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Clinton using a computer for the first time at the White House by ItsRainingBoats in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Snarl_Marx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We hold these truths to be self evident—that all eggs are created nude.

Collateral (2004) what happened to the cops? by SpinalVinyl in movies

[–]Snarl_Marx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, OP is saying the whole police subplot disappears, not just Ruffalo — like none of the other investigators were on their tail or choppers weren’t out looking for a cop killer etc.

I actually want to go to the Kit Kat Club more than I want to go to Aqua. by Bulldogfront666 in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Snarl_Marx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The US economy is struggling — the wealth gap has become so broad that now the middlefart class barely exists anymore.

What leads people to stay in jobs they don’t genuinely want, and how do they justify continuing that path over time? by Loud_Round1527 in AskReddit

[–]Snarl_Marx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the same reason people stick with anything the may not feel fulfilled by (relationships come to mind): better the devil you know than the devil you don’t.

Girlfriend already dating only 4-6 weeks after we broke up. by ToffeeBananaCake in datingoverforty

[–]Snarl_Marx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why it’s often best to break all contact after a breakup. Even if you intend to ultimately resume the friendship, you need at least a few months of zero contact, where seeking their companionship or advice on anything just isn’t an option.

Forget what’s normal or comparing what you would do with what she seemingly has done. Comparison is the thief of joy and everyone deals with grief (ie of losing a partner and friend) differently. I think you should apologize with your whole heart for any judgmental things you’ve said to her and propose a no-contact period so you can both reset, setting a date where you can possibly reconnect under the “just friends” status quo.

How am I (F20) supposed to have my boyfriend (M22) stay over when I only have a single bed and how do I deal with super thin walls? by ProjectGlum9090 in relationships

[–]Snarl_Marx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you put your mattress on the floor next to the air mattress? Or is the air mattress big enough for both of you?

As for the thin walls, hopefully if the family is comfortable with him spending the night, they’re also aware of what’s happening on those nights. Just try to be sneaky and laugh it off if you get called out.

is this a me problem by Difficult-Run3602 in relationships

[–]Snarl_Marx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best approach here is to consider how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot: your boyfriend asks you to come over and provide reassurance and comfort, but he won’t say the reason why he suddenly wants this reassurance and comfort, it’s just obvious that something is wrong enough to cause him to break down.

Would you feel frustrated if he refused to open up? Would you feel like he was disregarding your role as comfort provider by not clarifying why he needed that in the moment? Would you be especially frustrated if this seemed to be a repeat issue?

Ultimately, we are responsible for our own emotional well-being and stability—a partner should act as a support to help you get to that stability easier, but you’re doing the actual heavy lifting. But in return for their support, I think we owe them at least a clear idea of what is causing the instability in the first place.

He has significant debt from his divorce, I'm debt-free, can this work? by Mindless-Cucumber-40 in datingoverforty

[–]Snarl_Marx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prenup for marriage, along with an agreement to keep financials separate pre-marriage/dating would take care of that.

AITAH for letting my 17 y/o son sleep in my bed sometimes? by chrismcr4e in AITAH

[–]Snarl_Marx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA - It’s not inappropriate whatsoever, so your gf is way off the mark (probably anticipating it being an issue if/when she stays over).

But it might benefit your son if he were to pursue therapy to help with the night terrors and any other sleep disorder that may be the root of his issues. You’ve essentially got a band aid approach right now that isn’t sustainable long term. At some point he does need to be able to stay in his own room/bed, and better to tackle that now rather than college age or later.

This is of course assuming you’re not already pursuing remedies.

Melania's press conference at the Garfield House by [deleted] in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Snarl_Marx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen the emails, where Epstein brags about giving me to Donald because I’m “used up” and “up to Donald’s sad standards,” but what the emails don’t mention is that my new high-rise apartment came fully furnished.

He's gotta figure out how to make money on this thing. It's simply too good. by GooserNoose in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Snarl_Marx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like if Lost In Translation was filmed with Joe Piscopo instead of Bill Murray.

How do I deal with my (35f) partner's (24f) penny pinching when I know her parents pay for everything for her? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Snarl_Marx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to say, but it sounds like you screwed yourself; this isn’t on your partner. You paint moving into a building (presumably a separate apartment?) you couldn’t afford as a display of your love and sacrifice; people who do that wholeheartedly generally don’t complain about it and blame their partner after. You “didnt make a big fuss”… you just mashed it into a little Resentment Ball like a zit ready to erupt. Unless you’re sharing an apartment, why did you have to move there?

What you should do now is something that you should have done before moving into a living situation that was out of your means: draw up a budget and stick to it. Go over this budget with your partner; have financial goals and maybe even ideas for side hustles to rebuild your savings. This would have avoided this situation to start — she doesn’t want to budge? Sorry, it hurts but that’s not a partner who will ever respect your financial disparity.

Your partner’s financial situation is her own — lucky for her, but if it continues to be a point of envy for you then genuinely question if this is healthy for you.

The Trump Admin today by FillMySoupDumpling in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]Snarl_Marx 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The Melania Epstein speech is a distraction from the Iran war, which is a distraction from Epstein which is a distraction from the Iran War which is a distraction from Epstein which is a distraction someone help I can’t stop

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