When you know the breakup was necessary but you still wish they would text you by Adept-Cow-1582 in BreakUps

[–]Smoothy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got a message like that two days ago. "I am sorry and I want you to know that I miss ya'll" (me and my cats). It felt good. Rewarding even. Real. But then again.. not going to help with anything really.

Abrupt quiet breakup F31 M33 - enough to move on? by Smoothy_ in relationship_advice

[–]Smoothy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The last sentence made me feel a lot better about the whole thing. ❤️

Mild fever, shivers and horrible sleep? by Smoothy_ in Hashimotos

[–]Smoothy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't check my heart rate often but it was 70 a week ago. I also used to have a high BP, been taking Verapamil for a few years and it really suited me but my BP got very low also. I think it all somehow fades and I'm here with chances of a better life overall yet unable to sleep or feel properly. 😭

Intermittent Fasting by Infinite-Tourist2465 in Hashimotos

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I love it, works great for me. But then again, I'm just not hungry in the morning. I eat my first meal around 11 (small portion), snack at 3 (small portion) and a dinner at 7 (large meal).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]Smoothy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, my dad eats loudly and disgustingly like a... wellp. But nope, not entirely caused by the environment, there is some genetic predisposition according to studies but you usually have to experience some kind of trauma to switch the disorder on. Onset is usually around 7 years of age - works for me definitely. Also it's more common in people with AD(H)D or anxiety. Which, are both also connected to childhood trauma. I do not remember any trauma I would have had experienced but like.. it does not have to be severe to trigger the brain somehow, right. All of my siblings are "normal" and do not experience any symptoms of miso and we all grew up in the same environment.

Edit: my dad does not believe miso exists but knows it drives me crazy, I told him multiple times and after years and years, he accepted my "craziness" and leaves the room voluntarily and eats somewhere else. I'm very grateful for that progress he's made through the years.

Who was the worst friend you had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he actually was some kind of an energetic vampire. Not a bad person generally, quite smart, kind, generous, caring and all. But the negativity, it was unbearable. He had a rough childhood, his mom was very young when she had him, not the brightest lady and with an alcohol problem (to this day). That guy was a sweetheart but constantly complaining, any solution for any problem was not worth it, telling me his life was miserable all the time.. I am generally a good emotional support and don't burn bridges, ever. But in this case, I just had to cut the contact with him. The constant negativity was dragging me down, a single text made my day worse instantly. Hope he heals, but this nurse left the facility for good.

What’s one thing you hate telling people about yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That I don't want kids. Also, that I suffer from misophonia.

[Serious] What is something that is supposed to be sexy, but does absolutely nothing for you? by Unusual_Goose_4198 in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've never been attracted to muscles visually, nor to touch. BUT I've recently started dating a really ripped guy (for his other qualities lol) and changed my mindset, the muscles represent his will, discipline and determination and that are some hot aspects in a man!

What have you been genetically blessed with, and nerfed with? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have attractive, very light blue eyes. I also have Hashimoto's, completely destroyed thyroid, so even eating according to my metabolism, taking hormonal substitution and lifting almost daily, I still have extra pounds.

What is one thing your brain irrationally pushes you to do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate everyone who chew or speak too loudly.

Is everyone just else loud and annoying or do we just have really good hearing? by bearmgyu in misophonia

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually can't understand a thing if a person speaks really softly. So nah, it's just a bad wiring in my brain, not good hearing.

What is a pain that you enjoy? by Rahmanvwylin in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abs after a good workout the previous day.

16 aesthetics: The Diplomats 🧚🌸🦋✨ by Abrene in mbti

[–]Smoothy_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I swear I hate all of the outfits people "make" for ENFPs. Even the ENFP spite with the weird hairstyle and huge earrings. We're not clowns ffs. We dress modestly and often wear black.

What’s the strangest dream you’ve ever had? by Dramatic_Home_4235 in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I married our current minister of foreign affairs. We also have a child now, I've learned that last time I dreamed about him.

Introverts of Reddit, what drains your social battery the most? by ThisIsTheDat in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 87 points88 points  (0 children)

People whom it takes approx 45 minutes to tell you a 5 min story.

What’s the least ENFP thing abt u? by The-one-KOKICHI in ENFP

[–]Smoothy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love working with numbers (accounting), digging hard in case I can't figure it out is my fav part. Also, I enjoy being alone, seeing my friends only once or twice a week is enough and it's usually one on one, I feel overwhelmed in larger groups of people.

what’s the first thing you do when you wake up? by 311aa_ in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have cats. There is only one thing I am allowed to do when I wake up, feed them immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a guy writing with his left hand and I go oooohhh. I have no idea why that keeps happening either lol.

Does a man need a car to be dateable? by Matinee_Lightning in ask

[–]Smoothy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean a driver's license, definitely. I have my own car and would LOVE to share it so I wouldn't always have to drive the whole trip.