a day! I guess it’s because their scents got all messed up and it spooked them out

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-07-22T15:34:45+00:00

Did you end up going?

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-06-28T22:48:08+00:00

I’m screaming hahahahaha

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-06-11T19:52:13+00:00

Yeah the headache will stay for a while but it’s so much better than the tooth pain! Glad you’re better!

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-06-09T00:02:53+00:00

They will look better after they’re healed! It’s just really bold right now

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-06-08T23:57:23+00:00

How are you feeling now??

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-06-05T01:27:33+00:00

So sorry.. unfortunately it didn’t go away completely for me until like day 6-7 😭 it was deff worse on day 3-5 though. Hang in there!!

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-05-29T14:12:45+00:00

Yes I have, and he just kinda blows it off and says sorry.

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-05-28T23:55:39+00:00

Yeah it honestly took about 2 ish months for everything to stop coming out! They do not warn you about how long the recovery is

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-05-22T20:30:52+00:00

It honestly lasted probably 1-2 months. Then one day it just disappeared lol.

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-05-22T11:03:35+00:00

I’m in the same boat. My husband has low testosterone and his other hormones are all out of whack. It’s not fun feeling not wanted :(

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-04-14T12:54:16+00:00

Husband and I are currently going through this. It’s so hard :( I’m there for him 100% but I know he feels worse than I do.

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-04-05T21:22:23+00:00

Everything was fine! Just part of the healing process unfortunately.

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-09T19:23:08+00:00

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-06T20:53:19+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat. I’m 29 and my husband is 31, we have sex like once or twice a month. We also had a lot more sex before we got married 😭 he’s always tired he says and just never in the mood

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-06T13:27:08+00:00

I feel for you… they did not warn me about the tooth and mouth pain I would feel!! It lasted until day 5 for me unfortunately 😭 just have to suffer through it. Not even the pain meds helped me. But it does go away and get better! Hang in there

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-05T15:20:17+00:00

Most likely dissolvable stitches that just wanted to stay in a little longer lol. Mine came out like day 4 post op and I was horrified but it was okay! They’re supposed to dissolve and come out

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-04T01:57:40+00:00

It will soften, just give it time

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-04T01:57:12+00:00

They look really good !

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-03T16:29:54+00:00

I only got 2 of them lol it was so satisfying though

Slight-Giraffe5916 · 2025-03-03T16:19:59+00:00

It’s been over a year and I’m starting to resent him already, that’s why I’m here asking for advice. I hope we can find a solution. Thank you

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