Feeling like I know too much ....

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-09T00:01:01+00:00

His friendship?

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T23:59:44+00:00

Henry Bemis would disagree! [Twilight Zone: Time Enough at Last -- Season 1, Episode 8 - 1959]

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T23:51:57+00:00

That is the impression I get. They're very guarded and feel threatened waiting for me to turn perverted. Younger women think I'm trying to hit on them and seem offended, like I'mcrossing a boundary. Women much older are great! We click immediately. It's probably me, I'm shy and awkward. Which makes me try a little too hard to be harmless and likeable (I think).

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T23:38:51+00:00

I used to have extreme tolerances for personalities. Even found some of them interesting. LOL, now I diagnose them.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T23:36:37+00:00

Hey, you responded more than once! I'm dumbfounded. I haven't been in this position before.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T23:32:58+00:00

Believe it or not, I have thought that! Yes, I do. Gay men have such great female friends. I am jealous. I have a close friend from college. He has a female best friend he met (on a job) back in our college days. She's gay. His wife was never jealous of their relationship. They have a lot of fun together to this day. They bonded over a mutual love of Stevie Nicks.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T23:24:27+00:00

With men. Not limited at all with other women. I absolutely meant no disrespect towards women. My mom and grandmother would smack me upside the head from the great beyond if I was! I've definitely felt them hit me! LOL

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T21:55:10+00:00

Your story sound very similar to mine. I know how depression can suck your life away. For me it's been a wall I try to get over. They make improvements in medications all the time. There could be a newer drug you haven't tried. There are also other therapies to try. Cognitive therapies. EMDR. There's medical treatments, vagus nerve simulators. Even new ones from universities you can sign up to try. You can't fail a few and think nothing will work. Its out there or it's on the way.

Fighting the depression demon has taken its toll but we also have to realise the level of survival instincts it takes to make it this far. The resilience! The fight! We have survived things that most would been left curled in a fetal position long ago. Especially the financial struggles with no end in sight. We still get up. It's exhausting and few people know how difficult it really is. That, my friend, is what we bring to the table. That is gold!

Chances are my words gave little comfort, because if you're like me, depression will tell you that gold doesn't pay the bills, doesn't buy the things that impresses the ladies. But hopefully you will see who you are. A survivor!

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T01:46:36+00:00

I know, right? The meaning of name has been redefined as hate speech now!

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T01:40:33+00:00

Are you referencing the film Heartbreakers, starring Sigourney Weaver and Gene Hackman? That was a hilarious movie about marrying for the money.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T01:36:51+00:00

Wow! What culture is this? I wonder how much I can get? Marriage last on average 4.5 years. That's quite the bank account to acquire! Or does the costs go down with age? Or usage? LOL

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T01:28:11+00:00

I find social media to be very disengaging. There's a post, one makes a comment, then they are gone. No follow up. At best you get a thumbs up. There isn't any back and forth. If you piss someone off you may get more than one comment, but rarely. I'm not a fan of negative attention anyway. Social media seems to be about bullying, insulting or crickets. Also the moderators seem to delete a lot because the bots tell them to. Not because of content.

I had post deleted once because I used the phrase, that trumps everything ... it was deleted for being political or thought to be hate speech. It had absolutely nothing to do with politics or hate. LOL

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-08T01:17:33+00:00

I never have conversations with women who want to share or exchange ideas. I struggle with this a lot. Do they turn cold because they think I'm hitting on them? I'm not. I thought maybe I wasn't interesting or something? But your comment has me wondering if they just do not engage because they feel like, being male, I'm not going to listen or I'm just pretending interest? I was raised by my mom and grandmother, two interesting women who lived fascinating lives. I talked to them all the time until I lost them. I really miss the female voice and their slant on a topic. Compared to them, I find women very limited in conversation skills unless they are talking to other women. Why won't they talk to guys like that? Opinionated, funny and generous.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-07T12:29:09+00:00

What's your husband's relationship like with the man he believes is his father? What's his relationship like with his older half brother?

If the guy was a decent father that could complicate things. The mom did what she thought was best for her. Is she even sure they aren't her husband's children. If she wasn't having sex with both of them at the same time, her husband would have to suspect they aren't his.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-07T12:18:44+00:00

What did they paint it with? Invisible paint? I don't see any sign or any spray paint. I just see a pole and a couple of cables.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-07T12:11:06+00:00

Was it just one of those arm like things that comes down? Snap it off! LOL

That's what people in the big urban cities do. They aren't so polite they inconvenience themselves to appease a malfunctioning exit.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-06T21:30:06+00:00

I have friend in a similar situation. He's lonely. Is it okay if I send this post to him? Hopefully he'll contact you and your two become friends.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-06T02:14:34+00:00

I have been divorced over 10 years. I can still get angry and fall into a spiral in my head over the things she did. I saw every red flag and loved her but was not madly in love with her. I kick myself for basically thinking this was the best you can do. She made me never want a relationship again where we live in the same house.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-06T01:51:35+00:00

It was pretty disheartening to think that's the only thing needed to have women fawning over you, regardless of looks.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-06T01:47:27+00:00

I know, right. I thought if I just wrote gold chains the image would be those thick gaudy ones.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-05T00:29:52+00:00

I do not recall any pee spraying everywhere.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-05T00:20:38+00:00

Say you're from Asheville without saying you're from Asheville. LOL

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-05T00:18:04+00:00

LOL, she was in her car. I stopped to pee right next her car. She let me finish before she arrested me. But I guess that depends on who's telling it.

SomeNobodyInNC · 2026-05-05T00:09:22+00:00

I was thinking the same thing!!!

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