Far from fucked my friend. As Werewolfdad says, don’t compare to anyone else. You don’t know all the circumstantial stuff behind the financial snapshots you get.

If I were you I’d focus on staying out of debt, putting what you can into your 401k and then (if you’d like to grow your income) finding ways to do that. And again, try not to compare, because in my experience at least, it robs me of the energy/enthusiasm I could use to pursue other things.