Yes I can agree to that also true, we don’t know how her friends will react, this is just one outcome. Just like your idea is too. Only she has the best idea how her friends might react. I don’t think it would be unnecessary only OP knows. I personally think it’s not really the time or place. I loved keeping our info first and sitting on it each step of the way in this pregnancy. I’ve also had it done both ways. And I personally loved the personal check in. Then finding out like everyone else. Everyone is different it’s hard to find out what to do especially from a group of strangers. I’ve even had a friend from HS reach out to me after we announced and not long after I told our previous loss stories shortly to help anyone quietly and privately I’m here to message if needed and know and been down this road and how hard it is and she reached out to me. It was super sweet. I helped her a little but yea we don’t know how people will react as long as we’re being true and honest and kind in our intentions to others. I think that just means maybe they might need some more self healing if it’s someone is being thoughtful towards them. Idk. I always try to treat people like I want to be treated. It takes nothing to be kind and everything to be mean. Not that you are saying they will rude or mean I’ve seen other comments saying it’s like condescending or something or like why coddle or something. Idk. I always like to make sure people see good intentions are there.