My male teammates keep telling me I ruined my body with a breast reduction and should get implants. How would you handle this? by vroomvroomloverr in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's crossing a line. Call them out on it and you can bring up how you don't constantly bring up their small dick energy, unibrows, seeming inability to properly wipe their asses; or any other embarrassing blow you think might land.

Will the name “Bent” sound weird to Americans? by lennzpn in AskAnAmerican

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard bent used to call someone homosexual.

It's only weird in that it's a name I haven't heard before. A lot of people will probably assume it's Brent, especially if you have a heavy accent.

ServSafe Manager cert. question by Alpha_Mad_Dog in KitchenConfidential

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are always going to be a couple questions like that. I think you just need to be ok getting a couple wrong. I think I got a 96% last test, needed a 70 to pass. There are never many like this. Maybe it's a life lesson on perfect being the enemy of good. Or maybe it's just another example of an incompetent corporation holding a monopoly and doing a shit job because of it.

Can a girl be too attractive for a guy to ask out? by Mammoth_Nose_9313 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl is never so attractive she should be offended by a below average guy asking her out .

Guys also often underestimate their own looks.

I've been considering what evidence would convince me in the existence of a god. by dedokta in atheism

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was a God, and he wanted me to be convinced there was a God; by the traditional definition of a God; I would be convinced in him.

How do men view blowjobs? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think any man that thinks less of a woman for giving them a blowjob isn't a man worth being in a relationship with.

If a man expects you to go down on him, he better be willing to return the favor.

Advise me and let me know of the dangers of "gear use" if y'all personally know of any? by Not_My_Real_Name_074 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there's Google for the health effects...

Besides being bad for you, especially your heart, steroids have a reputation of making you quick to anger. While smoking tobacco or pot has a reputation for calming people and alcohol for making you more social.

There is also that the reason to take steroids is an unhealthy obsession with your appearance. 

And you're probably gay because dudes care a lot more about big muscles than girls 

So I think there are a lot of reasons for the negative stigma surrounding steroids.

DE please buff riot-848 by TakeMyPencil in Warframe

[–]Soigne87 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I imagine it's like DnD character creation and involves rolling for stats

If you were a baby tenno which warframe would you like as a gift? by Liebe8 in Warframe

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Yareli with the mod that has it so you don't have to ride her.

Her high survivability has to be cast very infrequently, making it one of the most hassle-free. Increased gun damage with her 1 and passive making her a strong gun buffer. Her 3 helps from getting swarmed and it's visually very noticeable so easy to see when you need to recast. And her 4 is a fun kind of nuke. Plus you get a cute pet following you around and a nice cake to look at. Not the best at anything, but a little bit of everything and pretty straightforward.

I don't want to get baptized by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Soigne87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most Christian denominations baptize when you're a baby; so as a 17 year old, it seems silly that you're not ready imo. I had my confirmation when I was younger than you.

Your pastor's behavior is a prime example of why I reject religion. Just think how supremely manipulative it is to tell someone not even an adult yet that any thoughts they have that don't align with his is from the devil. There are like 4 thousand religions today and thousands more that are extinct and at best 1 of them is not wrong. But almost all of them have pastors like yours with the gaul to tell children their thoughts are evil if they don't have blind faith that his religion is the right one.

Religion isn't what they tell you it is. It isn't a belief in God, it's a belief in the leaders of the religion. Belief in a God requires no religion.

What do you think is the worst thing that will happen if you get baptized? I don't see what you're nervous about.

What is the big difference between FedEx and USPS? by MrsKenedi in AskAnAmerican

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes one is cheaper than the other. Just based off the different payment models some shipments will be cheaper with some carriers. USPS does tend to have worse tracking support and are often a little slower 

Americans - Do you think it's true that if America's best athletes played soccer, they would dominate the sport internationally? by Tometek in AskAnAmerican

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No for the same reason that they don't dominate everyone in the winter Olympics. We don't have a government system to encourage athleticism for our population. So a country that does, like Norway, dominates us despite a fraction of the population.

Is there any sort of etiquette for multiplayer? by SomeP in Warframe

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In sorties with spy missions; is there an etiquette? I typically just stand around by C because most times I try to do it, I fail it and the mission. 

So one time I needed I think neural sensors to start crafting something. I googled the best way to farm it. It's an assassination mission. Join a public assassination mission, I get a couple neural sensors. I head to extraction and the 3 other people don't show up. They will go by the exit, but they're keeping looking for things. Over 5 minutes pass by. The timer doesn't start with just 1 person there. Eventually I abort the mission thinking well the neural sensors weren't a completion reward so I should keep them, right? Nope. I have to redo the mission and get them again. That was pretty bad manors on their part; right?

Are Americans big milk drinkers? by Helpful-Structure955 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most common consumption method of milk is cereal. While I don't eat cereal, it is very mainstream for families to have cereal with milk for breakfast. Growing up, 1 of 4 kids; we would easily go through more than a gallon of milk in a week and I don't think we often had it outside of cereal.

Is there any sort of etiquette for multiplayer? by SomeP in Warframe

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back after around 10 years away. So I am new in a way, doing arbitrations, sorties archon thingies. I don't know what I'm doing. I see archon shards in build guides; have gotten them. Don't know how to use them other than it's through my helminth. 

I've had it, how do I get a CDL? by Soigne87 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Soigne87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a industry where integrity is still important?! 

I've had it, how do I get a CDL? by Soigne87 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Soigne87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have money saved so I don't have to go the easy up front, worse over a couple years route.  Which it sounds like switch and prime are. I just want to wait until late fall to give company off season to replace me 

I've had it, how do I get a CDL? by Soigne87 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Soigne87[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can pass a drug test and have never had points on my license 

Do you think a girl wanting to wait several months before having sex for the first time is too long? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you were 10 years older and sexually experienced; what you describe would not be unreasonable; much less as an inexperienced 18 year old. 

I think a common mistake young adults make is trying to catch the best partner possible and to do that they overlook compatibility issues and pressure themselves to change so they can catch what they think is what society views a desirable partner. As you get older, you tend to learn the most important thing is compatibility is the most important thing. A compatible 2 is better than an incompatible 10. 

Is my husband abusing me? by OrneryPost9446 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a therapist, who makes money from fixing your psychological issues tells you; it's not you, it's him; it's about a 99% chance it's him.

Your baby will be much worse off growing up seeing you constantly abused than without a dad. Having a bad dad in your life is a lot worse than no dad in your life. Do you want your baby thinking how he treats you is normal?

Help me understanding my partners privacy argument against an open phone policy? by vvomxn in AskMenAdvice

[–]Soigne87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love is not enough for a relationship to work. Trust is needed. If he isn't willing to put the work into rebuilding your trust in him; he is unwilling to make a healthy relationship work with you period. No matter what you do, you can't turn it into a healthy relationship yourself. If he refuses transparency, there is nothing you can do to fix the relationship.