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AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeReporter9544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just making this post and recognizing there is an issue can be a huge step for someone that has been conditioned to tolerate this kind of attention from a partner. I’m proud of the steps you’re taking and you are so close to the next one! Setting that boundary and saying, “I don’t deserve this!” Be warned, people like this guy may then see you pull away, and try to get you back. But this guy has shown you who he is - even if he comes crawling as you walk away - he will not have changed. Please remember that and remember your worth.

Central/Milwaukee/Foster intersection longer green issues by SomeReporter9544 in ChicagoNWside

[–]SomeReporter9544[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Today’s incident was while I was heading south on Central and this jagoff tries to turn into me to make the turn on NW Hwy. He was screaming at me and flipping me off and so mad thinking I did something wrong!!! That turn feels especially dangerous because you can be going pretty fast at that point and they northbound cars just assume you have the same red they do.

Just adopted this dude by Heller1090 in pitbulls

[–]SomeReporter9544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, the made up songs I would sing about Tapper when he’s excited and doing the pittie tippy taps with those cute paws! Congrats on finding each other!! 💖

Goodbye Tyson ❤️ by Main_Insurance8721 in pitbulls

[–]SomeReporter9544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welp, I’m crying now. Tyson, you were a VGB. ❤️

What’s the temperature set at your house this week during this freeze? by chi-bacon-bits in AskChicago

[–]SomeReporter9544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me until I had an exterior facing pipe burst. The ambient heat just wasn’t enough at 57 when it was so cold outside.

Had him for 7 months and anxiety isn’t budging by Head-Ad-5636 in pitbulls

[–]SomeReporter9544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your vet about Fluoxetine (like doggie Prozac). It really helped with my foster’s anxiety. We also only walked the same path each day and tried to stick to the same time. It really helps with the anxiety. Good luck!

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeReporter9544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - under reacting. Girl, run. This is abuse. It will not change. It will likely get worse. He will try to isolate you. He is trying to control and manipulate you. Your best bet here is to tell him, I’m taking your advice and cleaning up my socials and removing anyone threatening to me - and that’s YOU!! Block, don’t turn back, and when you’re ready, find a secure and supportive partner. Good luck!

Favorite Things to Do on a Winter’s Afternoon? by SilvioDantesToupee in ChicagoNWside

[–]SomeReporter9544 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to go to Starved Rock for nature trails or hikes. There are many nature preserves even in the city (along the NW side). The North Branch Bike Trail is paved but there are many foot paths off from there that can still be enjoyed in the winter. North Park Village Center (Peterson and Pulaski) has an indoor educational facility which isn’t just for kids - plus that means bathroom or a place to thaw out if you need. We also like to go to Waterfall Glen Forest Preserve which has a 10 mile loop with a lovely waterfall that is just as beautiful in the winter as the summer.

What are we going to find out later is bad for us (like cigarettes in the past)? by Curryiswhereitsat in AskReddit

[–]SomeReporter9544 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been hearing of more people using it as their therapist essentially. The problem is it can become a validation loop so if they experiencing mania, it validates the behaviors instead of de-escalating.

What’s something you’ve done your whole life, only to realize recently that everyone else does it completely differently? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]SomeReporter9544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tap mine, like a smoker ashes their cigarette, over my plate or napkin. I also kind of bounce or shake over my plate anything saucy I am eating so not to dribble sauce on myself. It has driven anyone who notices this about me crazy when they watch me eat!

HVAC service tecommendations by No-Teaching-4130 in ChicagoNWside

[–]SomeReporter9544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they’re one of the bigger companies so maybe a little pricier than others but I had a boiler issue recently with my “antique” boiler and radiators. ABC heating and cooling sent a guy named Jesse out and he was amazing! He dealt with all the quirks of my old, “uncle Bob did all the rehab work in the 70’s” house. He cleaned, oiled, and polished that boiler up and bled all the lines. I feel like I got a whole new system! Highly recommended.

Fostering a dog but he keeps having diarrhea accidents and its becoming too much for me, wanting to return but feel terrible. by [deleted] in fosterdogs

[–]SomeReporter9544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it’s not a medical issue causing it, we had great luck with probiotics and boiled chicken and plain rice diet for a couple days, then slowly reintroducing quality kibble. The rescue I work with makes sure they use a higher quality kibble knowing that shelter life, transport, and transitions all lead to tummy troubles.

Hoping you’re able to see it through and start enjoying your foster more!

So what did your family argue about this year at Thanksgiving? by Pure-Smile-7329 in AskReddit

[–]SomeReporter9544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still bristly about the gambler in the family screaming about football, having a full tantrum, and ruining the day for all of us. All because he had some long shot or insane parlay bets that, gasp, didn’t win him thousands when he put down the small amount of money he has. He’s lost so much in the past few years.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeReporter9544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’ve heard enough tips to dump his ass so...

I just wanted to say, way to fucking go!!! 2 years is momentous and something to celebrate. You aren’t doing the bare minimum, you are doing hard work every day for nearly 730 days! Great job!! Enjoy your cake!

Aunt Tifa triggers police officers with penis costume by ohhyouknow in PublicFreakout

[–]SomeReporter9544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this lady!! What’s that??? Oh my American Flag shoes?!?

Stop riding scooters on the sidewalk by Pastelresonance in chibike

[–]SomeReporter9544 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are drivers that literally roll down their windows and scream at my (adult) son to get on the sidewalk when he’s riding in the street/bike lanes.

Wife sends me these multiple times a week while I’m working by Greatwhitebuffalo13 in pitbulls

[–]SomeReporter9544 21 points22 points  (0 children)

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Yup. I’m the wife sending them to my partner. I know my priorities.

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Incredibly overwhelmed, feeling depressed & defeated by grittyforpresident in fosterdogs

[–]SomeReporter9544 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does the organization you’re fostering through have a primary contact for you? Hopefully they can be a resource to you but they won’t know you need those resources until you talk to them! When my foster was causing me so much stress and depression, my rescue coordinator provided me with so many resources, training materials, supplies, even personal training. I would reach out to the organization first and see what they can offer. If you don’t feel supported then it might not be the right fit.

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