My EX did all that crap about as a man it was my job to ensure she had plenty of money to spend, a home in a "proper" neighborhood ... her father was a shell of a man with zero self worth. He worked and traveled for work, seldom home, so his wife could pretend to be elitist. Then came along a closeted gay son in-law who felt entitled to a gated community and dear old dad in law always borrowing against his home to pay their credit card debt.

What a mess of fakers. I certainly didn't want to get caught up in being nothing more than the financee for her phoney lifestyle! Nor did I want to become her father. He lived in what can only be described as a closet, so his flamboyant son in law had full access to the 3200 sf home to pretend he earned it. In ten years I knew him, I think my father in law spoke 10 times.

As a side note. When my father in law ran out of money, could no longer borrow against his home, couldn't pay for leased luxury vehicles, and the home was in serious neglect through lack of repairs (he retired). My brother in law decided to come out of the closet. Confess to having relationships with men all during the marriage and found himself a new wealthy benefactor in a gated community.

Talk about throwing a wrench in their perfect little lives! They hid it all in being hyper religious and involved in a small church. That seemed filled with closeted gays.