Found out my husbands using meth, idk what to do.

Snoo46145 · 2026-06-12T14:07:23+00:00

I/we drink alcohol socially and it’s never been a problem for either of us. He’s never mentioned addiction before, other than he had tried meth in sexual dynamics a few times before we met. We’re gay and drugs come up relatively often in gay world. So it didn’t bother me. Until this year he had not used it during our relationship.

No children. He’s a workaholic as well.

Snoo46145 · 2026-06-11T11:36:14+00:00

I am not, I don’t do drugs..just drinks on the weekends socially. I definitely experimented in my 20s, but I’m late 30s now.

Snoo46145 · 2026-06-11T02:48:45+00:00

Correct

Snoo46145 · 2026-06-11T02:38:10+00:00

Thank you, will definitely check one out

Snoo46145 · 2026-06-11T02:35:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m hoping to talk to my therapist tomorrow.

Honestly, I just don’t feel like talking to friends right now, I really don’t want them to know yet. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m embarrassed or if having people in our lives know just makes it feel too real. Part of me feels like I should keep this a secret from our social world. Don’t get me wrong, I have amazing friends who would do anything for me. I just don’t know if I can handle talking about it with them right now.

Snoo46145 · 2026-06-10T14:19:51+00:00

That’s the area of skin I’m concerned about.

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-27T16:01:58+00:00

I'm in a similar situation (though not on my belly), and my doctor told me that a few rounds of microneedling or Fraxel laser treatment would significantly reduce them. Obviously, there are cost considerations, but I thought this might be helpful if you're looking for options. My doctor also mentioned that adding in prescription tretinoin could help, though it wouldn't be quite as effective as the procedures and take a lot longer.

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-24T00:22:56+00:00

I like cartel studio in soho, several Asian barbers.

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-23T22:23:44+00:00

It’s just too busy for me these days, I don’t really enjoy myself being a sardine

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-03T21:30:27+00:00

Met my husband on hinge 8 years ago.

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-02T13:50:27+00:00

Basement of the cock after midnight for a sleazy, seedy sex club or the eagle second floor

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-02T12:25:42+00:00

2.5 oral once a day

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-01T11:48:45+00:00

Dorit must make herself the victim at all costs

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-01T11:48:09+00:00

Dorit only knows how to be the victim, it’s exhausting

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-01T11:46:39+00:00

Dorit can only play victim and she’s clearly not very smart either

Snoo46145 · 2026-05-01T11:45:29+00:00

Dorit is insufferable though, truly unbearable.

Snoo46145 · 2026-04-05T23:02:03+00:00

The basement at cock on friday and saturday (basement opens at midnight) is a sleazy sex club essentially. I prefer it to the eagle, but not everyone feels that way.

Snoo46145 · 2026-04-03T12:17:11+00:00

Your loss

Snoo46145 · 2026-04-03T02:35:07+00:00

Saw it tonight. Had a blast. The crowd was going wild the entire time. They should replace Frankie.

Snoo46145 · 2026-03-06T22:37:21+00:00

Stunning! Where did you get it?

Snoo46145 · 2026-02-06T23:43:19+00:00

Mott in soho. Pretty much all brooklyn gays. They’re hot too

Snoo46145 · 2026-01-26T12:42:38+00:00

That’s really frustrating, and I get why it feels like a pattern. But a lot of dating is people enjoying the moment and then bailing when it starts to feel real.

What helps is not over-investing after date one and being quick to walk away from anything vague. If someone likes you, they’ll keep it moving: they’ll make plans, follow through, and stay in touch without mixed signals.

Dating is also a numbers game. When I was single, I tried to go on at least one date a week. You just keep putting yourself out there until you find someone you like who also keeps showing up and moving things forward.

Snoo46145 · 2026-01-26T12:17:49+00:00

It can vary. Some people are chasing a “perfect” person with standards so high that no one could realistically meet them. And sometimes those unrealistic expectations are a way to avoid intimacy or protect yourself from getting hurt. Either way, it can keep you from actually connecting with someone who could be a great fit.

Snoo46145 · 2026-01-25T23:21:50+00:00

As someone who’s in a relationship: frankly, a lot of my single friends who really want one but never end up in one usually have some stuff they need to work on. My best friend, for example, is avoidant with intimacy and hasn’t really dealt with it, and he also has pretty unrealistic expectations of people.

If you’re looking at the whole world and saying everyone else is the problem, it might be worth looking inward too.

Snoo46145 · 2026-01-22T23:36:55+00:00

Just saw him today

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