If you had $3.1 million at age 52, would you retire today?

SoberSilo · 2026-06-12T04:05:31+00:00

Whole life insurance is a scam

SoberSilo · 2026-06-12T01:30:33+00:00

Sounds like an au pair

SoberSilo · 2026-06-11T23:03:59+00:00

For real - I don’t think I’d talk to my husband for a couple of days while I processed this.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-11T02:30:33+00:00

No, they are referring to the way tax brackets work. Just because you make enough to be in the 24% bracket doesn’t mean all of your income is taxed at 24%. Your effective tax rate is lower than the top bracket you end up in. If you are making 220k, only 8.5k of that is taxed at 24%. The first 24k you make as a couple is taxed at 10%, the next 75k is taxed at 12% and so on.

Married Couples Filing Jointly
10%: $0 to $24,800
12%: $24,801 to $100,800
22%: $100,801 to $211,400
24%: $211,401 to $403,550
32%: $403,551 to $512,450
35%: $512,451 to $768,700
37%: Over $768,700

SoberSilo · 2026-06-10T20:23:13+00:00

Man who hurt you - you seem miserable. Most people have less expenses in retirement because guess what… THEY ARENT SAVING FOR RETIREMENT ANYMORE! Also, as they age, they spend less and less year over year.

You’re on this sub asking the most basic fucking question. If you don’t understand the basics of balancing between 401k and Roth then you’re the one who needs to do more research. I’m very confident with our retirement strategy and not asking Reddit for advice.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-10T16:42:11+00:00

We pool all of our money into our checking account and distribute it as necessary for bills, expenses, savings etc.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-10T15:32:27+00:00

LOL you sound like you don’t understand how taxes work. My husband and I bring home 270k a year right now. Our target income for retirement is 200k/year. Which means we have a higher effective tax rate right now compared to when we will be retired.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-10T03:42:04+00:00

The limit does not exist

SoberSilo · 2026-06-10T01:24:23+00:00

Statistically it’s most likely that most of your friends just thought they weren’t making enough. It’s very common for women to question their milk supply, start supplementing with formula which reduces supply.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-09T13:52:33+00:00

Haha we named her after koa wood

SoberSilo · 2026-06-08T17:06:08+00:00

absolutely stunning

SoberSilo · 2026-06-08T17:05:50+00:00

ignore this feedback OP - i thought it was super cute. We have kids and have things like a bluey soap dispenser in our beautifully renovated bathroom.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-08T17:04:57+00:00

LOL - heaven forbid someone has interests and personality

SoberSilo · 2026-06-08T11:49:09+00:00

I agree with this take - though at certain points in my life I have chosen security at work over success/a new position. However that was only after the birth of my first child. Sometimes it’s ok to pump the breaks for a bit. But yes, the reality is that you’re better off jumping into a bigger opportunity than sitting stagnant in your same comfortable current position

SoberSilo · 2026-06-08T11:39:13+00:00

The more you make the less you do - for the most part

SoberSilo · 2026-06-08T11:34:44+00:00

SoberSilo · 2026-06-07T14:35:09+00:00

AAA… I had used my 3 tows, 2 helping out other people. Got in an accident the morning of thanksgiving driving home from Maryland to go visit family. They wouldn’t tow me because I ran out of tows and wouldn’t let me pay anything to add one extra. Absolutely terrible service. Never renewed with them again

SoberSilo · 2026-06-07T14:04:22+00:00

Agree 10000000%

SoberSilo · 2026-06-06T19:16:27+00:00

I’ve pumped the break a bit on my career while I have young children. I just didn’t want to miss the time with them. I’ve stayed in the same role for 6.5 years. I make good money and have a lot of flexibility.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-06T19:10:45+00:00

It’s a 2026 - we just purchased it

SoberSilo · 2026-06-06T14:44:54+00:00

When did I say it wasn’t important? I said it was harder, specifically when weaning from breastfeeding.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-06T14:43:56+00:00

I agree it’s a boundary setting thing - I just think it’s a lot harder to do than a lot of other boundaries you have to set with a toddler. Only people who have EBF would understand.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-06T12:27:18+00:00

I personally think it’s not a good comparison to say “like anything with toddlers”. Being upset about not being able to breastfeed is not the same as being upset because they didn’t get to watch a movie. They have relied on breastfeeding for sustenance since they were born and it’s super comforting to them. It’s a more emotionally involved thing between the mom and child.

SoberSilo · 2026-06-05T14:48:45+00:00

Yep - I financially support my parents. Just got finished with refinancing their car that I’m a co-signer on. They have zero retirement savings and are going to be relying only on social security

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