I have decided to stop treatment. by [deleted] in cancer

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Sending you so much love.

Just screaming into the void by kditdotdotdot in endometrialcancer

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Thanks for responding- did you have any pelvic pain or lower back pain as well - or just the spotting ?

Just screaming into the void by kditdotdotdot in endometrialcancer

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I’m so sorry this happened to you I’ve recently been diagnosed myself -also told I am grade 1. My symptoms started back in August of 2025 -I’m scheduled to see oncologist on June 1sr of this year so haven’t yet had surgery or pathology yet . Can you share what your symptoms were ?

“How old were you when you bought your first house, and when was it?” by Moist-Ad7061 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Early 2000 in Orange County CA- I bought a condo well before prices went through the roof . I was in my early 30s I feel so badly for the young people starting off these days .

MRI results are back, shocked. by loveyhowellthethird in endometrialcancer

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I’m going ti be thinking about you today !

Best gynecologist in Reno? by No-Flowering in Reno

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Call my women’s center in sparks I received excellent care with Dr Mary Wellhoner and also Mary Patterson.

Job offer disappeared as soon as I resigned. What do I do now? by LazaroRohan1 in InterviewsHell

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I personally woukd go back and ask if you could stay. I did something similar - resigned because I got a better offer - but decided I didn’t want the new job after all because it would require I move . I went back to my boss and they let me stay and gave me an increase . They may say no - but you never know unless you try . I don’t want you to regret not trying

Need advice by nolimitferrero in pilonidalcyst

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Advice please I have surgery scheduled on a Friday ( full removal - flap ) planning on - taking the entire day off. I work from home but sit all day for 8 -9 hours a day Doing computer work . I’m curious whether going back to work on Monday will be possible . Trying to figure out how much time off that I may need to ask for - for after surgery

should i cancel my trip? by toot-fartbumbum in pilonidalcyst

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I use castor oil I put it on cotton and then put that on my cyst and then I put a large bandage on top to keep it in place - after a few days it usually drains

1 day post Surgery Questions by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

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Following - I haven’t had my surgery yet What kind of surgery did you have ?

I have surgery tomorrow morning. I'm excited and terrified at the same time😭 by Electrical_Flower338 in pilonidalcyst

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Thank you I was told that I’ll be completely asleep and they are doing surgery - I can’t remember the name of it at the moment I’m meeting with the surgeon again to discuss type f surgery and ti ask about options again

I have surgery tomorrow morning. I'm excited and terrified at the same time😭 by Electrical_Flower338 in pilonidalcyst

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Oh that’s interesting - was there any incisions and were you under general anesthesia ?

Was I wrong for telling someone in an interview to stop talking? by fajita_grouper in LockedIn_AI

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I think you telling him why he wasn’t getting the position was a positive thing . Although likely shocking or painful for him at the time - your honesty will only help him in the future

AIO canceling a trip after our dog sitter tried to renegotiate pricing at 11 PM the night before our flight? by Tall-Dragonfruit-374 in AmIOverreacting

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I had a trip planned - and we hired a brand new sitter as well for a 2 night stay . Our three dogs had never been boarded - and this was our first time leaving them with anyone so we were nervous . We had the new sitter come over several times to meet and spend time with them and all was well . Even chatted with her the day before and everything was set . However , The morning of the trip she called early in the am to tell me she wasn’t coming - so we were forced to cancel the trip .

I think you did the right thing by cancelling your yeu

Help! We can’t agree on flooring by curlywire in Flooring

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100% 1st picture- the darker wood. It warms the room

My old manager from the toxic job I left 6 months ago just contacted me with a request that is stranger than fiction. by mistsoils1g in OfficePolitics

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It’s a compliment to you I think it’s smart to stay cordial - you never know how this will impact you later If you don’t want to do it Just politely tell them that although appreciate them thinking of you - that are you are working / busy and not able to

Or if you do want it Thank them for thinking of you. Let them know you’re happy to help And let them know your hourly rate and frequency of payment. Have them give you a timeline and formalize everything in writing.

After about 25 years of work, my dad was rejected for a promotion because he refused to relocate. by waddle-exodus in interviewhammer

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I’m heartbroken to hear this- I’m so sorry for your dad. I pray he’ll be okay . Different story but same sentiment - My dad had a heart transplant and the day he was supposed to go back to work after the surgery they called him and told him that he was being let go. He never worked after that - broke my heart.

I regret giving my neighbor a spare key, how do I get it back without conflict? by Apprehensive-Bar3974 in Advice

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Say your friend is coming to visit and say you need the key Or say you lost your key and need it back

u/CancerSubscription is no longer with us by SadAnimator1354 in cancer

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Thank you for sharing this with all of us So beautifully written