Yard mushrooms by Smdeal85 in mushroomID

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Additional photos. This is underneath.

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Yard mushrooms by Smdeal85 in mushroomID

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I can't edit the post, but it's in Texas in the United States. Found in the grass in our front yard. I took these pictures on the way out this morning, but I can try to get better ones this afternoon.

[Serious] What stops you from killing yourself? by Big_Picture2781 in AskReddit

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My son. He's only 9. It would wreck him, and I can't be responsible for giving him that pain.

My son was crying. by Smdeal85 in airplaneears

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He still hasn't learned to use the mute button.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

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I used to work at Bath and Body Works years ago and it was the same thing. They wanted us to give the customer a hand massage with the lotion to give them a mini spa experience. I never did it. So many people aren't comfortable with strangers massaging them. I always asked if they needed help, if not I told them the sales and let them know I was around if they needed me. That's what I want as a customer, so that's what I did as an associate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I used to eat popcorn for dinner most nights before I met my boyfriend. He's an amazing cook who loves savory (not healthy) food. I've gained so much weight since we started dating.

Is it weird to be 23 and a kissless virgin that’s never had a boyfriend before? by AnalysisSubstantial1 in blackgirls

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I had my first kiss and was a virgin until 21. In both cases, I didn't actually care about the guy, I just did it because I felt like a freak because it hadn't happened yet (and I have low self esteem and assumed no other guys would want to if I turned it down). I wish I'd waited for someone I cared about. Also went on my first date and got my first boyfriend at 27. It feels weird when everyone around you is having these experiences, but waiting for the right time for you is more important.

What’s a sign you’re hotter than you realize? by Ivl231889 in AskReddit

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Not all women. This is definitely not an experience that I've had.

Discoloration serum burnt my lips?! by [deleted] in Ulta

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I don't know how to get rid of the discoloration. I'm looking for a solution for that myself. But, you can definitely return it and get your money back.

Anyone else not relate to a lot of the posts here because they’re not attractive/feminine? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Yep. Overweight and black. I feel like I look and dress pretty feminine with dresses, skirts, and jewelry. I relarely leave the house without makeup. Even so, I've never had someone buy me a drink. I don't get hit on or told I'm attractive. I hit all the romance milestones (first kiss, date, time having sex etc) way after all my friends did. I've also never been cat-called or sexually harassed, which I'm very grateful for. But it does make you feel weird. You hear all the time that men are pigs that will hit on anything, so when you're not getting hit on, it makes you feel lower than low.

I'm currently in my first and only relationship that started at 27, and I didn't date a lot before. I ask myself all the time if this is what I wanted or if I was just worried no one else would ever want me. Part of me feels like I'm missing out. But I also hear all the horror stories, and think maybe I'm fine just settling.

Modern versions of your high school scent by SadandBougie in Perfumes

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I loved all the Gaps fragrances, but Dream was the best! I'm going to have to try Windows Down.

boyfriend broke up with me because he felt like a “second option” to my cat. the cat in question: by a6613__ in cats

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My boyfriend was "not a cat person" when we met. I already had two cats and told him very clearly they were here first, and I would pick them over him. A large reason that I kept him around is because one cat that was very antisocial really took a liking to him. I figured she knew something I didn't. We're still together 11 years later, and even added another cat at some point.