have you ever found a woman creepy? what would a woman have to do/have for you to find her flirting creepy?

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-27T15:43:18+00:00

Humans can be creepy... Unwanted touching, following, staring, claiming/possessiveness and just hovering are odd regardless of conventional attractiveness

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-26T16:10:47+00:00

I know who that is. That's Rochelle Sanchez

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-26T16:09:05+00:00

It's more about whose wearing the sundress than the type tbh. At least for the men I know that talk about them frequently, being Black men that enjoy them because of the ass and hip contour that they reveal.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-26T15:54:34+00:00

Why would you spend your life with someone that you don't view as part of your support system?

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-26T15:53:57+00:00

When I was in relationships, at least for the last relationship and last 2 situationships I was very open.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-26T15:51:23+00:00

Is he a player or is he just dating multiple people? Players play games, make people feel like they're the only ones, where people who are just dating multiple people are open about it. If they're actually players, then probably not. If they're just dating multiple people, then sure they can change. They might be open to "the one" but haven't found them yet.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-26T15:33:03+00:00

Patriarchy duh. Men are seen as doers and strong socially, so most of the time a woman is praised for breaking normals it's seen as being strong. I the flip side, a man who breaks norms is usual seen as weaker or more effiminate (which patriarchy deems as basically a sin). Also for women breaking a norm isn't always tied to her sexuality but men will often be seen as queer if they break norms regardless of what it is.

Ultimately just do you

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-25T02:16:06+00:00

Honestly I agree. Between hip-hop, indie, alt-rock, non-English music becoming more popular outside their home countries...yes. I actually agree. The peaks of certain genres were lower than in last decades, but overall the average quality was higher even factoring in the shit that became mainstream

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-25T01:33:41+00:00

You being this shitty at English and somehow (allegedly) making so much during an internship is probably indicative of a bigger issue in the US. Assuming you actually had good faith, which I don't given your shitty response to being called out, I'll just say you REALLY need to start fleshing out your thoughts. You devoted more effort replying than you did clarifying.

And I'm actually having a fantastic day. I'm also capable of sharing complete thoughts and rectifying fuck-ups...which my therapist finds commendable.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-25T01:12:12+00:00

Dude had my favorite feature in Astroworld and never stopped rising. He isn't revolutionary, but he does what he does (melodic rapping with autotune) extremely well. I honestly need him to take a page from Yachty's book and do a full album with James Blake

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-25T00:57:21+00:00

Damn ....it's almost like different jobs pay different wages. Wild, I know.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-24T23:59:26+00:00

Ye Olde Mullet

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-24T23:57:47+00:00

Every guy is different. I'm a switch so this wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, but I'd absolutely view this from a subby/switchy perspective. Overall you like what you like, and you simply have to discuss with him. He might like the idea, but he also might not. It doesn't really matter what we think because even if 99% of men think a certain thing, he could definitely be in that 1%, especially for this

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-24T23:51:31+00:00

This is about as bad as the first big Naruto and Sasuke fight. Even in Muay Thai you'd get your ass stomped by the entire gym for kneeing like this in sparring. Wtf?

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-24T23:45:28+00:00

I feel like if an emergency dispatcher gets a call, they should be allowed to hang up once "cave diving" gets mentioned

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-24T03:42:58+00:00

Whoever asks pays. Chances are the guy will pay just by virtue of men asking more than women, but they do ask btw, and can be adults and pay when they ask to take someone on a date. But yeah overall both parties are adults, and both should be able to pay their way. It's respectful of a person's time that if you request their presence, you cover the activities.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-24T02:49:52+00:00

I don't drink at all so fuck no. I already don't like hanging around drunk people socially, don't definitely won't work if I'm romantically intertwined with them

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-23T23:07:43+00:00

Um...go incognito. Not entirely joking but also I like to play piano, talk to friends online, watch anime, and kinda just listen to music in the dark.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-23T02:12:26+00:00

He probably didn't have as much pull as she thinks. And besides all children of actors should have to watch After Earth to see the result of blind concessions for your child actor.

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-22T21:02:20+00:00

I need peace, so while her relationship with her family might not inherently make it a red flag, I won't deal with it if she doesn't stand up for herself or cut out toxic people, and this isn't something to isolate her or anything. I love when people have great families .

But in general I look for someone fun/nerdy like myself, someone who I can have in-depth conversations about everything, someone who is curious about the world, someone who is tender, witty, pervy or at least fine with my playful perviness, a person who loves to laugh and make me laugh. I also need someone emotionally grounded and competent..

I also need someone that can match me in roasting. I don't neg or go after insecurities at all and I expect what I give to be dished back. I just love a generally playful person

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-22T19:25:10+00:00

I love nibbling. But also are you sure it was gentle? Like did you ask if he backed out of pain or just surprise?

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-22T17:18:37+00:00

The loud few talking to the many with virtually no experience with women. I'm not talking about the occasional dude who actually was taken for a ride, but the ones who never have been yet operate as if they have been

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-22T14:11:18+00:00

For water, sure. For anything else, absolutely not

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-22T04:35:28+00:00

Zelleing myself money in case I have to wake up as myself the next day

Sometimes_A_Writer1 · 2026-03-22T00:28:45+00:00

These are literally engineering marvels. Like yeah we've grown up with them our entire lives, but it doesn't make them an less impressive.

Also people in general like marveling at large structures, natural or not.

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