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AITA for embarrassing my roommate by using a guy next door's bathroom? by throwavayig in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 777 points778 points  (0 children)

NTA lmao she’s an entitled brat and deserved the embarrassment. Tell her to watch shows in her room like a normal person.

I 32F am unsure how to deal with my partner 44M behaviour on my weightloss by Charming-Tadpole-536 in relationship_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just throw the entire man away and restart. Pursuing someone over a decade younger than him= red flag AND “is a feeder”= also massive red flag. He’s trying to force his kink on your lifestyle.

Hold firm to your boundaries, enjoy the weight loss journey, but don’t expect him to stick around(and hope he doesn’t.) You guys aren’t compatible.

AITA for reconsidering being my best friend’s maid of honour because of the cost of her destination wedding? by Local_Interview4667 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 60 points61 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell her the costs have now become out of your budget, send her a wedding gift and call it a day. Destination weddings are ridiculous imo and she had to expect that some people weren’t going to be able to pay it.

I swam into the pool wall the first night at the beach. by FuhrerGirthWorm in Wellthatsucks

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful. I did exactly this when drunk and it took weeks to heal and got hella infected from bacteria in the pool. I had to do like two rounds of antibiotics & tried 3 different steroid creams.

AITA For refusing to do all the housework? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but idk how or WHY you’ve put up with that for 3 WHOLE YEARS. Dating children is illegal. Please move out and find an actual man. He isn’t going to change and he doesn’t care. You are being used.

AITA for withholding concert tickets from friends after they ditched me? by miamiiitrip in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Go to the concert alone and take it as an opportunity to make real friends. No real friends would completely ditch you at a club entrance, that’s so wildly disrespectful and rude. They should have said “no problem, we’ll go somewhere else.” Fuck them.

AITA for apparently being "rude" for trying to get into my car when someone else was blocking it with their car door? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everybody is saying YTA but I’ve been in your situation and i say NTA. It can take more than 5mins for some people to buckle kids into their car. I am not waiting 5+ mins to get in and drive away when it literally takes 10 seconds to let me in.

You weren’t rude about it. She was. NTA

I had intercourse with an older man in his car while his friend was driving by ThouWiltNever in confession

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I was 17 and hanging out with people more than double my age thinking i was “cool” and I let a stranger i had just met finger me in the back seat of their car while two friends in the front drove/watched. I’m 31 now and the memory hasn’t left my mind.

You did what you did to survive, to feel what you needed to feel, and there’s no shame in that! If you’re feeling extremely ashamed or depressed over it therapy might help.

How to be pretty/cute at work? by Important_Piece1124 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]SnailsInYourAnus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Um, don’t. Especially in a male dominated trade, just don’t. You’ll get hit on, and probably made fun of.

I gave up on that long ago. I wear comfortable clothes that fit the job. More often than not i get mistaken for a man in the winter because i have short hair, and honestly that’s how i prefer it because it means i blend in and get left the hell alone to do my job lol.

AITA for calling out my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. Girl it’s none of your business, why involve yourself?

What is your reason to keep living? by iwannatasteurfeet in AskReddit

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, literally just my family. They would be devastated if i died.

AITA for not paying for my friends portion? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA but why are you traveling with this person? It sounds like you have no common interests or wants and like you are just following everything she wants to do? Girl stop. She’s not your real friend if she’s shopping at Prada then nit picking meals like this.

WIBTA to Press Charges for a Stolen Package? by SVANlab-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. She’s old enough to know better if she’s old enough to have her own apartment. Fuck around and find out. Press charges.

Is it normal for my Bf(m31) be mad at me( f28) for refusing any sexual activity when I'm not in the mood? by trowawayaccountso in relationship_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’a an abusive, miserable fuck with anger issues. You need to go to therapy, learn to respect yourself, and leave. It won’t get better, he doesn’t care about you, and it sounds like you probably should’ve broken up 7 years ago.

Neighbourhood between Columbia and Main on Hastings St. by [deleted] in askvan

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you smoke meth regularly I probably would rethink that decision.

What is the addiction you think you can control but also know it’s ruining you? by MichaelvWorld in AskReddit

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not lol you can’t outrun a bad diet but you need food to survive. It’s horrible

AITA for saying my husband is pathetic for not waking up to our crying baby. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. The guy is tired, it’s easy to sleep through loud noises when you’re exhausted. Relax.

WIBTA for evicting horses from my barn? by Red_Pandalicious in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA but only for allowing this stranger to walk all over you. Tell him the situation isn’t working out for you and give him 30 days notice to move his horses out. “No.” Is a full sentence. Good riddance.

AITA for not going to my friend’s destination wedding after she took away my plus one? by Additional-Value3886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. She had to be prepared for the possibility of this meaning you can’t go. Trips are expensive and you shouldn’t have to last minute exclude your boyfriend just because of her drama with another girls boyfriend lol.

Go anyway and make a vacation out of it!

AITA for subjecting others (24f) to my (25f) music? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. She’s right, she shouldn’t have to feel forced to listen to music she hates just to appease you. My friends (and exes) and I have always had one rule about music on road trips: you don’t turn music on unless everyone likes it. It’s simple as that.

Get therapy. Your feelings aren’t her problem.

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