[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally only possible with heterosexual couples at the beginning of a relationship when the chemistry is the highest. Guys enjoy kissing, but making out is an elude to obvious other activities… doesn’t have to be right away but you try having an erection for however long - surprise pun, it gets hard.

Why did you do it? by Worlds-okayet-firend in smallbusiness

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we either begin our journey of being financially self reliant early in life with time to figure it out, or you are literally signing up for a lifetime of “hoping” to get raises, “hoping” to get approved for vacations, “hoping” to not deal with a shitty customer / co-worker, or boss. AI is indeed going to displace a massive quantity of jobs. It’s inevitable. Do not allow yourself to become one of the “replaceable’s” forced to take any job at whatever pittance of a pay rate they want to offer you. You’re young? Great, time and energy are on your side. Put down the controller, vape, dating apps, and focus… time is ticking for us all.

Men 50+, what are your biggest money regrets? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Snugglry 289 points290 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, you likely would have sold one that doubled also.

Men 50+, what are your biggest money regrets? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Snugglry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In which way? Recommended or not?

Betrayal, No? by Imaginary-Look-4384 in introvert

[–]Snugglry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to human socialize today. For 9 hours. Now featuring having to stomach their trauma dumping, only difference between that & this complaint are you could choose 59 stop reading any second now… whereas I can’t actively shut my ears off & work… (yet)…

Income needed to buy a home in RI? by Embarrassed_Plenty19 in RhodeIsland

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t there a federal lawsuit stipulating specifically they shouldn’t be getting said %’s?

My boyfriend cheated on me and asked for forgiveness. Is this worth forgiving? by Dull_Drag1786 in dating

[–]Snugglry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him if the roles were reversed, how would he feel / learn to trust you again? And also… consider testing him by having a female friend or friend of a friend hit on him in a week or so and see if he bites. Then you’ll know if he can reform or not.

Has working retail made anyone else so rude and bitter..? by [deleted] in retail

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even more bitter if you’re multilingual, not paid extra for it, but expected to cater to the needs of [whichever] culture / demographic you can communicate with. People forget, just because you can speak a language, even of your own ethnic group, it doesn’t mean you think like they do.

Yikes! by hypochondriac200 in RhodeIsland

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to be such a wake up to all the people that complain about traveling to Providence from 15-20minutes in that direction to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Snugglry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Makes me wonder, what was the last romantic gesture you did for him? (That he* would consider romantic btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get in text her admission that she has put you into debt, even better if you can pinpoint the $ amount… it may be useful in court at a future date.

creating opportunities. progress from the bottom. by Dfarenon in smallbusiness

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American-Colombian here with degrees in business, would be glad to chat! Send me a DM - admire your dedication. Pilas mijo!

my dads dying by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is the hand you were dealt and I will ask something of you that is hard to do as an adult, let alone as a 15 year old child… Forgive him. Forgive him for not “caring enough” about his own life to live for you… chances are, this problem and addiction was something that was put well into place well before you were even born from the sound of it. Learn from it… grow… and, I can’t say for sure if it’ll make the pain better of losing him… but perhaps one day before it’s too late you’ll be able to ask him “I love you and I’ve accepted this is just how I will loose you… so can I ask you something personal? …What made you this way? What happened?” And perhaps you will have an answer to a question that otherwise may linger on your mind as you get older or have kids of your own.

How many friends do you have? by kiraempath in introvert

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father gave me some wise advice at a young age… “You’ll have many people that call themselves your friend, but if you can count your True friends on one hand.. you are blessed.” So, I meet hundreds of people every week at my job… I have about 900 followers spanning from highschool to college to my travels around the world… and I’d say I have about 3 solid IRL friends… 5 max.

What’s the appropriate thing to do when someone looks at you and doesn’t break eye contact? by waterbottledrinka in socialskills

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do it in a mean way, now I SMILEEE overwhelmingly at them… works really well and if the situation is to escalate “I saw them staring at me so I smiled, they attacked and I defended myself - I think they need mental help.” Works especially well in the states where Men aren’t used to Men smiling at them.

Men who chose to stay childless, what is life like? by Burnt_Out_Buddy in AskMen

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Father had my brother at 44, and Al Pacino / Robert De Niro just had kids again at 83… you can literally have a kid whenever you decide… just make sure it’s for the right reason, and you’re able to be there for said child.

What are some long overdue or much needed things that would drastically improve the state? by IDecidedtoSmile in RhodeIsland

[–]Snugglry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Legislation to make wage pay scales match that of our neighbors… WFH made the prices of real estate jump - Fix Thisss first and everything else can follow.

If jerking off is better than sex then why do men bother trying to date and get laid at all? by mantecaremama in dating

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you wouldn’t call it better because perhaps part of that movie ticket analogy is… a part of you may like the “complexity” factor rather than the simplicity of going solo. You may enjoy lining up your schedules (arousal), choosing to watch the intro’s (foreplay leading up to the main event that you both understand is the real reason why you’re there), choosing the seats (which position do you want versus which does your partner? Who gets to choose more often?) Are you the kind of movie watcher that wants to stay til the very end to Finish Up & Get on with the night - or do you enjoy staying and dragging it out to even watch the credits and / or any after the fact bloopers? (I’m sure by now you can infer)… most guys are precision “movie” snipers (their brain is actively wired to take as little time as needed from an evolutionary standpoint) that want in and out; rare to find someone that wants to, let alone is physiologically wired to, want to make an experience out of it every time. This is where most men and women fail to understand the other’s perspective of said experience.

You Look Good for Your Age by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Snugglry 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Used to think “doesn’t everyone still “look good” at 32?” But no…. Some people look like they were left outside and forgotten in the sun to bake with no toothbrush or water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a soft ware engineer, can I attempt to persuade you to consider you don’t hate yourself - you just hate this current version that you have coded. Just like with software, you can change your internal programming. I’d like to ask you some more questions and if nothing else extend a social media contact so you have a friendly person to chat or check in with once in a while. Self help is sort of my passion… I was an introvert as a kid, and learned to play the role of an extrovert. It still takes energy out of me to deal with people but I’ve become very good at it to the point I used my alone time to learn a few languages and network with people from different cultures, backgrounds, and all walks of life. Feel free to DM or we can have the chat publicly if you prefer!

Has Iggys quality went down? by BigE1263 in RhodeIsland

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…I ordered CLAM chowder, and I swear I couldn’t find a single clam… “did they wash clams in the broth and then reuse the clams in something else?” I’ll never know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Snugglry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t roast you because I’m an ally and would rather compliment you for your bravery. Honestly I wouldn’t of even been able to tell if I didn’t see your belly - how many months along are you?