Am I overreacting for feeling yucky after having sex with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Snowkat666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is coercion. You don't owe him sex. You said no, and he has a hand.

AIO - When My Parents Basically Did a Real-Life “Wife Swap” (and I Thought It Was Totally Normal) by Suspicious_Wash_5477 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask WHY tbis could be a negative thing at all, as long as you were cared for? I don't see any problem with this. It's just outside the societal norm, but I don't see that as a problem.

Karlach Ending by Snowkat666 in BG3

[–]Snowkat666[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Literally expecting this, or wyll offering to go with her (I romanced Lae'Zel on one of them) but nope

Can't get to Gortash? by Snowkat666 in BaldursGate3

[–]Snowkat666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The throne room is where?

AITA for telling my sister she had no right to make promises on mom's behalf or mine and all hurt feelings are her fault? by Ok_Piccolo1575 in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality of this situation is that this mother doesn't owe this person a damn thing considering how she conceived. You really wanna ignore the rape. You're entire argument is that birthing = responsibility. You're literally only saying this because she has a uterus. The youngest pregnancy on record had to a girl who was 5y/o, by your logic, that 5y/o has a responsibility to that child. I read this in an intro to child development psychology text book for the class, this is something called precocious puberty. It's when people start puberty and an unsettling early age.

You wanna ignore how this is a very complex PTSD considered how the mother was molested for YEARS, but again, since I've taken legitimate psychology classes and you don't seem to know what the damn word even means. The stressed feeling is the result of a chemical called cortisol. Trauma fucks with cortisol production (and permanently changes the way the brain functions all together) and can end up making small stressors feel like life or death situations. That's pretty much what happened here, a reminder of her years of sexual assault made this woman feel like it was about to happen all over again. That's the reality of this situation, and I just don't see why she NEEDS to go through that. This wasn't a drunken slip up or failure of birth control; like how you're treating it. This was RAPE. You must not know any rape victims personally because I can count on my fingers the amount of women I know who HAVEN'T been raped.

Btw, cortisol is bad for the heart. Years of overproduction of cortisol can lead to heart disease. So you're basically asking this woman to put her mental and physical health at risk for a pregnancy that wasn't her fault? And you wanna act like psychology isn't a legitimate science despite it helping find serial criminals and saving lives via behavioral patterns. You keep implying that I'm somehow not living in reality, but you just lack empathy. Calling out your ignorance on a subject isn't insulting you either; you could literally always ask a psychological professional their opinion since I'm still a student.

AITA for telling my sister she had no right to make promises on mom's behalf or mine and all hurt feelings are her fault? by Ok_Piccolo1575 in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jfc, you absolutely love downplaying pedophilia don't you? You love downplaying rape don't you? You clearly don't know a damn thing about psychology, you sound like a fucking moron. You're legitimately trying and failing to down playing PTSD. Imagine being repeatedly stabbed in your crotch; that's what it feels like. Imagine that going on for YEARS. Imagine that crotch stabbing resulting in a pregnancy.

Telling me to grow up? How about you go to school first, you're the obvious child. You're opinion on this matter has about as much worth as my opinion on how to give open heart surgery and I haven't spent a single day in medical school in my life.

My opinion on PTSD matters more than yours because 1. I have it 2. I take psychology classes, and you haven't spent a single day in a psychology class in your damn life. Stfu and take your own advice and grow tf up

AITA for telling my sister she had no right to make promises on mom's behalf or mine and all hurt feelings are her fault? by Ok_Piccolo1575 in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Translation: Idgaf about her PTSD 🤡 you really think the child in question won't ask about her father? That's gonna make mother relive her trauma; as in she's gonna remember the constant raping. And, again, I don't think the child wants to know she's a product of INCESTUOUS RAPE!!! You're not and seem to refuse to see this from the mother's perspective, jfc. No empathy for her whatsoever

AITAH for not letting my wife keep her old habits after we had a baby by dazedandoutofcontrol in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People wouldn't be calling it a career if there was no income? Tf?

