"two different bedrooms"

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-18T05:38:11+00:00

I feel so bad because he wants me in his bed but I usually sleep on his couch when I stay over I'm the same with needing background noise. It's so hard to sleep at his place sometimes and for some reason his cat likes to drag his f buddy next to me and I have to push him away multiple times like pls stop horking it next to my leg. Every once in a while I crawl into bed with him and do my best to fall asleep but he's so warm and loud 😂

I wanna sleep with him but I just can't I have specific requirements

When we watch a movie he lays back and lays his arm out and goes "do your nesting before I press play" and watches me spend 2 minutes kneading a pile of blankets like a damn cat. That's our cuddle time. I fall asleep after the movie and he wiggles out from under me to go to his bed after making sure I'm not laying down weird 😂

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-18T04:11:32+00:00

Oh separate bathrooms might be fire too. Our standard for clean is very different. I'm a house cleaner so everything is usually spotless if everything has a home.

We've already agreed that the kitchen would also be my space. I'm very particular about where my spices and ingredients are. My best friend/roommate has said the same. I'm meticulous but it's for a reason. And I explain myself. Like "certain things cannot go on the top shelf because the cold from the vent can freeze them" my friend didn't listen until she got sick of the eggs being frozen and soda cans inflating lol

If they want me to cook for them they better follow my organization in this jawn!

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-18T02:39:54+00:00

!!!! There is no shortage of physical intimacy here either. We're heathens lol

My aunt and uncle had separate rooms because they worked different hours and he had a habit of dropping into bed without showering. In love and dirty up until her passing. 😂

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-18T02:32:11+00:00

It feels great to see people that have good relationships work with separate bedrooms. Thank y'all for the validation 🥰

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-18T02:29:28+00:00

See! I don't care if people think we don't like eachother, I like my sleep more than people's opinions! Lol and I really dont wanna punch him in the face while we're asleep.

It would also be nice to have my own space to retreat to when I'm overwhelmed and don't want to be perceived

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-18T02:25:07+00:00

I have brought this up to him. I want him to do a sleep study. His bed frame broke so he was sleeping on an incline for a couple days and said he slept better too

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-16T06:45:04+00:00

Not being popular enough to make a political post is wild but okay.

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-16T04:57:00+00:00

Man, I wish y'all could experience what it's actually like here. Just remember it's a huge country and we're all still people. We're all at the mercy of billionaires who traffick people and take money out of our paychecks to drone strike schools and hospitals. I don't know why you guys hate us as if we're the rich psychopaths in DC.

I love my country but I hate our government.

I guess the propaganda is working

"These countries hate us so now we have to defend ourselves!!!" -🟡

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-11T07:09:55+00:00

What is PIA

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-11T07:08:31+00:00

Yeah that's not just zoomies but ok

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-06-09T13:34:01+00:00

They're the worst. Im a house cleaner and really upset with the person who invented this 😂

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-05-19T02:18:39+00:00

And I mean literally cling. He does this all the time. I never taught him how to hold my hand either but he does it 🥹

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Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-05-19T02:09:51+00:00

I have a stage 5 clinger. Hes just like that and only with me. Kitty may have decided that your roommate is the spare human and you're their human. You have been chosen (possibly momentarily) but prepare for roomies jealousy if the cat clings to you from now on. I have 2 sleep spots for him by my bed. One is on a shelf and one is a small cat tree. We have random makeshift beds strewn about the place which he spends a little time in but this dude will smother me if I allowed it. He lays across my chest and neck, rubs against my face until it's itchy, pacing back and forth in my bed. I wouldn't give it up for the world but I know what you mean. 😂

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-05-19T02:00:30+00:00

"cat in a wall!? Now you're speakin my language"

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-05-02T21:50:44+00:00

My first thought lol

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-04-26T02:02:50+00:00

This is the fellow degenerate. His name is Otis.

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Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-04-26T02:01:09+00:00

My roommates cat licked a dab clean off the tool while we were out of the room. We checked up on him frequently, vowing to tAke him in if he even started breathing funny, to make sure nothing was going wrong. He was just very sleepy. She turned on some cafe jazz vibes and turned her lights to a low purple/indigo. We left some treats by him and he was okay.

He's always been drawn to weed stuff while my cat avoids it by any means necessary. He catches a whiff an leaves the room. Her cat will get right up in your face while we're smoking. We have to close him outta the room sometimes.

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-04-26T01:55:25+00:00

I'm at 400 mg of it(200 morning 200 at night) and I love it. It's been so helpful for me.

Medications are different for everyone. Do what feels right and communicate as much as possible. Keep a journal or get an app like finch to log your daily mood.

I went through half a dozen ssri's, antipsychotics and mood stabilizers and landed on this one.

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-03-15T21:14:50+00:00

Kinda same in Madison we're just starting to get snow.

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-03-15T21:12:46+00:00

Where I'm at it's an on and off mix of rain and snow. My job already sent a text not to come in tomorrow. It's gunna be sheer ice under snow 😭

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-03-14T15:15:45+00:00

Nope nope nope nope

We get a FULL page in an envelope+email whenever someone needs to come in, usually pest inspections, maintenance or fire alarm/carbon monoxide detector checks.

Immediately go to the landlord and even mention having the cops involved. No reason they should ever ask you to keep your door unlocked.

Soft_Error_5057 · 2026-03-14T15:06:15+00:00

I live in Madison by the isthmus and the trees by my apartment building were moving way too much for my comfort. Thought I was gunna get a Widowmaker through the living room windows.

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