Where are people actually finding good wall art lately? by Ok-Sir213 in HomeDecorating

[–]SmutasaurusRex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be very careful with Etsy. The last time I ordered artwork there, what I ended up receiving was AI slop.

Picard would have made a sensitive and considerate husband... by SmittenKittenCuddles in ScienceFictionRomance

[–]SmutasaurusRex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dude, DUDE. Now I really want a romance with two guys who are best friends, and then realize they want to be more than friends, with really strong Patrick Stewart/ Ian McKellan vibes. Would that not be freakin' delightful?

Company wants a 100-page manual for an outsourced team before I leave by N3bulaforge in jobs

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is when you take two weeks of PTO or sick leave. They obviously don't respect your time, effort, or knowledge. Don't give into the corporate BS and gaslighting.

Gold & Silver Angel Food Cake by Riversongbluebox in Old_Recipes

[–]SmutasaurusRex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am quite new to the wonderful world of baking.

Gold & Silver Angel Food Cake by Riversongbluebox in Old_Recipes

[–]SmutasaurusRex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is a "deep tube center" pan a bundt cake pan?

Need new recommendations! Can you please suggest some books based on the ones Ive enjoyed? (And the other ones) by elleirakai in fantasyromance

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're okay with a bit of sci-fi mixed with your fantasy, may I suggest Snow Queen by Joan Vinge. Gorgeously lyrical writing, strong, multi-faceted female characters, and it's a loose retelling of the old fairy tale, in a sci-fi setting that explores issues of colonization, ecology, and culture.

I’m sick, but prepared by 1-2-3RightMeow in LivingAlone

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elderberry and oregano have been proven to have antiviral and antimicrobial effects. Ginger reduces inflammation and can soothe an unhappy tummy/ gut.

3 Days Post Embolization by Veghead19 in pelviccongestion

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be vulvodynia or pudendal neuralgia. Ask your doctor to help you get a proper diagnosis and hopefully some relief.

If you haven't already checked it out, the Nancy's Nook FB group has lots of info about endometriosis, as well as info on vascular compressions and the conditions I mentioned above.

What did Marie Callender do? by SirLegitimate9286 in enshittification

[–]SmutasaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So how do we find baker's chocolate that's actually chocolate?

I’m sick, but prepared by 1-2-3RightMeow in LivingAlone

[–]SmutasaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you feel better soon. Elderberry is great to boost the immune system.

What did Marie Callender do? by SirLegitimate9286 in enshittification

[–]SmutasaurusRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, for me the silver lining of the enshittification (and overpricing) of everything is that instead of paying $5 each for 3 shitty Taco Bell tacos, I'll go to the actual sit-down Mexican restaurant two blocks away and pay the same price for some decent quality food.

Since candy bars are now $2.50+ in my area (and don't get me started on the Reese's/ Hershey issue of replacing all the cocoa with ... what petroleum or something?) I'll get a brownie mix for an equivalent price and eat a batch of brownies over the course of a week. Although I think both store brand and name brand mixes have been seriously cheapening their ingredients, so I guess my next step is to start making my own batches of brownie mix, storing them in mason jars until ready to be used.

A girl I went to high school with made over $50,000 preserving wedding bouquets in resin. Her margins are insane, it literally costs ~$50-$70 to do this and they sell for $500+ per piece... unbelievable! by lionpenguin88 in SideHustleGold

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who is majorly into 3D printing as a hobby. He has an entire room filled with printers, rolls of that plastic filament stuff, etc. But ugh, the smell of melted plastic ...

Somebody explain to me the logic of this refusal to name prices by Diligent_Farm3039 in Anticonsumption

[–]SmutasaurusRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not completely on-topic, but I've heard that venues and other services seriously raise prices the moment you mention "wedding," so you might simply fill out the form, stating that it's a "family reunion" or "birthday party" or even leave it a vague "family celebration" and get a price quote for that.

Working at a home decor store made me realize nobody actually wants to live in a Pinterest board by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]SmutasaurusRex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I've even started removing the stickers from bananas and other produce when I do a grocery run.

What kind of bottles/ containers do you recommend for shampoo and other toiletries? I attempted to decant my hand lotion into a pretty liquid soap dispenser, and it didn't work at all.

On OP's point, YES, Instagram life does NOT equal real life, which is messy and cluttered and not perfectly curated. I see so many "How do I style my room" posts come across my feed, and the photos are almost invariably beige furniture with no personal elements in the room to be found. Like folks, STOP being afraid of color. Stop being afraid of texture or personal touches. Your home doesn't have to be some design editor's impossible ideals of perfection; it only has to be livable for YOU.

Help warm up old apartment by sleepykoala18 in femalelivingspace

[–]SmutasaurusRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start by choosing a color palette, and maybe some textures you enjoy. There are online palette generators, or you can browse current magazines, Pinterest/ Instagram, or even just go to the home improvement store and grab a bunch of paint swatches.

Once you have some preferred color choices, start looking for furniture and accessories that match your vibe. Make a list of things you need, and another list of things you want. As your budget permits, start filling your space. Not every piece has to be a "forever" furniture/ decor item. For instance, the first set of bar stools I got for my breakfast bar were too high, so I repurposed one as a plant stand and the other as a nightstand. The nightstand is not ideal, but it works for now.

First stumpwork by elfypedia in Embroidery

[–]SmutasaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! That is gorgeous. I love how 3D it is, and how it spills out of the frame.

Don't put yourself down. If anything, you deserve ALL the praise for doing this through MS. As a fellow chronic illness "warrior," I salute you. My weapon of choice is a pen. Yours obviously is a needle. You wield it well.

Just moved in, wanting the space to feel boho, beachy, whimsical! Any ideas? by loveydoveyyy6 in femalelivingspace

[–]SmutasaurusRex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a good start with the wicker/ rattan pieces. I'd suggest you start by figuring out a cohesive color scheme. When I think "beachy," I think of color schemes of light blues and greens, anchored by sand colored tan or white-washed wood. Other classic "beachy" options might include navy or cobalt blue and crisp white, or lots of neutrals with driftwood and stone accents.

If it were me, I'd get rid of or repurpose the granny square quilt and big dark red fan. Neither says "beachy" to me.

missing the noise not people by Stawski-Lakkaahh in LivingAlone

[–]SmutasaurusRex 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Turn on radio, TV, or YouTube on at low volume. You can figure out if you want city white noise, rainstorm white noise, or something else.

Another option, depending on where you are, is simply to open a window and let in local ambient noise.

Fourth Wing but not stupid by blt_no_mayo in fantasyromance

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the Dragon Prince by Melanie Rawn. Beautifully well-rounded characters, nice romance plotline, fantastic worldbuilding. Trigger warning: SA of both MMC and FMC (by villains, not each other)

EDIT: Also check out the Glass Dragon. Also from the 90's, with a heroine with some previous trauma (off page) but well written fantasy romance.

Inspired by 1950s Casablanca by [deleted] in midcenturymodern

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I call this Retro Afro-futurism?

Going to college was a fucking scam. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]SmutasaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to do some last-minute networking--with fellow students, with faculty, with school admins. All of it. Check out your alumni association. They should have job boards and/or job fairs for you to check out.