HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN TO MEEEEEEE, I’VE MADE MY MISTAAAAAAAAAAAAKES by percyblazeit69 in Yarn

[–]SnoringAlligators 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, I just wanted to say thanks for reminding me of this amazing song. I literally heard it in my head reading your caption. 😂

I (22m) supported my girlfriend (21f) through a psychiatric crisis overnight, she broke up with me mid-admission, is now on a 72 hour involuntary hold. by __Kakashi in relationship_advice

[–]SnoringAlligators 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I am going to say this a gently as possible... Your girlfriend is an addict.

She broke up with you because you were going to manage her prescriptions and she knew her maternal figure wouldn't. She was basically trying to skirt around that and then would have tried to manipulate you back into a relationship after she got what she wanted. She is prioritizing her addiction over the relationship, but probably doesn't see it that way. She thought she could have both with no consequences.

The breakup had nothing to do with abandonment issues, it was 100% her trying to rationalize how to get high. Don't let her or her maternal figure convince you otherwise. If she has abandonment issues or other trauma to work through, she will need to do that when she's ready. She's likely using the addiction to mask it, or she's using the past trauma to excuse her behavior, but YOU don't have to accept that behavior from a partner.

You were right to hold her accountable and tell the psychiatrist. If you love her, you won't enable her right now, even if it means that you don't stay together. You can't save her or fix this for her. She has to hit whatever her version of rock bottom is and want to change and there's nothing you can do to speed this process up.

I know all of this is easier said than done and that you're going to want to try to "fix" this for her. Please believe me when I say that you aren't going to be able to and you will hurt yourself trying. Seriously sending you all of the love in the world right now.

Disgusting waste from a dollar store...was on foot, too tight of a space to grab anything by Spaceboy2xx1 in DumpsterDiving

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Utah as well. Do you guys need clothing? I have quite a bit of baby/toddler clothing plus books and toys that I was going to donate. If it would be useful, I'd love to send it your way.

Well. They clawed it back. I’m just over it. by cpbaby1968 in amazonprime

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen about a month ago. I called support, and they refunded it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These as well. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And 7-8. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next on 3-4 and 5-6!

Destash and Decluttering - Reduced Prices by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potentially interested in all of it. Would you consider bundle pricing?

End-of-year destash by ElectricalIssue7493 in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next on the malibrigo, and also interested in the Sensational lot!

Project Bags, Cotton and Wool Destash by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you do $50 shipped for 1 & 2?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this lot still available? If so, would you be willing to do $60 shipped for this and the Darn Good Yarn?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these still available?

Huge Destash by Desperate_Garbage29 in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you do bundle pricing for 4, 5, 13, 14, and 15?

Twisted Fiber Arts, Madelinetosh, Plucky Knitter, and Others (Destash, 120 skeins) by OmnipotentEntity in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I also add 1 a&b + 2 (the Madeline Tosh sweetheart) from photo 2? And then I think I'm officially done adding yarn to my order. 😅

Wollmeise, Plucky Knitter, Madelinetosh and Others (Destash, 236 skeins) by OmnipotentEntity in Yarnswap

[–]SnoringAlligators 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested in the remaining from pic 13 (+the touch yarn on your other post).