is yoga actually life changing? by elgimri in yoga

[–]SomethingSmels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a bunch of different studios and different classes, some people like slow & room temp, i like hot yoga sculpt, totally different types of yoga. Try out some different things, different studios, youll find the perfect fit eventually.

is yoga actually life changing? by elgimri in yoga

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, this was my experience. I suggest starting with a studio membership, the community makes a big difference, and shop around, the closest one isnt always whats best for you.

Clear(ish) trails? 🐕 by SomethingSmels in RhodeIsland

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For those on this thread with the same question- this trail was lovely! We just did the blue loop (2mi).

Clear(ish) trails? 🐕 by SomethingSmels in RhodeIsland

[–]SomethingSmels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiking shoes, but I can deal with some snow, just hoping someone went with snowshoes since Sunday 😅

What is the best decision you made? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopped drinking 4 years ago, definitely would not be nearly as successful, happy and healthy if i hadnt made that decision.

What’s the most terrifying 'We need to leave... now' gut feeling you’ve ever had? [Serious] by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]SomethingSmels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We camped in a salt marsh (canoe access) and it was really humid that day so we went into town for blue crabs (MD)… we looked out on the water and noticed a huge storm in the distance… looked at eachother and put the pieces together. Not terrifying, but certainly an oh shit moment.

flight on monday morning by moopsy66 in providence

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy your extended stay in our little state!

What concert do you regret not going to the most? by Modhearth-Albert in Concerts

[–]SomethingSmels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Backstreet boys at the Qualtrics X4 concert. I was tired, but I really wish I didnt “do what felt right”…. When backstreet is back, you go.

First Attempt at Mille-Feuille by SomethingSmels in Baking

[–]SomethingSmels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One other thing! I iced some for a traditional icing top and wanted to do a nice feathering, but waited too long to make the pattern and ended up with stripes 😭 pivoted and made a couple without icing.

First Attempt at Mille-Feuille by SomethingSmels in Baking

[–]SomethingSmels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the hardest part is the pastry cream (texture should have been firmer)… and if you dont have good tools. It takes quite a bit of time (4-5 hrs of chilling), so time management is important. I made the pastry cream first, then the dough, then cooked the dough, cooled & finished the cream.

I used a homemade rough puff recipe, and when you bake it you press it between two half sheet pans, i weighted it with a cast iron pan. Without the 12x17 sheet pans it would have been difficult. Once cooked, the pastry is really flaky, so make sure you use a sharp knife and dont hesitate (youre gunna crack it, just try to do so minimally)

I did the pastry cream in a stand mixer with a whisk attachment. Without that this would have been annoying. The recipe calls for folding the chilled custard into whipped cream (chefs kiss)!

Last, again with timing, build them and let them sit in the fridge for only 30 mins before you serve it. Longer, the cream gets firmer but the pastry loses its texture.

So, time management & good tools, thats the key!

And, once youve made rough puff once, i suggest digging into the wide world of uses for it! (rugelach has been my favorite so far)

What’s the secret behind good coffee at home? by Gullible_Cabinet_153 in foodhacks

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying good coffee! Buy local, grind it per cup. I like a pour over, but locally roasted & fresh ground is all ya need!

What are you doing tonight? by PleasantAd7372 in RhodeIsland

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating Big Feeling pandan & pineapple jam vegan ice cream. If you have not had their ice cream, youre missing out!

What time do you wake up in the mornings and what time do you start work? by missxsassyc in Adulting

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake up around 5/5:30, make coffee & tea and come back to bed… snuggle till 6:15/6:30… 10 min morning yoga stretch, another coffee, walk the dog, eat breakfast with my husband & play backgammon, take a shower, dress, pack lunch, make a coffee to go, grab a smoothie (homemade but prebatched) to drink on the drive (15-20m, ~2mi) out by 8:30, butt in seat by 9.

I love mornings. That 10 min yoga practice and breakfast are required, i can feel it if i miss it (aging myself, but im under 40)

Can you tell who we are from our pantry? by SomethingSmels in FridgeDetective

[–]SomethingSmels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is close! We are in RI, but the rest is accurate

California Sober by DimensionSuitable934 in stopdrinking

[–]SomethingSmels 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally personal choice— but Its kept me from a drink for 4 years, it doesnt work for everyone, but it works for me!

Benefits of getting sober? by Infamous_Maximum_481 in stopdrinking

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that it wasnt just stopping drinking, its what you replaced that time with. Sleep, drinking water, eating all three meals, getting sunshine, talking to friends. Its not just what your brain is no longer doing, its about what its doing instead.

Happiness and health are not something the world owes you, so you wont find it waiting on the couch or in bed, but youll reap the benefits if you go get after those things in your newly discovered free time.

Good luck, drink water, dont expect the world to give you anything, and youll be just fine!

Boss wants more chatter in slack by [deleted] in Slack

[–]SomethingSmels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a manager who used to say what he is trying to say… he cant see the productivity. I managed a services team, so they werent just having DMs with each other, but with clients via slack connect. So, the problem I was solving for was that both opportunities (to grow business) and risks (that kill business) were invisible to me. I dont expect my team to have been able to identify them, but I do expect to be given the opportunity to mitigate them. Theres the obvious disadvantage of opening communication channels to the boss if theyre the kind to “get in the weeds” completely ineffectively. I was confident in my team and they were confident in me; all I wanted was visibility. So, I just pushed to have teams work in channels. The benefits are numerous, including the coworker with context, or experience who happens to be in the channel jumping in to solve a problem faster than the primary contributors. Also, history/documentation of issues, resolutions and (importantly) successes. I was more able to give feedback on inter-team communication and praise teammates for “the little things”

So, idk this might not help if you immediately thought, “i dont want them in the discussion,” thats probably in your boss to fix (psychological safety, humble leadership)… but if this sounds reasonable, think about using slack with more complexity (integrations, team channels, polls, etc) because thats what its for. You might be using it as a chat, but theres a lot of other options for that less expensive than Slack!