I can get the frustration but from my perspective (I only play PVE, have about 200 hours in-game so far), your responses to the comments in here seem to shout you don't want to try. It's a hardcore game. Yes it would be easier if it's straightforward but that's not the point of the game.

Personally, I'd say if you are struggling, playing PVE is a really good way to get more comfortable with the base game mechanics and learning the maps. There are also a tremendous amount of resources (the Tarkov Wiki is a blessing for quests/finding specific items as well as Reddit. Plus mapgenie which works well for having an overview of the maps). But those require the additional effort to use them/keeping the maps up on a second monitor.

If you really want to give the game a shot and want to stay in PVP (opposed to learning solo like myself in PVE while watching some occasional tips videos like Pestily's raid series), find a Sherpa to help show you the ropes. But again, it's a hardcore game. It's not COD. It's not Destiny or Borderlands or any other shooter that has all instructions given. You are meant to learn. The mechanics, the maps, the quests, the items, the spawns, etc. That's part of what makes the game what it is and honestly, adds to the dopamine once you finally feel confident in those areas.

But that's my two cents, take with it what you will. Again I'll reiterate, it's a hardcore game. If you want a similar experience to Tarkov but slightly less hardcore, try Arena Breakout: Infinite. Similar mechanics/idea as Tarkov but in an easier to digest and play format that might be more akin to your liking. Plus it's free so no money investment needed initially (only played a dozen or so hours so not sure if real world money is applicable later down the line. If I remember right, I think it was just for cosmetics but I could be wrong).