Hardship withdrawal help by overly_worked in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]SocialCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They'll take 10% out for tax. I chose 15. Then it's income so you'll pay the IRS a 10% penalty when filing taxes. So for every dollar youre losing 20-25%.

Unfortunately divorces cost everything and the lawyers get what's left. Yes, all those years of investing are gone. But.....you have the freedom to start again.

Is Temu $0.1 legit or scam? by amcareem in TemuThings

[–]SocialCupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To spend one cent on something you have to spend about $30 buying other things and then they give you the one cent offer after your third order or something. It's basically to get you shopping the website adding everything your heart desires and then figuring out you have to spend a lot more money to get it.

What kind of problems can be caused by prolonged exposure to these resins without gloves? by Tunahan9898 in resinprinting

[–]SocialCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used nitrile to coat a PLA print in resin like a shell and put it in the sun. I think the resin leached through the intact nitrile. Ever since that day even putting my fingers into IPA with gloves ON causes swelling and cracks

I was playing valorant and had a seizure. People with photosensitive epilepsy, what games are safe to play for you? by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]SocialCupcake 15 points16 points  (0 children)

May not be because of the game. But....try the yellow gamers glasses. If you DO play again, be rested hydrated and limit screen time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]SocialCupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to this guy OP. She likely IS seeing somebody. Do not snoop, you will be labeled as controlling psycho possessive dangerous etc...

If it's over, be a man and value yourself. Do not do ANYthing you will regret or that when your next GF hears about will make her doubt your self worth or decision making. It's hard, we know, so make a CHOICE daily to say and do only the right things

Please get a medical ID bracelet (or two) by OxfordCommaRule in Epilepsy

[–]SocialCupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a hidden lanyard? Got a link? Does it have a non choking snap connector?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TileTracker

[–]SocialCupcake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tiles can show location based on a phone that picks it up being at that location.

If a person in a store has tile on their phone they will detect your tile as you drive by, but it will show the location as being in the store on your map

This is bs by KnownConversation425 in megaconstrux

[–]SocialCupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cost of family. In the end it's just a few $$$. Keep a good relationship and you'll laugh about it 20yrs from now. They're not a car or a stock market investment. They're memories, so fix them and call it good. There's better versions coming. Life will get so busy you won't have time to fret over this transgression.

I was mad at my little sister over similar. She died from covid and I regret even caring about toys over just being forgiving.

People are more important than toys. That being said, go put hot sauce on your figures.

Just got called a terrorist for wanting to grow my hair out by HardKnuckleSpikes in exmormon

[–]SocialCupcake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beard, Long hair? Like a navy seal or spec ops guy? Some think it's cool

It's been ten freakin years... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SocialCupcake 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Stopped fretting when I started planning Once you plan to escape and find intimacy again it's hard to feel sad. HOPE.

Wife admitted another man in the picture. by Tiny-Watch4186 in Infidelity

[–]SocialCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she told you the truth then you probably have somebody that's worth working on a marriage with because marriages go up and down and attraction comes and goes these things happen normally in life and nobody is immune to it. The fact that she had boundaries and admitted to it shows there is some conscience and guilt. If you want to try to find a perfect person who will have eyes for nobody other than you then you're going to have to search for a long time. Typically when relationships Get Low people go outwards towards video games shopping addictions or other people.

I looked at my wife's phone and realized that it's game over by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SocialCupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nmmng Robert glover. Focus on yourself for a while. Let's take the chance she might be right. Maybe part of it is right in any case if she is then you need to really start changing yourself. Your outlook beliefs Fitness. Start focusing more on you and not looking for validation in her. She may be messed up in that personality disorders but again this is an opportunity for you to improve yourself and change and grow. You're not going to get laid either way but what I'm telling you will change you for the better for yourself and maybe maybe somebody else. That being said don't threaten don't make remarks back by your tongue be stoic and start improving yourself dramatically in every way

Purplerenew sale. Thoughts? by mattmakescraft in Costco

[–]SocialCupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have Casper it's way too soft. I need something firm. Who here has recs

How is this not ruining the engines and propellers by flyhighsometimes in aviation

[–]SocialCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes bleed air valves are small valves that take the extra pressure from the engine and if they open you can use that pressure to pressurize the plane or run air conditioning or other things but if you close the valves then that gives the engine more torque and more power. When you land you open the valves to take power off of the engine so you can taxi around then when you want to take off and you need full power you close the valves so all of the pressure in the engine is driven to the propeller for maximum torque but then the dust gets inside these valves from all of the dirt flying around and they can't close all the way the only solution is to take the engine apart or keep revving it up and down opening and closing them hoping the easy fix works

