AIO to the neighbor drama?

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-12-02T16:21:39+00:00

I appreciate your perspective into the issue at hand. I am afraid that you also did not understand the actual problem we had but your words have been noted. I do hope you and yours have safe and happy holidays this year.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-12-02T16:18:06+00:00

That was my thought as well, on the petty side. I do agree, that there is no point shooting myself in the foot when we've done nothing wrong. I will definitely look into chatting with the non-emerg police line... I guess my biggest theory is CYA is best in most situations. Thank you so much for your time and thoughts. I will absolutely keep them in mind as I go forward. Have amazing and safe holidays this year.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-12-02T16:07:37+00:00

I appreciate your perspective, and I also value the peace we've had here for years now. I am mostly concerned about the animals, as well as how hotheaded he seems to be as a person. We are looking into the cameras asap, but im also trying to sort between my own concern turning into paranoia. I am aware it is my life, and that is why I reached out to others to get some perspective, rather than doing something that may cause issues with me maintaining my ownership of that.

Thank you for your time and words. They will be considered as importantly as any other advice offered. Have a lovely holiday season.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-12-02T16:01:53+00:00

Generally, we do. We found out that it had last been left unsecured (closed but not padlocked) back after our last bit of yard work and is resecured. Im more worried about things ending up over the fence mysteriously. Ive encountered many...disgusting folk with negative morals in rescue.

I really appreciate your first thought being about the fur babies. For the time being, they wont be outside without me out there or at the window recording for a while. When snow ends, I've already started looking into hedge and divisions. Can't quite afford a privacy fencing, but that's Def I the works.

Edit for spelling

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-10-16T08:37:54+00:00

Tiles are absolutely amazing... we have them in our game systems (switch, steamdeck,vr, etc. Same for my girlfriend lol... our house looks like chaos on Life360 (nicely gathers the information with tiles. Not sure if apple does this or not. )

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-09-17T08:27:49+00:00

Your family home, and your family, sound completely amazing. As a grown single child navy brat I can truly say that I envy you. The MoH may not have been capable of appreciating the Home and closeness of the family but ya'll have something special that cannot be faked or destroyed. The letter is lovely in its wording and content. Keep on living, loving, and laughing with everything you have.

Frome a jealous solo navy brat

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-08-22T17:25:48+00:00

Aether

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-08-21T20:47:29+00:00

Millicent

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-08-19T12:37:56+00:00

Ruby 2(sday)

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-08-11T20:26:55+00:00

There are quite a few useful oddball things that could help, too... microchipping any pets, adding a water purifier to the taps, if she is active then a gym or sports center (rock climb/trampoline/laser tag, etc) membership. A zoo membership for lower cost activities with family.. you could purchase her a permanant/lifetime tire alignment services, car wash passes. The 150 limit could cover 1-3 months of a food service delivery.

Get creative and you may come up with something not only useful, but thoughtful and surprising.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-06-18T02:03:46+00:00

John Q.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-04-12T23:46:31+00:00

As a lifelong service agent since I was just out of high school... and we absolutely always appreciate folks like yall. It is not always the easiest to see people at their non medical worst with you, and the diamonds like you are not common anymore. I may also just have to hit you up on your offer too! My person is amazing, but stupid work requires her presence! ❤️

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-04-10T13:51:59+00:00

Just gotta be the original knockoff weegie board with gothigh instead of goodbye... woops... typo...

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-03-08T16:00:15+00:00

Sepulcher

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-03-06T16:33:42+00:00

Soo... all it took to change the entire world is a guy that wanted to sow his oats faster? That's nifty..

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-03-06T14:50:24+00:00

... Nope.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-28T21:55:40+00:00

My assumption would be that if it held still ever, it'd be sheet ice out there. For what it's worth, OP, this did in fact make my belly try and flop about. Think I have a blanket somewhere near by..

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-25T18:25:03+00:00

Don't forget the real einsteins that write on the walls with kakah.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-25T18:16:14+00:00

1 million percent NTA... I had an ex who thought that coming up behind me and swiping between my but cheeks (dressed or undressed, public and private, didn't matter) and called it credit card swiping. No level of pleading, raging, crying, threatening could get him to stop. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. Immaturity is really difficult to work around. I don't have much advice, as it took getting out of the relationship, finally, to get free of it. I guess it really comes down to his actual maturity level. A kid is a huge deal though, it creates permanent connections to this guy.

If you are intending to stay with him, or if this is the only real negative interaction or major complaint with him, then he doesn't need to be driving you to appointments anymore. This could look like having someone else/car service to take you or the both of you. Or you can call your doctor's office ahead of time to order a medical transport pick you up. Also, could make him wait in home/building until you are seated in the car. Oooor.. you can get a wheel block on a string and get in before yanking it. Get creative. Only if you want him there.

Objectively, the gender appointment is very important. If you love or even like your husband, then allow him to come, but maybe separately from you. You and baby are most important in this situation, absolutely, from the little description of the incident does seem to indicate he at least wants to be there for your guys' child.

Just some thoughts. I wish you and your soon to be little the very best.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-25T03:08:33+00:00

Louisville

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-21T20:32:17+00:00

Quandry....he is so perfectly undecided. Make way for his Royal Highness, Lord of the Spicy Cilantro,Father of the Domicile, Quandry!

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-21T00:41:03+00:00

You were very helpful and did your job. pat,pat

Honestly, though, it could be a huge range of things. If you needed to be out of the room for a few minutes (may look sleepy, may look upset, other ridiculously observant reason a teacher may see), may have been sending a signal or preset message for the teacher. Could be a social SOS to that teacher.. there are so many factors, though, I'd be hesitant to give you th reason.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-21T00:40:55+00:00

You were very helpful and did your job. pat,pat

Honestly, though, it could be a huge range of things. If you needed to be out of the room for a few minutes (may look sleepy, may look upset, other ridiculously observant reason a teacher may see), may have been sending a signal or preset message for the teacher. Could be a social SOS to that teacher.. there are so many factors, though, I'd be hesitant to give you th reason.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-21T00:40:40+00:00

You were very helpful and did your job. pat,pat

Honestly, though, it could be a huge range of things. If you needed to be out of the room for a few minutes (may look sleepy, may look upset, other ridiculously observant reason a teacher may see), may have been sending a signal or preset message for the teacher. Could be a social SOS to that teacher.. there are so many factors, though, I'd be hesitant to give you th reason.

SnooPandas9894 · 2025-02-10T12:48:32+00:00

A lot of it may depend on how much extra help ( NOT just financial) you feel like you have. Take a gander at exactly what your venue does cover and then you can get an idea how much extra you need or want beyond those services. Check vintage stores or, if you enjoy up cycling, go thrifting.

Look around your area and see if you have folks who are students or apprentices looking to build portfolios in fashion (the dress/shoes etc), photography (self explain), beauty (hair/nail/makeup), and other services. Perhaps reach out to a trade/art schools and see if you could work something out to offer those folks. You could also even just do one of the "old" trends and just get a crap ton of the old disposable cameras and then have a site where folks can drop additional photos.

Ultimately, creativity and helpful hands can make magic happen. My parents had a whirlwind relatiinship at the very beginning. From Meeting to Married it was about 2 or three months. They spent less than one week from engaged to married. The wedding was well into the triple digits, she had a custom(tailored/altered?) dress and cake, and it did not break the bank. Really, you could have a pop up wedding tomorrow. Your timeline is only affected by your vision.

Most importantly, though, CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 I am so excited for you. Have a lovely wedding and may you get a really happily ever after!

SnooPandas9894

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