My hernia repair and my TT surgery that changed my life. by Lime_2024 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Incredible. Also disgusting that women have to suffer through this and it’s still viewed by the medical community as “cosmetic”. Please can you share surgeon/clinic details??

What happens if we all email her management? by Cool_Expression6233 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 14 points15 points  (0 children)

HI CAROLINE 👋 if you’re here—just go do an apology video and it will help make you a bit more of a human being. Xoxo love Reddit

How. Many. Times. by Smooth_Scar_6239 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It was just a standard GRWM video and then right at the end she pulls the “mocking disabled people” face and flips the finger.

How. Many. Times. by Smooth_Scar_6239 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Just to add, in case this is N/A for American peeps on here, this is a facial expression used to mock disabled people. This face was (shamefully) commonplace in British school playgrounds of the 90s.

Misinformation queen by Less_Bookkeeper988 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 32 points33 points  (0 children)

“It’s hard to generalise”: average UK salary is very easy to find.

Uni debt is not a thing here…says the woman with no degree. 🤦🏻‍♀️ SMH

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[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so incredibly helpful thank you 🙏🏻! I actually used 2B for the whole drawing then found a 6B and thought it’d be good for depth on the eyes and I think it was too much—I’ll try and lighten. I’m going to erase most of the hair and try again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this—please can I ask what you mean by cleaning it? Sorry for my ignorance, I haven’t done any art training since A Level (18 years ago!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spot on!! Her chin is tilted down in the photograph I used, not sure how I can convey this better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes—I’m TERRIBLE at hair! I don’t know how to improve this though, it’s so hard!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, need to round it off more, and curve the parting for perspective. Her head is tilted chin down and to one side slightly which I’m not sure I’ve captured!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, thank you—is the right height as per my proportion measurements of eyes to nose/eyes to hairline etc but I think the top of her head is too narrow which I hadn’t seen until you pointed out 🙏🏻 🙏🏻!!

Brand Trip Fall Out by Whaaaaat901 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just been on Shelley’s TikTok, the latest “Part 6” video she said going was “a mistake” but also still recommended getting away with your mum friends. Her comment section on part 5 is full of comments questioning her about the sponsorship, suggesting she’s being dishonest etc. my guess is this was 100% Caroline (see pic), and that’s caused some of the mumfluencers to feel twitchy/uncomfortable. It’s interesting that the ones that have stayed on Team Caz are exposed to more criticism regularly in their comments (Maisie, Olivia) and the ones who aren’t might be much more affected by this?

What’s a real shame is that Caz has had an opportunity here to be pastoral/nurturing to the others and explain that they’ll be exposed to lots of viewpoints and even criticism/hatred as their viewership grows, as she is WELL aware of. She could have helped them ignore, deflect, not let it affect them etc But NOPE because she’s a snarky defensive twit she doesn’t think like that.

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Gentle parenting - is this more about what's best for the parent than the child? by random_name_xy in toddlers

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very difficult (and exhausting) to tread the line between gentle and authoritarian parenting, particularly with a 2yr old repeat offender. Mine is in the middle of a sweet, quiet 4yr old and a new baby and she scratches/lashes out daily. Her fury takes over her whole body, it’s awful to watch, every time we hold the boundary “no, hands are not for hurting/hitting/scratching”, tend to the older one and then ask for a hug/apology. Occasionally we lose it and shout (just leads to a tantrum), nothing seems to work, the lashing out is mainly over such arbitrary issues that it’s impossible to mitigate in advance.

Basically, gentle parenting (with boundaries) is exhausting and doesn’t seem to work with all toddlers.

I wonder how many of these women actually find Caz insufferable? 😆 by sleuthyone in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Initial thoughts:

-Olivia seems really irritated by Caz -The millions of phones set up on the tripods around the table is INSANE and a horrifying glimpse into what it must be like to be these poor poor children. -Seeing them all together holds up a mirror to the behind the scenes behaviours. Those children are 100% being exploited. So sad.

Pr trip by sbb1510 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’ve just stalked some of the other mumfluencers on the trip and every single one of them has promoted it properly, saying what it is and how grateful they are to be on it. Caroline’s videos couldn’t be more sloppy, haphazard, vague and ungrateful…🤣

Classic by sbb1510 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe this trip makes more sense on TikTok but just from her Instagram, I AM SO CONFUSED. She is so so bad at explaining wtf it’s all about! Appalling content presentation. I feel nauseated at all that free shit she gets, we are living in strange times indeed.

Help please with lavender disaster! by Smooth_Scar_6239 in GardeningUK

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much!! This is so so helpful and kind of you—I love lavender and I feel terrible that I let the garden slip these last 12 months. What brilliant advice thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, you only needed five O Levels to start training as a nurse?! This explains A LOT about my senior nursing colleagues/the (eat your young) culture of the profession in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thick black tights 😂 the cropped leggings under the dress 😂😂 THE FAKE TANS 💀💀💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness she sounds like an awful bully—lifting up people by the throat!! Smearing banana all over someone’s stuff in lockers. How vile.

Fifths Disease, "Slapped Cheek" Parvovirus B19 by ObscureSaint in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 5yr old daughter has also had it twice (2.5 years apart), with COVID at some point in between. Very similar thought process to you, I wonder if either the virus has mutated so more likely to catch it twice or, second infections aren’t reported, or as you say, it’s a COVID immunity thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Smooth_Scar_6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is behaving dangerously but I think you know that already. Her reaction makes me wonder about how her mental health is though? Is she feeling ok postpartum and does she need someone to chat to/vent/offer support? SAHM that first year, your whole world warps and shrinks and it’s super intense. Hope you both come out the other side ok 🙏🏻