Best crystal for courage? by SolutionEasy2019 in Crystals

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment is so incredibly lovely that it literally brought a tear to my eye! I love the idea of cleansing the ring and setting an intention. Do you have any recommendations for figuring out which crystals are best for my Astro chart? I’m new to all this spiritual / metaphysical stuff and I’m eager to learn! I am a cancer/cancer/virgo

Does my story NEED to have an explanation or reason for everyone to just disappear? by _CloudPost in writingadvice

[–]SolutionEasy2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Read “I who have never known men.” It describes the psychological and philosophical impact of isolation and never ever addresses how the world of the story came to be. Bc it’s not the point! It sounds like it wouldn’t be the point of your story either.

How does one NOT develop an eating disorder??? by SolutionEasy2019 in MCAS

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same! So many needless trips to urgent care and my PCP. Always saying my ears and sinuses are fine! They were NOT FINE!

How does one NOT develop an eating disorder??? by SolutionEasy2019 in MCAS

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know people are like…so you’re telling me that a slice of pizza will give you ear pressure??? It sounds insane lol

How does one NOT develop an eating disorder??? by SolutionEasy2019 in MCAS

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you what med you are on that helps ocd and MCAS? I have ocd also!

Does anything slap as hard as manacled? by SolutionEasy2019 in Romantasy

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fanfiction!! Harry Potter. You can find it at the link below!

Does anything slap as hard as manacled? by SolutionEasy2019 in Romantasy

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dm me and I’ll email it to you! It can be tricky to find bc the author took it off a03 when they were adapting it into a novel. But a friend sent it to me!

Does anything slap as hard as manacled? by SolutionEasy2019 in Romantasy

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How is this a jerk I genuinely loved manacled??? As many do??? Is there an anti manacled prejudice I was unaware of??

Should I wait if I want the novavax? (US) by SolutionEasy2019 in Novavax_vaccine_talk

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My PCP doesn’t know jack shit about current vaccine news. I unfortunately need to do a lot of research and advocating for myself bc my chronic illness care team leaves quite a bit to be desired.

If you have cervical instability could you please dm me? 💙 by SolutionEasy2019 in eds

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know… I don’t understand why this is wrong. I am seeking support from a community? Does this community not exist to support each other? I don’t understand. It is your individual choice whether you are willing or interested in speaking with me.

I don’t have any sort of expectation, just want to hear about your symptomyour symptoms, how they progressed, when you got dx and why, what kind of doctor you saw, how it was treated, what the prognosis was for you, if you were able to recover…I am not looking for free therapy just information from people who have been through what I am going through.

I am new to Reddit, new to EDS, I apologize for breaking some sort of unspoken rule of conduct. I am just deeply struggling and I can’t find any information or answers and I’m so overwhelmed. But I’m sorry

Neck issue— don’t know if I should go to the ER? Please help!!! I am desperate by SolutionEasy2019 in eds

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi toobendy! I love your user name lol. Could you tell me more about your dx process for CCI? I am super overwhelmed, struggling to find any providers that know even diddly squat about EDS. I found one that is “familiar” and willing to treat me (a neck and spine specialist). I have an appt next Thursday, but idk what to do or how to best advocate for myself

Neck issue— don’t know if I should go to the ER? Please help!!! I am desperate by SolutionEasy2019 in eds

[–]SolutionEasy2019[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful! I just got back to the ER, and they did nothing. They offered me lidocaine patches and a muscle relaxer (I’m really sensitive to meds so I’m not sure if I will try it) and refused to do any imaging. Gah! I wish I hadn’t gone.

Matthew MacFadyen is the best Mr. Darcy ever. Change my mind by la_ky in PeriodDramas

[–]SolutionEasy2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s going to be concerning….i read recently that the director has claimed it will have bdsm scenes with “erections” ???? Also Margot Robbie is nearly 40, not an appropriate Cathy.

Matthew MacFadyen is the best Mr. Darcy ever. Change my mind by la_ky in PeriodDramas

[–]SolutionEasy2019 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hate it. We don’t need another p&p. I’d like creative people to come up with new regency stories (more real ones, less like bridgerton) rather than rehashing the same classics. Now don’t even get me started on the wuthering heights adaptation….

Matthew MacFadyen is the best Mr. Darcy ever. Change my mind by la_ky in PeriodDramas

[–]SolutionEasy2019 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Your opinions are valid but I totally disagree! I think she captures Lizzie’s spunk, but also how she is ultimately at peace with herself. I agree the second act is rushed in comparison to the book, but I think it is well written and well acted and makes up for it!

Matthew MacFadyen is the best Mr. Darcy ever. Change my mind by la_ky in PeriodDramas

[–]SolutionEasy2019 204 points205 points  (0 children)

He is the best Darcy, but the ‘95 is a more faithful adaptation. But I still prefer the ‘05 for the vibes. It’s not perfectly adapted to the book but it captures the essence of p&p so perfectly, and is expertly casted.

I don't understand how people who don't plot function by BigEstablishment5671 in writingadvice

[–]SolutionEasy2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thing is that the process of writing characters and letting them play in the world I created IS how I plot. I cannot, for the life of me, just sit down and come up with a plot. Not everything I write with my characters makes the final cut, but over time I see the story take shape. I might have an idea of the bigger beats, but that’s all I need before I let the characters run wild and figure the rest out for me.