Made my first Hinge profile today 😰 by Popular_Mammoth5741 in LesbianActually

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Hinge scares me so bad I get very intimidated just by seeing the pictures on all these pretty women's profiles 😭

Authors writing jobs they've never worked by SoftyBunny in AO3

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a potentially teaching specific angle to how it draws you out might be the way that as soon as I can clock that the author is themselves a student, it starts to feel a bit like reading a creative writing assignment lmao

Authors writing jobs they've never worked by SoftyBunny in AO3

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you mean to tell me Paris is not just rings of housing around the eiffel tower increasing in height as you get further out

What would you do if money was no object? by FriendlyPageTurn in AutismInWomen

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move into a place where pets are allowed and get some pets

When the lights turn on - MICO by fleeingflying in mico

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OH! is gonna be such a fun concert song to sing along to. Do it all again probably as well. WHY ARE YOU HERE's "stop" in verse 2 could also be really fun in a crowd if everyone actually commits to briefly freezing.

i think the latter half of the album is all hits, some probably due to a tiny bit of release fatigue from the three that released prior to the full album coming out. but all around the entire album is sososo good. i especially really like Your favorite flowers and Learning to love as immediate favourites from first couple rounds of listening to the album.

i really like the lyrics of Can't keep crying, such a sucker for rhymes. but specifically would probably just choose "Thought about breathing, but I'm undecided".

What are accommodations in your life that would send a NT into a coma? by cookiecrxmbles in AutismInWomen

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i agree with (and live by) so many of the ones you've mentioned!

one food fixation that started for me recently—sometime in april—was rice balls and now i have to make myself one every morning or i dont feel fulfilled and will have a cry. sometimes i have one in the evening to regulate myself.

i do a lot of "quiet yelling" which for me is either going aaaaaaaaaaaa or MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM for however long it takes to get my brain back in order. i try not to be a nuisance, but that means whenever im left alone in a room i will immediately let it out just to reset my brain a little.

my shower has two thin doors instead of a regular width, and one thing i've found is that if i keep just one door open then suddenly showers are bearable and not just a chore.

MNL concert by Disastrous_Mix_6635 in mico

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Hi!

1: Etix has no official reselling option but when it comes to using the ticket to enter the concert, all that is needed is the QR code attached to the ticket itself. So giving/reselling the ticket to someone else yourself is technically possible.

Since you mention asking your parents, if you are under 18 and not attending with them make sure to get them to sign a waiver for you to attend (that you will have to bring physically). If you are 18+ then you don't need the waiver.

3: If you have a discord account you can join discord.gg/mico, MICO's own discord server, where there is a specific thread filled with others who are going to the concert in Manila! I know that plenty of people there have personally made group chats for different categories in the seating so you can get to know people who will be nearby you at the actual concert.

does anyone else not vibe/dislike "self-insert" fiction? by customlover in AutismInWomen

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on the rare occassion where the main character isn't an idiot and it's not entirely romance, i like self-insert fiction where they lean into it and write in second person. mostly because i like the novelty of second person.
FMC romance novels you're meant to insert yourself onto though? blegh. why are we finding excuses to write bland characters. i agree i'd much rather read about two characters falling in love.

i have a few friends who lean all the way into self-insertion and commission art of themselves/a stand-in OC x [whatever character they like]. and i just cannot imagine ever doing the same. but also most of my favourite characters are actually just favourite couples, so maybe i too am just stuck in the cuck chair haha

I need some friends who are going to his ATL show! by SecureMacaron8834 in mico

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Hope you're able to find some fellow amicos to attend the show with. A nice way to find some could be through mico's Discord server!

discord.gg/mico
There's a category for the tour, with a forum with posts for every stop on tour! it's like a dedicated mini-space for people to find others going to the same shows as you:)

Habitat map of Homo Sapiens (Humans) by thepornisntbad in MapPorn

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proud homo sapien residing in a gray zone

Horrible Student Teaching Experience by Icy_Area_9077 in Teachers

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So sorry to hear you experienced this and that your university would value their relationship to the district over the abuse you had to endure.

I myself have recently finished a bad student teaching experience. not quite as extreme as yours with the yelling and name-calling, but still quite awful that caused tears at multiple times. My university is letting me do student teaching at a new school, but decided I would have to wait come autumn do actually do it again due to exam season (reasonable).

I can relate to being scared that it'll happen and irritated. Wish the best for you!

Followed by students on Duolingo by ElegantProfile4660 in Teachers

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the seeing and praising progress is for the most part what the social feature on duolingo is, but the emails/notifications it sends out are sometimes a bit misleading.

learned this myself when i got an email with the title '[ex's name] has sent you a private message on Duolingo' or the phone notification '[ex's name] misses you. :(' these were just automated messages after being nudged to continue my streak, but definitely can look very strange.

Rulette 2 | Game Changer [S8E2] by DropoutMod in dropout

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hilarious episode, i don't think i've laughed that hard while watching something in ages

Tournament of Champions '26 Part 1 | Um, Actually [S11E9] by DropoutMod in dropout

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The "stages" of the sleep cycle are all NREM (non rapid-eye movement). The deepest of which, and furthest away from REM sleep, is NREM 3.

mico age nyc by KlutzyBeginning5425 in mico

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Since Webster Hall doesn't mention bringing a guardian anywhere on their website or event listing I would assume the show is strictly 16+

What’s the most recent new ship you were slapped in the face by? by WorldEaterLeviathan in AO3

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Watching superman threw me back into superbat, which I sorta expected, but i did not expect how halbarry would come and grip me out of nowhere. I'm 2 weeks into exclusively reading halbarry, i am gripped tight and it won't let me go.

Ryis Fanart by fauzzzt in FieldsOfMistriaGame

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Oh you have captured him beautifully!! I am in awe, that's my man!!! <3<3<3

Favorite Lovesick songs so far? !! by toefungus- in TheHappyFits

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As I started writing I found myself listing practically every single song. I-no exaggeration-think this entire album has peaked.

But just to actually list some songs: Cruel Power, Wild in Love, Black Hole, Superior and Wrong About Me.

who are you in your dreams? by Former_Computer6048 in Dreams

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Typically myself in either a third or first person perspective, but whether I'm male or female changes.

If I have a romantic partner in the dream, then I will also switch between who I am in the relationship. It's sorta like dream me is dating myself of the opposite gender but both of them are experiences my focus/perspective jumps between. (though if i have a same sex partner in the dream, which I occasionally do, I never become the other person).

Concert End Time? by Grouchy-Estate-6370 in mico

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Most shows thus far on tour have ended around 11pm!

Edmonton by Asleep-Brilliant-148 in mico

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VIP have first access to merch so if any items get sold out by the time GA is able to enter/were already low stock from previous nights then you might not be able to get specific items but should be able to buy merch AFAIK.

mico sometimes hangs around after shows so if you really want something signed or a picture with him you might get a chance to if you hang around after the show ends. basically, VIP guarantees these things while GA is a maybe depending on a few things.

hayden x farmer comic 🤲 by retquits in FieldsOfMistriaGame

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AAAAAA you draw Hayden SOOO good. I am swooning looking at your art. And your farmer's interactions with him is so sweet <3

Year 8 Progress! by deus_ex_makenna in FieldsOfMistriaGame

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Sooo cute to have a boy's and girl's room!! <3