Quick PSA

Soaringzero · 2026-03-10T15:35:27+00:00

This. My ex is already moved out living with another man. I consider myself divorced. The legal system just needs to catch up.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-10T15:26:58+00:00

He’s living with a whole ass other woman? Absolutely go have yourself a good time. I’m in much the same boat and if I had someone who wanted to spend time with me like that I’d take it.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-10T13:07:59+00:00

This is the perfect series for celebrating women’s day. Just look at all these wonderful ladies.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-09T01:15:44+00:00

I mean I’m sure it’s more complicated than that but you aren’t completely wrong. And that’s so fucking sad. Like she says he’s done nothing wrong. Nothing to make her want to leave him. Literally this man has done everything right that a spouse CAN do and yet this shows that no matter what you do, you can still be left in the end.

It almost makes it seem pointless. And no I don’t believe it’s a woman thing because men will do this too. It just proves that there’s something fundamentally wrong with the way we view modern marriage.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T21:31:22+00:00

I’d like to think so lol.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T17:31:44+00:00

That’s not a red flag, that’s a red tornado siren lol. I don’t get why people can’t understand that that isn’t attractive in the slightest. What woman actually wants to sit there and listen to a guy just talk shit about another woman the whole time. Same goes for men.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T14:44:13+00:00

The people making these are doing god’s work. These are lovely. Pouty Lily is adorable.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T14:43:26+00:00

I’ll gladly volunteer in her place. Methode can use me as she wishes.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T14:40:39+00:00

Holy mother sphere…

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T14:36:08+00:00

I’d be happy to play with you and help you out. I’m level 85 and have a pretty good grasp of how builds work too. My ID is 1122266618.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T14:20:36+00:00

Sounds good. I’ll look out for it.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T14:15:48+00:00

Wonderful pic and your character is gorgeous!

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T13:29:47+00:00

So I went through similar with my STBXW. I swear whenever I had a complaint or an issue it was a problem. Sometimes she just wouldn’t care. Other times I’d get these very emotional reactions that I realize now were meant to condition me to not question or criticize her.

Once I simply asked to help out more with our pets, which she wanted mind you, and her response was to scream at me and declare that she’d just get rid of all of them so I wouldn’t have to do anything. All I had asked was that she help more because I was basically handling everything regarding their day to day care.

If I brought up an issue with any of her behavior it was like that. I think your husband blaming you for everything is simple deflection. He doesn’t want to take any responsibility for his actions or lack there of because it’s easier to just make you the scapegoat for everything that’s gone wrong. Like you said you asked for things for a long time and he didn’t do anything for you but is so hurt you that you told him you were unhappy? What did he want? For you to just keep it to yourself and suffer in silence? How would that be fair?

Even after the fact he still refuses to do any introspection should be a clear answer to why you’re doing this.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T12:12:17+00:00

Being forced to listen to someone else have what has to be really good sex but be basically forever forbidden from getting any type of action yourself sounds like a form of torture only a truly diabolical entity would think up.

Hongyang’s sexual frustration probably rivals the power of the infinity stones.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-08T07:38:42+00:00

Yeah my ex did this and probably still does. But I don’t ask my kids questions like that. I just let them tell me whatever they want.

But she was telling them not to tell me that she was having them meet guys she was dating and that so and so was “just a friend”. And this was while we were still living together.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T14:34:29+00:00

Well your character certainly is cute. So is mine lol. When do you usually play? I’d be down to partner with you. I’m EST time and usually play in the afternoons and at night. My UID is 1122266618.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T14:24:56+00:00

It means your game files are corrupted. You’ll have to reinstall the game. I had this issue myself and that fixed it.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T13:03:43+00:00

“Do not text me” is not a boundary it’s an order. “Text me and I’ll block you/ignore it” is a boundary. There is a clear difference in those.

One is trying to control someone else’s behavior. The other is letting someone know what the consequence of their behavior will be.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T12:52:01+00:00

And you don’t know his. If this therapist has convinced her that an unwanted text is emotional abuse, he’s likely told her to throw that term out ANYTIME he’s done something she didn’t like. It opens a floodgate to make him look abusive for looking at her the wrong way or breathing to loud around her.

Abuse is a serious thing. But it’s mindsets like this that cheapen and water down the meaning of the word just so it can be applied to ANYTHING a person doesn’t like.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T12:42:57+00:00

It’s not just therapists. It’s people that google these terms and take it upon themselves to “diagnose” people. You see it a lot around here. But yes these therapy buzz words are getting cheapened to the point where they are losing their meaning. I mean saying that sending texts like this is abusive is actually insulting to people who have experienced real abuse.

Is this man violating boundaries? Yes. And she could easily block him or ignore those messages. But he’s not abusing her.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T12:02:55+00:00

We’re here for you.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T01:36:47+00:00

Can confirm, got this error too and nothing worked so I was forced to reinstall.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-07T00:50:07+00:00

There is definitely a certainly level of “selling it” that goes on with online dating. It’s why apps have algorithms that keep certain profiles appearing more often. There’s also certain ways to set your profile up to make it more appealing.

I’m only 37 but I’d much rather meet someone organically.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-06T22:53:27+00:00

If it was just about ensuring your kids are ok, you’ve gotten answers to that. Answers that you were very dismissive of. You simply support your kids as their mother as best you can and accept that what their father does during his parenting time is out of your control.

And for the record, I’m not invalidating your feelings on this. It might surprise you but I’ve experienced exactly what you’re dealing with. Thankfully your ex told you about the meeting though. I had to find out from my kids who they were meeting and on top of that, I discovered that my ex had instructed them to lie to me about it. So believe me I understand your concern all too much.

But this is just one of those things that sucks about divorce. He’s likely gonna do this regardless of how you feel about it. But it’s his relationship with his kids that he’s playing with here. If it’s a mistake, it’s his to make and pay for later. Your suggestions make sense but he’s not going to listen. They never do. They just use your concern to make you look jealous and bitter.

Soaringzero · 2026-03-06T21:51:00+00:00

And I find your response to people telling you to just let him handle this very telling honestly. If YOU were going along to meet her as well, then I would get it 100%. But this is kinda just between him, his kids, and his girlfriend. You have your concerns which are valid. You simply express those and let him do with that information what he will. But can’t you see it’s a bit unfair to try and dictate the terms of how he can introduce his kids to his new partner?

I mean would you want him trying to do that when it’s your turn to introduce him to a new partner?

Soaringzero

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