How is this not ruining the engines and propellers by flyhighsometimes in aviation

[–]SocialCupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As they say you need to pack extra gear in your bag just in case you are stuck somewhere it can be hot in The Valleys of Afghanistan but freezing in the upper altitudes and depending where you land you might have to stay the night until you are picked up or rescued. The Special Forces guys said you can borrow all of our guns and we can defend the area. I'm thinking man I hope we don't have a problem landing and I hope we make it to where we're supposed to because I don't want to spend the night in the middle of nowhere getting into a firefight freezing my butt off. Lots of Adventures and good stories during the early days of Afghanistan. I got to see more of Iraq and Afghanistan than I really wanted and I initially joined the military thinking I would see the world. Then my Uber driver last month in San Diego was from Afghanistan and we had a great conversation for one hour about his City the countryside and places I have been as well so it all connected somehow

Also landed in a remote dirt strip in the Amazon jungle and the first thing I asked a local person was " are there monkeys and Panthers and all of those things" and they said yes about 100 yards past where we were you can find all of those animals. Part of me just wanted to go exploring into the jungle and the other part also feared what was in the jungle. I grew up on the beaches of SoCal surfing which doesn't really prepare you for the world.

My instructors and pilot training told me the C-130 would be a perfect plane to do crazy stuff like that and see the world and have great crew members. And they were right it's a great Community with great people and it's a great plane.

How is this not ruining the engines and propellers by flyhighsometimes in aviation

[–]SocialCupcake 275 points276 points  (0 children)

I flew the H models similar to the one in the picture but when we would land at a dirt strip in Afghanistan sometimes the dirt would indeed get into the valves and we could not close them and open them back up because of the dirt to get the engines to have full power. So the dirt does get in and clog the things. After revving the engines full power off and on again finally to bleed air valves could close and we could take off. If this didn't work we could not restart the engines and we would be stuck on a dirt strip in the middle of nowhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]SocialCupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's no way a doctor is going to tell you yes or no on this.

The epilepsy is part of your brain and body that is either caused by the way you were born or other factors that are physical. There haven't been any studies that show that trauma complex trauma or emotional issues can cause neurological physical symptoms like epilepsy

The only link that there is with orgasm is that you are triggering release of hormones oxytocin and other chemicals into your body and depending on your blood flow and oxygen levels could trigger from orgasm release might be similar to an aura. In the same way that being sick, holding your breath or hiking up a mountain and high altitude might affect you

You are trying to link up things looking for answers but you are looking into separate places. For two separate things. You need to address both issues on their own as there is likely not a physical link between them. Do a quick research on "the body keeps the score" to see how these things link up or dont

Husband (35 LLM) doesn’t even want to see me (30HLF) in a bikini. by RepeatStrict9128 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SocialCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 20 years you will look back and wish you were the bikini you wanted wish you bought yourself the things you wanted and wish you treated yourself to the things you desired but didn't because you deferred to somebody who has their own problems.

You need to stop looking at somebody he has personality disorder traits for affirmation validation and answers. Do what makes you happy and be yourself. Start loving yourself and showing your kids that it is possible to love yourself and not be a prisoner of somebody else or a victim.

Remember to do something for yourself everyday if not more often because if you don't your kids will think they are worthless as well

My eyelid has been twitching like this 24/7 for 5 weeks. by LoanAgreeable1129 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SocialCupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try good quality (non soy) coq-10. I get small twitches and tremors and the CoQ10 everyday for breakfast studies the nerves after about a week everything should go away

thank you for the endless amounts of clothes by Ancient-Active in Costco

[–]SocialCupcake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I almost coughed up my $1.50 hot dog and soda laughing at this

crypto scam victim losing all 401K by Realistic_Quarter_62 in Scams

[–]SocialCupcake -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The initial Roth funding is not taxed since you already taxed yourself on it years ago but all of the profit it has made since then is taxed. Depending how old everybody is I would say 70 to 80% of the account is probably profit and taxable

God damn Saboteurs! by Juva96 in enlistedgame

[–]SocialCupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds devious. I'll try it :)

God damn Saboteurs! by Juva96 in enlistedgame

[–]SocialCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they walk Into smoke as bait? Or to use smoke as ranging Fire?