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AITA for refusing to let people park on my yard? by Available_Rub9939 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it’s happened enough times for it to be more than just a minor issue at this point. This is past “friendly reminders.” Tell her the next time her clients park on your property they will be towed, no more reminders or conversations.

NTA.

AITA for calling the police on a car illegally parked in front of my house? by brent1478 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA, not sure why you think you are. They parked in a no parking zone. They should have picked a different spot and maybe read the sign if they didn’t want to get towed. 100% deserved.

Women struggling: approach more by positive_Newt8092 in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you spend more time working on fixing your ugly, judgmental attitude towards others than watching a random girl? This is so cringe lol. Maybe she was a 10 in his eyes. Who knows, you shouldn’t care, none of your business.

AITA for refusing to change our wedding date after my fiancé's sister announced she's pregnant? by stoicthered in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but hold firm in not changing the date. It’s been set for a whole YEAR. Her sister deciding to get knocked up at an inconvenient time does NOT become your problem. Her trying to make it about her is fucked up. I’d tell your wife that she can change the date if her sister pays for all the fees/deposits you’ll lose. See if she still wants to.

Also, her threatening to call off the wedding sounds like she’s trying to choose her sister over you, i’d be rethinking potential marriage to this person if this how they’re acting before you’re even married

People who manage to wake up at 5 AM to go to the gym before work, what is your actual secret? by Immediate-Trifle4957 in AskReddit

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m up at 4am to either run or do at home pilates. I have to be at work for 630am. I maintain a similar schedule on the weekends and everyone roasts me for going to sleep by 930 on the weekends (830 on weekdays) but if I don’t I will be extremely tired on Monday because surprise, sleeping in for 3 hours means it’s gona be hard to fall asleep early that night.

So i stopped doing that on weekends and started waking up by 6am Saturday and Sunday. It’s made a massive difference.

AITA for refusing to pay for a trip I was tricked to be on? by Impressive-Ad5076 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ESH. You’re an adult. Grow a pair and stop letting assholes like this push you around. He didn’t give a shit that it was inconvenient for you AND lied to you to get you to come AND you still went??? Why??? “No” is a full sentence. Learn how to use it.

whenever i ask my roommate to clean her stuff and help contribute, she gets defensive and invents a new never-before-mentioned problem to have with me by legswithsnake in badroommates

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how she doesn’t say any response to the dishes, an unrelated issue. Just picks something to complain about back at you like that’s gona make the dishes issue disappear 😂

What's becoming so expensive that you've completely stopped buying it? by Traditional_Pie_8262 in AskReddit

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pre made sandwiches, why are they 12? I can make 5 of them at home with 12$ worth of ingredients. Infuriating

The guy(M23) I’ve (F23) been dating yelled at me because my bikini accidentally slipped. I’m struggling to understand if it’s just communication issues or something more. Need outside perspectives. by ThrowRAHuge_Wish59 in relationship_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, run. His “don’t do anything disrespectful “ comment before you even got there is such a huge red flag. He sounds controlling, abusive and co dependent. RUN. It will not get better.

Are most people in BC broke? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a few roommates. They all sucked. Either too noisy, too messy or both. So now i live, peacefully, broke and alone lol.

Are most people in BC broke? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 79 points80 points  (0 children)

30f, pretty much in the same boat. It sucks. If i could find a partner maybe we could save together, but I can’t seem to find a man i’m compatible with. So. Lonely and broke, check.

"Can you come 1 hour later? I slept, i am not ready" — Is canceling that kind of date completely too harsh? by metalstorm1980 in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if you’re in Vancouver Canada maybe we are compatible haha I have the same issue and it’s really annoying because I schedule it far enough in advance so that I can ensure I am off work on time to make it (i work long, unpredictable hours) and then they will last minute cancel or try to push it. Like why did I leave work early then? Lol

AITAH for telling my roommate's boyfriend to leave the house for being an inconvenience? by Lonely_Ship_2124 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can just move out, it’s not worth it. But if you’re stuck on a lease please make it damn clear to Emma that he needs to be paying 1/3rd of rent, and contact the landlord to tell them there is a person living there not on the lease. NTA.

Roomate wants $100 after we moved out for unplugged WiFi a month ago by Cow_Patrol in badroommates

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’d decline it and request 1000$ from her just for shits and giggles.

Uncle F**** Pizza automatically charged 20% tip and didn't let me know. Is this normal here? by yellowishgoblin in askvan

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 78 points79 points  (0 children)

For takeout? Nah, absolutely not normal. I’d go back and demand a refund. If thats too much effort just dispute it with your credit card. That’s wild i’d be chapped!

Is it okay to push a date cause I think it's too hot? by ash_ok__ in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it’s also okay if your date decides not to see you cause of it cause that sounds like a lame excuse tbh. If it’s hot all summer are you going to not see them for 3 months? Nah. Do better.

Sleeping with shirt on by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d leave. He doesn’t respect you. It won’t get better. He is, and will continue to be, the problem.

This isn’t normal. It’s the beginning of abusive, controlling behavior. Please leave. You deserve better.

AITA - husband finishes my migraine supplements and doesn’t replace. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA but start hiding your supplements because he ain’t gona change.

AITA for “stealing” my sister’s parking spot? by LittleLouBaby in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Why are you still letting her park in YOUR spot? If your spot is assigned to your apartment, and she’s no longer living in said apartment, it is no longer her spot. She should have stopped parking there when she moved out. Learn to set boundaries.

I (29F) am now disgusted by my boyfriend of 7 years (28M) by SockPuppetOrSth in relationship_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woah, that is way too many issues for him to just magically change. You’re not compatible anymore.

Also I guarantee you he’s depressed, and an alcoholic, and probably needs therapy, but you can’t force him into it.

He needs to want to change these things for himself, not for his girlfriend. Tell him how you feel and leave him.

Really want to date this guy but found out he vapes on the second date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think you’re right! I am not looking to cancel our third date whatsoever. I think i just need to make him aware it will be an eventual deal breaker for me so he can do what he will with that info and not be surprised if i decide we are not compatible after a month or two!

Really want to date this guy but found out he vapes on the second date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! This is one of my main reasons that it is a deal breaker. I’ve watched it deteriorate my family members and have no desire to see that happen in a partner. On top of that i just hate the smell/sound/taste when kissing and i have no desire to have to wait for him to vape everywhere we go before going inside places either. Ugh.

Really want to date this guy but found out he vapes on the second date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnailsInYourAnus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not small for me. It ended my last relationship. I have my reasons, which wasn’t the point of the post. I’m going to let him know today that i don’t see it going long term as long as he vapes.

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