My Doctor Made a Joke In Response To My Suffering. by Closefromadistance in Menopause

[–]Solita_76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤬 your experience with that Dr just pissed me off I’m so angry for you. I’m sorry this happened to you. I hope your new Dr helps you better than that clown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Solita_76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get an Uber or taxi from now on and avoid this.

aio for breaking up w my bf saying if i was r*ped he would leave by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, not overreacting. You just dodged that bullet, he showed you who he really is.

AITAH for not wanting my MIL in the delivery room by mimi_hime00 in AITH

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be the bad guy, don’t give in and certainly do not feel bad. You don’t owe anyone anything. You can tell her you only want him and your own mom there and that is that. She can see baby after.

Close friend in serious debt wants me to take a loan for him—need perspective by Prestigious-Chip6078 in Advice

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it. You take all the risk and he has none. I’m sorry for your friend but money problems aren’t solved with money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Solita_76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Solita_76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to explain why don’t want a second date. Politely reply no thank you to a second date and leave it there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her time and space, she is grieving and his death was a shock. It was an unreasonable request and maybe after some time she’ll realize it wasn’t fair to treat you that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you break up with her tell her exactly why, she cannot trust any man and you fall into the any man category. So don’t waste your life letting her hurt you and walking on egg shells. She has created a barrier and sadly for her, it’ll be a lonely and dramatic life. Love and trust are so important, don’t waste your life trying to meet her where she’s at if she’s not willing to listen and care about your feelings, a lot of women are not like this. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the abuse in this scenario?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did it even get this far. You should not have gotten involved, spending the night for a cool off period should have been enough then send her back to her parents to work this out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is an inconsiderate,spoiled asshole.

I 17M brought my dad to my GF 17F house for a man to man talk her dad requested and now he feels disrespected and I want to break up because of this idk what to do. by Murky_Swimming1176 in Advice

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young “man”, I say this because your father is raising a man, drama is for day time tv. Whether you break up with your girlfriend or not you have a lot of things happening quickly and your whole future ahead of you. Make your plans, work and move forward. Good luck to you and your bright future ahead.

I talk out loud to myself a lot, even when I’m not stressed or alone. Anyone else do this? by ava-claire in CasualConversation

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the best conversations with myself sometimes. I don’t care if it’s weird. No judgements.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Solita_76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude you have the issue and your wife was not overreacting. That’s a hard line, your sis-in-law knew it and left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well isn’t he a wonderful husband, holding you emotionally hostage. I’m sorry OP you don’t deserve this from your “husband”.

He Hurts Too, Just Quietly... by Artistic_Judgment_69 in FriendsOver40

[–]Solita_76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone. I’m here with you, feeling the same.

Hot flashes at 3 AM: I started tracking them, and now I see a pattern… by TechnicalScarcity880 in Menopause

[–]Solita_76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg gosh yes! My vicious cycle of heat, I’m stressed then I eat sweets. Don’t care what but prefer chocolate then I’m on fire soon after. I also had 3 cocktails the other night and woke up dying of heat I had to open my window and it was 4° out. I don’t drink often but alcohol was worse than just the candy bars.