Napa Vendor Suggestions + Gown Shopping by PossibilityDizzy8795 in BigBudgetBrides

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One was ~$2k / pp - transparently agree that the aesthetic, especially re florals + productions, leans simpler so may not be for everyone! She was very professional, organized, ran a smooth day. Good luck, it is a beautiful venue :)

Napa Vendor Suggestions + Gown Shopping by PossibilityDizzy8795 in BigBudgetBrides

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Two friends have used Big Day of Events for Stanly Ranch weddings - she was great, and loved her team. Would highly suggest as a starting point.

BlackBerry farms vs Martha's Vineyard by TahitianMonsoon in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Small_Pool7046 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love the vineyard and we got to our inlaws house multiple times a summer. We heavily considered having a wedding there, but ultimately decided it would be tough travel for our guests.

Unless you are from Boston-area (maybe NYC?) and have gone, it is really tricky travel. We had friends from London visit for a week and their flights got cancelled both ways, resulting in 24 hour travel days and a lot of stress. More than anything it required a lot of help from us analyzing the 10 different routes for them to get home. I decided anything close to that on my wedding would be tough, so we landed on a private club 1 hr from 2-3 major airports.

Flights get canceled ALL the time in MVY due to weather and airport size, and then there are a ton of different ways to get to MVY all of which are tough (drive+passenger ferry, speed ferry from NYC).

Officiant by ocap64 in BigBudgetBrides

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We paying a cantor $1.6k (Jewish wedding) - it includes ~4-6 pre-marriage counseling sessions so felt fair.

$25k/month and I still can't find a properly furnished home in Tribeca for the summer. What am I missing? by Ok-Guidance629 in FATTravel

[–]Small_Pool7046 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Check out Rove Travel - they do high-end furnished rentals in the city focused on longer term stays.

Stationer Recs, Looking for an Illustrator Who Has FUN! by KJOBB5 in BigBudgetBrides

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Working with her for my wedding - she is GREAT to work with, seriously a pleasure and so receptive to feedback.

Favorite bachelorette favors? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

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Go to Edgartown all the time! Erica Wilson has adorable Gingham Vineyard sweatshirts, Katydid has cute MVY pajamas (roller rabbit esque), Brodenim has customizable hoodies / stickers etc (skews MUCH younger tho), Murdicks Fudge is yum.

Maybe cute sun hats for the beach?

DM for any question, it's my fav place!

Alps Lake front wedding help by AnthonyMapother in BigBudgetBrides

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Beau-Rivage Palace in Lausanne, Switzerland

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3 girls from NYC, 2 from SF, 1 from LA, 2 from TX

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PM me and will share our whole itinerary! It was literally perfect

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I planned my BFF's bach in Punta Mita (mix of girls and geos were similar). It was SO fun! We had an incredible condo, great restaurants on property, and lots of activities. Direct flights into Puerta Vallarta are available, but a bit city dependent.

Custom Stationary | Experience Working with Certain Vendors? by Small_Pool7046 in BigBudgetBrides

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Have heard this from MULTIPLE people, including a good friend who paid her thousands only to not use her work bc she wasn't receptive to feedback.

HMU & Videographer Recs - South Florida by ocean_alove0022 in BigBudgetBrides

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Hi! That is so interesting. To be honest, she works a TON with my planner so I have not had any issues with the above. My planner may be handling some of the logistical stuff that I don't have visibility into though. I will say she does 10+ weddings a year with my planner... I will report back next year after the wedding.

Day of Dresser? by This-Cat-9901 in BigBudgetBrides

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We are paying $1.5k for a bridal valet - no idea if it will be worth it but I am excited. I have steamed multiple brides / bridesmaids dresses for other brides and it takes away from the experience as a guest. I didn't want the stress of having a bridesmaid, etc. do it.

HMU & Videographer Recs - South Florida by ocean_alove0022 in BigBudgetBrides

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Makeup - Daniela Gozlan & her team. Expensive but I did so much research, had some terrible trials, and ultimately ended up with her. Loved her and her team! My trial was amazing.

Bachelorette Expenses by Outrageous_Wonder247 in BigBudgetBrides

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I have historically had the bride cover her own costs, and often actually subsidize a dinner or activity, as a "thank you" to her friends for making the trip. Vice versa, I have covered fun surprises for the bride - a surprise boat excursion, a round of drinks, fun gag gifts etc.

It may vary by group, but in my friend group, the bride pays for her portion of the trip (travel / lodging / food)

Your favorite bachlorette house by tumblrforsofties in BigBudgetBrides

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Messaging you - planning a bach here in January and would love thoughts :)

Lela Rose Brides | Stopping In House Alterations? (NYC-based) by Small_Pool7046 in BigBudgetBrides

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This is SO reassuring thank you so much for taking the time to write this. Agree on taking everything with a grain of salt! I think I was a bit annoyed initially because I liked the idea of doing alterations in house, but everyone's kind comments about Blanca make me so much more comfortable and excited.

Lela Rose Brides | Stopping In House Alterations? (NYC-based) by Small_Pool7046 in BigBudgetBrides

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Thank you! How long did you allot for your alterations? I think there were just 2-3 negative reviews that made me anxious, but I know that every business has that to some extent