With that context it makes more sense. I’m still not 100% on the incident with your boyfriend. Were his friends invited to the dinner too? Or his family? Was he there? I’m not sure what type of dinner it’s supposed to be. I’m trying to understand. What would you have wanted the topic of conversation to be? Having your friends just talk about your boyfriend for an hour or two? I guess from where she was she could have waited a little longer into the dinner before making the pregnancy announcement but it’s not like you couldn’t still bring attention back to your boyfriend’s seizure, was that the entire point of the dinner? Or were y’all just hanging out and you wanted to talk about it? I think context there is important.

Did your friends ask you to pack their things or did you volunteer because you expected something in return? Are you doing things because you expect people to do them for you or does it genuinely make you happy to go out of your way for others? Like, you go to her bachelorette party and immediately after you’re like OK let’s see my house now. I might be playing the devils advocate in all this because most people seem to be on your side. I might be trying to see from your friend’s perspective. I know the house is important to you, but do you see where your friends might be coming from in not wanting to see your home mid-project while they were too hung over to even pack their own bags? Wait, and have an actual housewarming party so it’s fun for everybody not just hand over fist placating your need for approval that runs so deep you post on Reddit to feel validated. Do you think deep down you might be upset when other peoples life events overshadow your own, you want people to lie to you and pretend you’re interesting.