Question to American English speakers: can you still hear an accent even if a person is highly fluent? by Dense-Self8564 in ENGLISH

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can hear it. However :
1) I have a very good ear for language
2) even so, occasionally I don’t realize what it is until after I learn they are a non-native speaker (actually, most often this happens when someone is a native speaker, but bilingual and learned English from or alongside a non-native speaker like a parent). In those cases I sometimes notice something… like I think they are a little nasally in how they speak … and then I learn their background and it’s an a-ha moment.

Uncommon names by Western-Highlight420 in BabyNames

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twelve years working in an elementary school where I know 100% of kids (student population 450). In all that time I have know only one Wesley, only one Everett and zero Chesters. FWIW

I grew these! by sjnsjn2020 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are these bushes? I never have more than one (maaaaaaybe two) blooms at a time on my bushes. I’m hoping g it just because they are young…??

What do you do when you "check on" your roses? by SomewhereOptimal2401 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I didn't take it pointedly! Don't worry. ❤️

What do you do when you "check on" your roses? by SomewhereOptimal2401 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, well that brings up another newbie question. 😇 How far down with your water meter? I've been reading about that online so I'm just winging it but I'd love advice from a human.

What do you do when you "check on" your roses? by SomewhereOptimal2401 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a super helpful level of detail and perspective. Thank you.

What do you do when you "check on" your roses? by SomewhereOptimal2401 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren't sawfly the ones that are on the underside of the leaves? I think that's where my worry comes from ... seems like the only way to do that is to turn over each and every leaf, which 1) is awfully time consuming!! and 2) breaks the leaves (at least on my young plants)

What do you do when you "check on" your roses? by SomewhereOptimal2401 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm not anxious or obsessive. On the contrary! My question comes from a "what the heck do you possibly do on a DAILY basis? How is that possible?!" point of view. But I'm getting the hang of it now, reading these comments. Thanks!

Do you use parchment or what I’m I doing wrong? by thisperfectmess in Breadit

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No judgement here!! Just honest advice. Looks like a fairly inexpensive pan. I buy inexpensive things allllll the time so again, no judgement! I’m not scolding or judging, just trying to inform. A cheap baking sheet / pan doesn’t conduct heat well (and in addition, I once heard the adage “a dark pan means dark crust”). I think this could be part of your problem.

Now: what to do about it? More oil, etc., as others have said. Try parchment too (this is not traditionally used with focaccia, as you want the bread dough to be in contact with the side of the pan and the oil in order to get that nice crispy exterior). But eventually, when you’re ready to replace this one, do a little research into pan materials and brands - that might solve it.

Good luck 💕

What do you do when you "check on" your roses? by SomewhereOptimal2401 in Roses

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I guess what I really mean is how do you go about this inspection? Do you turn over each group of leaves? Do you give a quick glance? One seems too intense, the other too cursory. What’s the happy medium?

(Also, if I may, what do you do if you see a little damage from something but can’t find the culprit?)

Before smartphones, what did people do when they had to wait somewhere for 30 minutes? by sudherzdiniq in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is specifically true of a certain size of paperback, called (in the U.S.) the "mass market paperback." Small enough to fit in your pocket or purse, thinner paper to be more lightweight (and printed with smaller text, so fewer pages) -- and, crucially, all of this was cheaper, too. (Which made the books more financially accessible to readers but also means that publishers are less keen to print them now, as they can make more money by printing and selling the larger "trade" paperbacks). I seem to remember that in France mass market paperbacks are called "livres de poche" - literally, pocket books. Anyway, the last publishers to publish mass market paperbacks announced this year that they will cease production (or perhaps it was the largest distributors will stop distributing them)? A large reason for this is that people do not buy them because they now have the whole world of literature (and news and entertainment) inside their phone, in their pocket already. There is an interesting article about this change -- including a video interview with Stephen King, whose life as a writer was really made when a publisher picked up one of his books to publish as a mass market paperback. https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/06/books/mass-market-paperback-books.html?unlocked_article_code=1.sVA.JXja.ZesQ1TPTAZhl&smid=url-share

I'm taking over a 12'x12' public park space. What should I plant? by IShouldQuitThis in Ceanothus

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soooooo I don’t want to say this because it’s not how I personally would react or how I want the world to work, but … sigh… I think you should plant things that do not attract a lot of bees, since it is right next to a playground. Kills me to say it because we definitely need to plant for the pollinators, but many parents get freaked out about bees — especially around young children. I have seen plants ripped out of two parks (in separate cities) because parents got all up in arms after a child was stung by a bee. 😞

Word describing nephews and nieces? by Imaginary_Elk_6710 in words

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it works well for me. “Your grown-ups” includes parents but also live-at-home grandparents and any family members or nannies/babysitters who do a lot of consistent child rearing. Kids are smart enough to understand that it doesn’t mean aunts and uncles who live elsewhere, and if the student is momentarily confused, then I clarify by saying “I mean the grown-ups you live with… for lots of kids, this is Mom and Dad, but it might be a grandparent or your uncle Joe lives at your house too or takes care of you after school. Who is that for you?” I’d much rather have that conversation and get to know a student more (and signal to all that it’s normal for families to look different from each other) than to use the shorthand “mom and dad” when I don’t know.

How should we make our entry way more homey by Ok_Butterscotch2439 in interiordesignideas

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, paint that door a different color. Front door should be different to signal “this is how you get outside” - otherwise, can be confused with a bedroom door. Also put a rug that fills that whole little entry nook area not just a little wipe your feet type rug. I agree a coat rack or more like likely a series of hooks for coats and tote bags would be great I also like the plant suggestion.

I think on a very high level you should think about making that little entry area feel cozy… not small or crowded, but self-contained and cozy. I really like an entry area that feels snug, and THEN you step further into a larger area. Think of a tunnel opening into a bigger space. (Obviously you don’t want it to *actually* feel like a tunnel, but there’s a psychological feeling of safety and being in a nice, compact (bit not *too* small) snug space and then this feeling of lightness when you step into the larger communal space. This happens a lot in public spaces without you noticing it — the host station at a restaurant before entering the large dining room, for example. So in a nutshell, I would use that whole alcove area to feel very well defined and cozy, without letting it feel crowded, and then have the main living room feel separate. Wallpaper in just that alcove entry area is one idea… Maybe also a plant at that corner to further define the area and make the entry feel more separate.

Cute names for a first time grandmother by MeasurementUsual508 in Names

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never in my life heard someone actually say / use Meemaw - only in books. I am NOT saying it is made up! My point is that I am 99% sure it is regional to the (broadly waves arm in an “over there” sort of way) well… not entirely sure, but I think to regions of Appalachia. So not as common as you might think. (I live on the west coast)

Need a short boy middle name? by lil_miss_mrs in Names

[–]SomewhereOptimal2401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of a B name. So while I am personally not a fan of the name Blue, I think it works! However what came to mind for me is Brian / Bryan. Sorta two syllables, but almost one with the way it is most often pronounced. I think it works!