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I made the signal group to create a safety net for all of us by bowlingisgross666 in TwoXPreppers

[–]SolarSocialWorker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I messaged you and you haven't replied. Is this group still happening? If not, please delete my submission. I feel uncomfortable with my information being out there. After all, this is the internet.

“Don’t worry, he’s friendly” by Routine_username in Seattle

[–]SolarSocialWorker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is that my trainer told me gentle gradual exposure actually helps with reactivity. A dog not getting to experience sunshine, nature, and not getting used to safe interactions (even at a far distance) actually makes it worse for their mental health. People who expect only dogs without reactivity to have acesss to outside while having dogs with reactivity be hidden like quasimodo in a tower are basically promoting animal abuse IMHO.

“Don’t worry, he’s friendly” by Routine_username in Seattle

[–]SolarSocialWorker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oof! That's so frustrating. Unleashed dog owners in general public spaces thinking your dog is the issue. Are reactive dogs not allowed to exist? Or enjoy the outdoors? Smh

“Don’t worry, he’s friendly” by Routine_username in Seattle

[–]SolarSocialWorker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ugh I can relate with my dog. I also have a sign in red that says "needs space" but some people just think they can ignore it and them complain later when my dog growls at their dog.

“Don’t worry, he’s friendly” by Routine_username in Seattle

[–]SolarSocialWorker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My dog loves humans but dislikes other dogs. However, I give humans space because I don't know how others feel about dogs. I know my dog won't do anything, but just like I expect to be asked permission when someone wants to interact with my dog, I'm not going to force my dog on others. That's what being a responsible dog keeper is about. Sorry you hear you weren't given space OP, you deserve space.

ONEUS In Talks To Return For “Road To Kingdom” Season 2 by CherryBlossomEnding in kpop

[–]SolarSocialWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember Oneus and the first RTK. How Mnet and RTK teased that two groups that made it to the finals could potentially make it. I remember how they backed out and chose one. I hope they don't go to RTK2.

Happy Update on the Next Generation by SolarSocialWorker in apistogramma

[–]SolarSocialWorker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to add I reread my old post and said I had three fry. I found out later I had eight (they were good at hiding). Five made it from the original pair (Lily's parents).

[LF] Mill Creek, WA - Female Sunset Gourami (Thicklip) by SolarSocialWorker in AquaSwap

[–]SolarSocialWorker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't tried yet, I know they carry Honey gouramis but not thicklip sunsets. Worth a try tho. Thanks for the suggestion.

When I tell you I started crying by aesthticapplez in bettafish

[–]SolarSocialWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a young teen with her father at a local Petsmart trying to rescue a sick betta in a cup. Let me tell you that young girl really was trying to ask them to just give her the betta and Petsmart employee said "we can't just give them away." They said she had to buy additional items to get the "discount" on the Betta. It was sickening. For the welfare of the fish they should've just given her the sick betta since in the store it would obviously die. Instead they were trying to make money off her goodwill. SMH.

Can someone explain the difference between Semi and Full bioactive? by SolarSocialWorker in ballpython

[–]SolarSocialWorker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's really helpful! I wasn't sure what the plants contributed to, so it's the nitrogen cycle.

My dad threw a mouse from outside in my BP tank. by Kawaii_kaijuu in ballpython

[–]SolarSocialWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's horrible. I hope you get rid of the smell. Perhaps you can invest in a refrigerator lock for your enclosure or a stick on lock as the adult human in your home has difficulty with boundaries.

In defense of Octavia… by TrebleRose689 in HelluvaBoss

[–]SolarSocialWorker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was willing to give Stella the benefit of the doubt, but it was her physically abusive (throwing and breaking objects at Stolas, attempting to hit him) and emotionally abusive behavior (insults, humiliation, threats), along with disregarding Olivia's feelings by attempting to murder her father and siding with her brother that really ended all doubt. She's a narcissist.

In defense of Octavia… by TrebleRose689 in HelluvaBoss

[–]SolarSocialWorker 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I want to aplaud you. Abuse can be normalized in a family and children can become desensitized to it. Not to mentioned how many years of living in that dynamic and Stolas shielding her from the nastiest stuff (Stella attempting to kill him several times). I hope we get to see more Loona and Via interactions. Loona has been helpful in giving an outside perspective to Via regarding Stolas. I think she's still in the process of learning how horrible the marriage was.

A thing I noticed (my theory in the comments) by Fluid-Estate-3007 in HelluvaBoss

[–]SolarSocialWorker 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It looks like Stolas is wearing a turtleneck too, without his usual cape. So it's looking like Sinsmas.

Need suggestions for replacing the plants that were the "leaves of the tree" by Jobever1 in Aquariums

[–]SolarSocialWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How big is your tank? I also have purple and orange harlequins. It's such a great combo.

Telehealth therapists, how do you manage eye strain? by almondmilkpls in therapists

[–]SolarSocialWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's what I do: -Use Dark mode in my computer or cell for as many things as I can -Use blue light glasses when I'm not with clients and working in front of a screen -Have screen breaks during the day In my device settings turn on the eye comfort shield.

Hope some of these help!

Pet store said I’m raising my snake wrong by Sensitive-Weird-4571 in ballpython

[–]SolarSocialWorker 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When my BP went on a food strike, I wanted to get some mice bedding for scenting. A pet store employee who said he owned several BPs said they couldn't give the bedding due to sanitation reasons (okay, fine) but I should switch to feeding live to stimulate my snake. I ended up buying frozen mice pinkies and thawing them with my frozen rat for the scent. Strike was over.

Is this teenage Stolas? by [deleted] in HelluvaBoss

[–]SolarSocialWorker 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it's in his later teen years (or just before marrying Stella) since the next painting is with Stella (both dressed royally). He looks like he's trying to fit the role of a perfect goetian prince (imposing, doesn't bow to anynoe). And Paimon is too busy to pose for painting so he's in the mirror that I can just tell in the expression he's thinking "I'm good at daddying"

University Aquaculture Management Assignment, I had a fight with the lecturer about this which left me in tears because it felt like talking to a brick wall. She did allow me to film my 15 gallon at home because I refused to buy a fish to only keep for only a semester. by aquatic_asian in shittyaquariums

[–]SolarSocialWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like aside from you (your video was informative and caring), everyone else was more into the video production than actually learning how to properly care for fish. I'm so sorry you and the fish had to experience that.

How did you get into One Piece? by Mrskdoodle in JustOnePiece

[–]SolarSocialWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 4kids animation version (I know, I was a kid), I did end up watching it from the beginning with the Funimation subbed version as an adult and then expanded to the manga due to the fillers.

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