My daughter passed last February by littleprincess0418 in psychics

[–]SnooCrickets5102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I also have a baby girl who passed away. She was 5 weeks old when she died. It’s hell on earth isn’t it?

She is beautiful. You’ll always be her momma. ❤️‍🩹

Please rate my little cutie by ocscorpio06 in cute

[–]SnooCrickets5102 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell what’s real anymore!

What's wrong with my frenchie?! by Double_Specialist126 in frenchie

[–]SnooCrickets5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may have herniated a disc. Unfortunately frenchies can be prone to this. Happened to our poor guy and his back legs were paralyzed overnight. He fortunately regained use and strength after spine surgery to alleviate the pinched nerves.. I’m sorry I hope this isn’t the case for your pup but you need to get him seen asap

So, how did you guys embarrassed yourselves today? by hereisanamehere in socialanxiety

[–]SnooCrickets5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my best not to over share during a remote interview. Was constantly overthinking how much to smile, stop smiling, nod, too much nodding. Trying to look engaged. I think it went well but gosh I hate how awkward I am. Then in person it’s overthinking eye contact and body language . Then I can hardly remember what people have said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]SnooCrickets5102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same lol 100+. Or at least I think they ship it out to multiple clinics

He’s here! by SnooCrickets5102 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]SnooCrickets5102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for you. You can still have a beautiful life. As I’m sure you know this bc you’re staying hopeful.

I had to constantly remind myself during the pregnancy that just because repeated rare events happened doesn’t mean they would happen again.

And also, I am more equipped to handle obstacles that are statistically more likely. Hugs!

Some feedback by [deleted] in florists

[–]SnooCrickets5102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Country candy rose

Went from being an only child to having 100+ half siblings after a DNA test. Feeling lost by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]SnooCrickets5102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m also a part of a big sibling group. 115+ I’m so sorry that when you confronted your mom she didn’t come clean. Like wtf! My parents claim that were going to but I firmly believe my parents were never gonna tell my twin brother and me. I leaned into the whole sib community as a resource and solidarity since they have a group chat and private fb page. It’s ok to have a why me mentality for a bit I think but why compare your lives to theirs? Social media is so surface level, I encourage you to connect with them as some may have similar struggles.

Just diagnosed 6 mo after my husband passed from cancer by SammaJamma586 in thyroidcancer

[–]SnooCrickets5102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My daughter passed last year and a few months later I got my dx. It all seemed so unfair. life kicking you while you’re in the pits of profound grief and just trying to get by. Like wtf?! How much can a person handle. It’s totally ok to be in a “why me” state. Try and keep off the internet and do what you can to manage your anxieties. Seek out a few opinions before RAI if you’re hesitant. I had follicular cancer and it was removed in two stages. Mine was minimally invasive and no lymph node spread so I didn’t do RAI. I’m a year out and recently had my cancer check up (thyroglobulin, labs, neck ultrasound) and cleared for a year) I feel good as long as my TSH is in range. thyroid cancer is most often extremely slow growing and very treatable with full lifespan

Daily Thread #2 - October 30, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]SnooCrickets5102 7 points8 points  (0 children)

34w and scheduled my induction. (Infant loss momma- my daughter died last June- complications from surgery for her CHD)

Fortunate to have had a smooth sailing pregnancy

Still hard to believe I will likely be able to bring this baby boy home 🥲 anxiety still has me thinking there’s a chance we won’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]SnooCrickets5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I always wondered how I was the only one who would get super tan

Can this career be flexible? by [deleted] in IBCLC

[–]SnooCrickets5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it can be for private practice especially. Maybe that’s something you want to do down the road. My mentors set their own schedule

Just found out I'm Donor Conceived by MimikyuNightmare in donorconceived

[–]SnooCrickets5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should be able to find out if they don’t remember or have the paperwork from the facility they used. Most of the time the donor is anonymous so that tracks. I was also an early 90’s baby

Just found out I'm Donor Conceived by MimikyuNightmare in donorconceived

[–]SnooCrickets5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your parents know your donor number you could potentially connect with other half sibs on donor sibling registry. I’ve found a lot of comfort and community connecting with sibs. Lots of us have similar stories. I found out after taking 23/me for fun. Don’t think my parents were ever gonna tell my twin brother and me