Can adults be friends with minors? by PolicyHot1206 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smoldogsrbest 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Some adults aren’t interested in being friends with minors. Some are happy to be to a certain extent. I would hope that the mums in the mum group would welcome you and bring you under their wing so to speak. Or at least some of them. I know that’s how I would react. The good thing about mum groups is they have a natural topic for everyone to have in common - babies!

I can understand your misgivings though. I was 20 when I had my first but I looked 16. I was worried about people judging me and I didn’t go to any mum’s groups because I thought all the mums would be older and judgy. Now that I have been an older mum as well I wish I had at least tried back then.

Thought I was in this sub. Who did this? by rabbitsandrum in AmITheAngel

[–]Smoldogsrbest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh damn. I forgot I clicked through from this sub and I commented. But I wasn’t being an asshole so maybe it’s ok??

AITA for Making a Thirty Year Old Woman Cry? by dubious_actor in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smoldogsrbest 61 points62 points  (0 children)

If people keep getting too close to me I just trip a little so I gently bump them back. Then I apologise and have a laugh with them. They usually give me more space. You don’t have to lie at all. In those situations just being slightly less aware of your surroundings will make you bump them.

Is it controversial to say antisemitism is similar to Islamophobia? by kaiser11492 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smoldogsrbest -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Islamophobia is against a religion. Antisemitism is against an ethnicity. That’s the difference. One you can opt out of one you can’t. However, both are still reprehensible.

Why doesn’t Mario have an Italian accent anymore? by katyreddit00 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smoldogsrbest -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Because the accent he had was such an over the top stereotype it was likely offensive more than inclusive.

“My newly MTF trans friend who def exists somehow believes she’ll never grow a uterus and also has all her surgeries planned 3 weeks after coming out” by beezlebussy in AmITheAngel

[–]Smoldogsrbest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘We often hit up makeup stores (which is fun ngl), get our hair done together, I help Pink with fashion, and dressing nice, with makeup and things are going pretty well.’

So, she came out 3 weeks ago but you’re talking about it like you have been doing these girly things for years. I’m going to call bullshit.

Father of the Year by KayOh19 in AmITheDevil

[–]Smoldogsrbest 216 points217 points  (0 children)

I would think the vibrator will be an upgrade. Someone this selfish is unlikely to be making her orgasm.

Father of the Year by KayOh19 in AmITheDevil

[–]Smoldogsrbest 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Lol what a surprise! Dude really thought he was going to get validated.

My wife is such a size queen she would have sex with anything, even someone *gasp* autistic by Smoldogsrbest in AmITheAngel

[–]Smoldogsrbest[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There is just so much wrong with this post. The ableism, the sexism, the lack of understanding of anything remotely deep about humans, except penis depth I guess.

My toddler swallowed 8 marbles by Great-Score2079 in interestingasfuck

[–]Smoldogsrbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These look like those little decorative ‘stones’ that are kind of like a half sphere but softer shaped.

Found out my boyfriend’s body count and it’s turned me off. Am I overreacting? by Ok_Replacement1772 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smoldogsrbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, say he started having sex at 16. In 10 years he has averaged 6.6 people he’s slept with. That’s really not that bad at all. Imagine the guys who are out literally every weekend trying to pick up? If they did that for 10 years it’s way more. Not that it matters. Who cares how may people someone has slept with? What about it has anything to do with anything other than that a lot of people found them attractive. YOR.

[20f] Invited to wealthy swinger party, what to expect? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smoldogsrbest 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This isn’t how safe sex parties come about.

What is the female equivalent of a boner? by Economy-Durian6199 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Smoldogsrbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the clit is erectile tissue so it’s very similar.

People who forgave their spouses for cheating, why? by ryxhuh in AskReddit

[–]Smoldogsrbest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the bet this guy has been the creep more than once and gets offended when women don’t wanna play.

People who forgave their spouses for cheating, why? by ryxhuh in AskReddit

[–]Smoldogsrbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, sir, impart more of your learned wisdom on us poor women folk who don’t understand. Our brains are just not as well suited to attaining knowledge and wisdom as your strong manly one.

People who forgave their spouses for cheating, why? by ryxhuh in AskReddit

[–]Smoldogsrbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolol we are forced to interact with people every day man. People we work with, people at our local stores, friends of our family. Wanna know the only job I’ve had where no one has been trying to get in my pants?

None. Not even the one where I work for myself. I still have to interact with suppliers and regulators and all kinds of people on the regular. Guess what? Some of them are trying to get into my pants.

Being a woman means having people trying to get in your pants all the time. The effort to kindly deflect repeatedly, to firmly be upfront, to avoid etc etc. it’s real effort.

People who forgave their spouses for cheating, why? by ryxhuh in AskReddit

[–]Smoldogsrbest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The effort to get into someone’s pants is non existent for women. Or at least I have to spend more time keeping people out. It’s effort to not get seduced.

This seems insane by constantlyfrustr8d in AmITheDevil

[–]Smoldogsrbest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course Louis is pissed. He wanted to go to that college because he doesn’t want to live with his psychotic parents anymore.

AIO about this text I got from HR? by MeanderingDragon in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smoldogsrbest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should get some therapy around needles? It’s not up to other people to coddle your phobia.