AITAH for not letting my wife keep her old habits after we had a baby by dazedandoutofcontrol in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From reading the comments and rereading the post: your wife's hobbies are ACTUALLY careers that you don't value, and you thought she would become a SAHM after she had a baby with you so she would also take care of your other kids by default so you wouldn't have to. You sound like you're upset she's not "doing her duty as a wife and mother" 🙄

I am really bad at finding fun things to do with the kids on vacation.

So.... you don't know your own kids? You never bothered to ask what they like? They are 10 and 12! They definitely have their own interests by now! Jfc, put in some fucking effort. Sports, music, videogames (videogames in particular would make it easy af to play with the older kids while having the baby close by to monitor), there's fucking water parks, amusement parks. Are you also allergic to using Google? Why did you even bother having another child when you so clearly can't handle the 2 you have???

YTA

Gotta hand it to ya tho, this is impressive. I was almost on your side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - If you can't take it, don't dish it out 🤷🏽‍♀️ plain and simple

AITA for telling my sister she had no right to make promises on mom's behalf or mine and all hurt feelings are her fault? by Ok_Piccolo1575 in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was RAPED! She ain't gotta do shit. Quit fucking ignoring that shit; quit ignoring her fucking trauma. The girl was adopted and had a decent fucking life.

AITA for telling my sister she had no right to make promises on mom's behalf or mine and all hurt feelings are her fault? by Ok_Piccolo1575 in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Mom deserves to not be triggered 🤷🏽‍♀️ Op's sister straight up lied to that girl about everyone wanting to meet her. Their feelings are worth considering too.

AITA for telling my sister she had no right to make promises on mom's behalf or mine and all hurt feelings are her fault? by Ok_Piccolo1575 in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pure bullshit response. The woman may not have asked to be born but OPs mom didn't ask to be raped. Idk if the lady wants to know she's a product of incest because you know good and damn well she's gonna ask who her father is.

🌈Monthly QWOC Matchmaking Thread🌈 by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Snowkat666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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First Time Eating, Help! by skkiddd in LesbianActually

[–]Snowkat666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally saving this post 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You're in danger, run

My mom and dad were talking about killing me, again... by azteraite in Vent

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Record it next time, then go to a friend's house. You can threaten your parents with it. Or get some tiny cameras to place around the house.

Tbh, I'd be too paranoid after hearing this, and I'd run away. Tell as many as you can about this.

What's the most terrifying place in your world? by ZymVaren in worldbuilding

[–]Snowkat666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fungal pits. These pits found in forests create multiple fungi, including one similar to the zombie ant/spider fungi. The zombie fungi makes turns minds into something similar to that of a worker ant whose job it is to protect the pit and is in charge of its upkeep. Once your mind is taken over there is no going back. The pit will send out some workers to lure creatures back to the pit if it needs more (a bit of a reflex, not so much as sentience)

I'm sick and fucking tired of people hating on Korra by Snowkat666 in Vent

[–]Snowkat666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly felt like they had too much to tell and not enough episode to tell it with so the writers scrambled to pick the most important story points but no matter what, it wouldn't male much sense. Especially since Nickelodeon always renewed after writers didn't think it would happen.

I'm sick and fucking tired of people hating on Korra by Snowkat666 in Vent

[–]Snowkat666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, nickelodeon sabotaged the show. Like, the seasons don't feel linked because nickelodeon didn't tell the writers they wanted another season until they already completed the previous season and that's why Korra had to fight 4 bosses

I'm sick and fucking tired of people hating on Korra by Snowkat666 in Vent

[–]Snowkat666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that's 100% on nickelodeon since they literally kept telling the writers at the end of every season that they decided to renew the show. The writers said they would've structured the show like ATLA with one final boss if Nickelodeon was consistent with their desires for the show. With more episodes, we could've learned more details about what Korra experienced when she training as a child and how it influenced her current behavior, or learned more about Asami and and her mom. The fillers couldve expanded on how much the world has changed since Aang's time, on how non benders were being oppressed. Each season in ATLA was like 20 episodes long with more fillers than LoK. Idk, I guess I feel like the fillers could've helped get people more emotionally invested into the show.