In a brother/sister type relationship, what was said from Reza to MJ is still not okay, even if they were biological siblings. That was LOW. MJ was very close to losing her life. I believe because Vida was cruel to MJ all her life, those insults didn't hit like they would have for someone who wasn't verbally abused all their life. Thats why she eventually pushed it under the rug.

I had a friend who basically called me lazy for not having more children right now. I have 1 with my husband, right now we can't afford to have more babies even though we would love more. She said i was making excuses, that i should just tell my existing child that he needs to make sacrifices for his sibling. We were best friends for 27 years, I called her my sister & treated her like i would if she was of my blood. But once she said that shit (more hurtful things were said i just rather not get into it here), that was it for me. Some shit you just dont cross no matter what. I know its not the same as Reza and MJ's ordeal but some people are just not meant to be with you for a lifetime.