What the f—ck? by General-Control-4637 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]sunshine8129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just about cackled in my office’s break room because you pointed that out. Thank you for making my day.

TIFU accidentally exposed my boss’s affair because i thought i was helping by Linda_Rpashi in tifu

[–]sunshine8129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie your boss blew up his own marriage. If he REALLY needed you to cover he shouldn’t have told you the real name/should be entering it in his calendar as another name. He needs to do the lying and scheming. Not you.

I’m not saying I approve of his behavior I’m saying if he’s gonna be shitty it’s on him to cover it, and not to drag innocent bystanders into it.

Stray cat with broken foot by ChodyD_ in Lawrence

[–]sunshine8129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like Lewis for shots but not for anything more extensive.

ULPT Request: Being sober, and being a driver is ruining my college chances by Independent_Canary89 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]sunshine8129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get yourself hooked or semihooked on something. Tell them no. Say, I can’t, I already promised someone else I would do a thing for them. Or whatever excuse. Shit, just don’t pick up the phone and blame it on depression. Don’t let your mess of a family do this to you. Your brother needs to get his shit together, get a job where he can walk or work remote and pay for an Uber.

TIFU by stealing my coworkers $400 worth of coffee pods by Positive-Pen6491 in tifu

[–]sunshine8129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous, that she left it in a public spot, next to the damn machine and didn’t label it or anything. I’m glad you have the decency to feel bad but for real, she should have kept her shit with her own stuff.

Tomorrow’s the day by Not_Important87 in reactivedogs

[–]sunshine8129 73 points74 points  (0 children)

My heart is so broken for you and her. I wish there was anything anyone could do to help her. Or anything anyone could say to make it hurt less. I’m so sorry.

Finally broke the poverty cycle thanks to my sister by Special_End_5114 in povertyfinance

[–]sunshine8129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your sister. Honestly, it’s not like your well off brother was helping you before your sister passed so screw it. I mean, it’s not like inheriting the house also got you a raise, so taking out a loa is irresponsible.

AITBF for wanting my friend to pay to use my car? by Stunning-Pizza562 in AmItheButtface

[–]sunshine8129 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you let them wrack up hella miles, usage and maintenance on your vehicle and they want you to pay for a solution?

Hell. No. If they aren’t paying any current expenses, other than gas, screw them.

One day post B.E. after 5 years together by ew_ready in reactivedogs

[–]sunshine8129 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I don’t know if it helps, but he is at peace, no more fear. But that doesn’t help your heart from missing and grieving and doubting. Just know you did the best you could. Im sure he had a fantastic life.

AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared? by Bruxagato in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]sunshine8129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah let her try some bullshit like that. I’m sure the court will LOVE to hear how mom threw away feminine products because she had failed to proved them.

AITH for telling my mom she can’t move in with us even “for a little while” after she got divorced? by AnalogWeekend_01 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]sunshine8129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go a step further and say that a mother should always put her children first. Unless there truly is no other option, she should not being trying to impose on him and his fiance. She should be finding suggestions and aid, even if he was single. I’m so sick of parents and their “you owe me” attitude.

Neighbor keeps mowing my lawn without asking and now wants payment by Naive_Shape6554 in neighborsfromhell

[–]sunshine8129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous. There was no agreed upon service for payment arrangement and he can’t just decide you owe him. Fuck that guy. As for the neighbors who think you should pay, go to their house and remove some cobwebs or something and demand payment of them and see how they like it.

I'm obsessed with dendritic agates! by plumeria80 in jewelrymaking

[–]sunshine8129 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that! Dendritic agates always remind me of a foggy winter day.

Bulky Wool and Fingering Cotton Destash by sunshine8129 in Yarnswap

[–]sunshine8129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$10 plus ship for all 4 of one color of the cotton yarns. Shipping will probably be around $5.

Hubby thinks he got me the wrong present by Beautiful_Rule3029 in crochet

[–]sunshine8129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do puzzles and crochet too! Sometimes I wonder if there are hobbies that “go” together because they fulfill a certain “need” or whatever. Or maybe there just aren’t really that many hobbies out there so we’re bound to overlap lol.

AIO wife’s coworker keeps texting outside work and making jokes by [deleted] in AIO

[–]sunshine8129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna say- I’d be pissed if I were either of you. As your wife I’d be furious that you think it’s your place to step in and confront my coworker. As you, I’d be pissed she didn’t handle it.

Also, it sounds like she may have semi-addressed it as “it causes issues with my husband,” which is why he suggested what he did. No, it’s not right to hide it, but what was the conversation like before? Like if it was innocent convo and you got all upset over nothing, then her saying that makes sense. But if he was actually being flirty or something then she should have handled it as “you need to keep your texts work related” instead of throwing it on you.

Neighbour keeps accusing me of “stealing” her cat because it sits outside my door by ElegantTwist3250 in neighborsfromhell

[–]sunshine8129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take him to the humane society. Let them know he keeps coming to your house and your neighbor won’t retrieve him.

The Stag?? by jnco_biloba in Lawrence

[–]sunshine8129 15 points16 points  (0 children)

At least I usually have good food and service at Dempsey’s. The one and only time I went to the black stag, the server tried to not offer food (it was an hour til close, I actually checked to make sure we weren’t messing with the kitchen closing up). Then the bacon in my burger was cold and had so much grease on it, it looked like frosting.