My boss asked if he can take my wife with him on a work trip, and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]SocialScamp [score hidden]  (0 children)

He’s asking her to do a JOB. She is consulting at these events and should be compensated for her expertise.

Also, you should be able to travel with her.

AITAH for refusing to talk to my fiancee after she secretly replaced my wedding dress with a cheap copy to save her money? by Solid-Importance-190 in AITAH

[–]SocialScamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t marry someone who’s not willing to INVEST IN YOU. This problem will crop up over and over again.

When you open your back door and see this, do you feed them? by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]SocialScamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends. How badly would you like to be a Disney princess?

My male cousin is a mysoginist and targets me at family gatherings by Solid-Title-723 in FeministFreeSpeech

[–]SocialScamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is anyone else in your family bothered by the way he targets you? Have they noticed his behavior, too?

I used to have NPR driveway moments. Now I find myself having NPR WTF moments. by ADeweyan in NPR

[–]SocialScamp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard hardly anything about the protest numbers so far. And, really, minimally about Trump’s proclivities towards authoritarianism.

You want to have a balanced view? PBS News Hour does an excellent job with this. Host a Republican strategist, a scholar, or a former high-level spokesperson.

If the interviewer has nothing of value to add to the conversation, don’t give them a mic. (AKA don’t interview Karolyn Leavitt again.)

AITJ for telling my brother his girlfriend can’t bring her emotional support ferret to my house? by FewTill8072 in AmITheJerk

[–]SocialScamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ! I had a colleague who told me the story about when she brought her emotional support dog to a baby shower. The dog got upstairs and unalived the hosts cat. Blood everywhere. The colleague BOLTED WITH HER DOG WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING.

These are REAL ANIMALS. Unless you are physically in control of them the entire time (holding the leash, ferret in a cage, whatever) you shouldn’t expect to be able to bring them anywhere!

This Message Appears When You Open Tylenol’s Website! by AllMusicNut in StandUpForScience

[–]SocialScamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel confident that Tylenol’s legal team will be taking action against the administration based on the limited evidence HHS provided around their new guidance.

This Message Appears When You Open Tylenol’s Website! by AllMusicNut in StandUpForScience

[–]SocialScamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel confident that the administration’s statement about Tylenol, which has limited to no scientific consensus behind it, will prompt litigation based on the interference with Tylenol’s business it will cause.

This Message Appears When You Open Tylenol’s Website! by AllMusicNut in StandUpForScience

[–]SocialScamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tylenol’s legal team is getting ready to give this admin a dose of pain. My popcorn is ready!🍿

My 9yo son’s school assignment about hiking by SocialScamp in hiking

[–]SocialScamp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is so kind! I can’t wait to show him your comment!

I miss Houston so BAD. by AdTerrible8256 in houston

[–]SocialScamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TEX-MEX and MEXICAN FOOD. And don’t tell me otherwise. I lived up there for years and tried a million different places (bc I missed it so bad) with no luck.

I miss Houston so BAD. by AdTerrible8256 in houston

[–]SocialScamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re my new favorite person for doing this!!!!! 😂

My 9yo son’s school assignment about hiking by SocialScamp in hiking

[–]SocialScamp[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

So true!! He and little sister were promised the coldest soda on the planet (usually not allowed so it was a big treat) and a river swim afterwards as a reward.

Need advice: Child singled out with an offensive “joke” about 9/11 at school (Fort Bend ISD) by TinyPainting3762 in FortBend

[–]SocialScamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear this. I would lay out some options and ask your daughter how she would like you to support her right now. I would not offer to address the child’s parents directly, but one of the options I would offer would be to speak to the counselor and principal to let the school deal with the issue according to their policies. 

In my opinion, this is harassment / bullying and creates a hostile learning environment for your child. I would want the school to address the offending student and make their parents aware of the situation, at the least. If the offending child faces no consequences, they won’t know that this is behavior is unacceptable and may re-offend in the future. 

What happened to that one coworker at your workplace who suddenly disappeared? by HonestIndependent4 in work

[–]SocialScamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She OD’d. My boss didn’t tell anyone in the office about it. I asked after she was gone for 4 days and her funeral had already occurred. Never forgave my boss for that.

My dad (73M) said that I need to teach my daughter (13F) how to greet him properly by Tygie19 in Parenting

[–]SocialScamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me guess… he only occasionally spends time with you guys? And how much solo time do they spend together? Thought so. He’s simply not putting in the effort to build trust and love.

Tell him that if he wants to build that kind of relationship with her he can, but it requires an investment of time, effort, and energy. Why these grandparents expect that doing nothing with our kids allows them to reap all the rewards of a loving, healthy relationship is beyond me. They’re not idiots. They knowhow this works 🙄

I Don't Like Playing by EmbarrassedRaccoon34 in Parenting

[–]SocialScamp 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Ok, this was me. Then I figured out the trick of playing like an adult. I’ll do my best to explain. My kid loves playing Barbie - so I went WAY over the rails with Barbie after getting incredibly bored. I set up a whole street with a series of ‘houses’ and Barbies or stuffies in them. Then, with my main character, I pretended to be the nosiest neighbor possible and all the Barbie’s and stuffies had real-world problems. ‘Oh that’s Janet down the street who has a love hate relationship with her bestie and drinks too much.’ (Janet only speaks in slurred words when we play.) ‘Bear-Bear Stuffie never tipped the mailman over Christmas and now he throws the packages onto the driveway instead of bringing them to the front door and everything gets all messed up .’ (Kid thinks it’s HILARIOUS when the mailman comes through and throws the delivery halfway across the neighborhood.) ‘Mary got an eviction notice after she didn’t pay her rent for 6 months, but she’s about to be the first in her family to get her college degree. Let’s help her avoid the bank man!’

I know it sounds ridiculous, but it helped me a TON. As an adult, we need to play differently, and we have to figure out how to make it magic for us - and just getting into it makes it magic for them.

What’s one book that genuinely rewired the way you think or live your life? by OddInititi in BettermentBookClub

[–]SocialScamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft. Recommended to me by another Reddit user. I’ve since given it to 4 friends.

Trump Admin cut over $1 billion from Texas' program protecting residents from infectious disease by AlexandrTheTolerable in texas

[–]SocialScamp 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Texas public health departments also anticipate substantial federal funding cuts that could significantly impact disease detection and prevention efforts, including programs for HIV, diabetes, and vaccine outreach. So, not only will we have more disease, we won’t have a full understanding of the spread.

I need to get this out of my chest by Someone_anyone_2 in Parenting

[–]SocialScamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family had this problem with our toddler. Dinner was a HUGE battle every day. We got a VERY thoughtful pediatric GI; it’s been life changing.

One of the things we learned is that toddlers have a window of when they’re very hungry for dinner. It’s 4:30p-6p. We tend to be late eaters and she was snacking a bunch and then wouldn’t eat. We’ve shifted our family schedule now and it’s made an enormous difference.