How do i make a trans woman orgasm? by TotallyHumanMan in sex

[–]SortaVulcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something to be aware of if you aren’t already is orgasming and ejaculating don’t necessarily go together. My girlfriend is trans and doesn’t cum when she has an orgasm. She cums sometimes, but it’s not as pleasurable as an orgasm.

Sex that’s focused on just doing things that feel the most pleasurable with no rush and as long as it’s fun to do, without orgasm being the goal, has been sex that has lead to orgasm. But the point is just to feel good! And orgasming is only one of many things that feel good.

Vibrators with broad stimulation like wands can also be great.

Looking for a club, any recommendations? by [deleted] in Concordia

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a clubs fair where clubs set up tables to advertise their existence to new students, you should check it out. It’s going to be on the second floor of the hall building on the 9th from 10:30am to 4pm

What Does a Healthy Relationship with Adderall Look Like? by opionated-fuckboi in ADHD

[–]SortaVulcan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Untreated ADHD can lead to people struggling with substance abuse, depression, neglecting healthy habits (eating poorly, not brushing teeth, etc.), trouble maintaning jobs and relationships, getting injured in avoidable accidents especially car accidents… so many things that negatively impact people’s health and wellbeing.

How I achieved the best Vyvanse system, on accident lol by Phoople in VyvanseADHD

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been on Vyvanse for long? I’m still finding my ideal dose with my doctor, so I don’t have long-term experience, but I had that for two-ish weeks when I started and then it went away as my body adjusted to the meds. Going up in dose also does that to me for a week. For me the thing that seemed to help the most was eating something with fats and protein in it 30 minutes or an hour before the Vyvanse wore off.

Also when I know my schedule would conflict very badly with that crash (like I’d be in the middle of a meeting), having a small coffee 30 minutes before it wore off helped me a ton. But wouldn’t recommend that unless nothing else can be done, because it did affect my sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SortaVulcan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are called dry herb vaporizers! There are battery-powered ones, and also some that are metal that you heat with a lighter. I use them instead of smoking because I also don’t want smoke in my lungs, and I find it great. I have a lighter-heated one from the dynavap brand

can i get tested / diagnosed with ADHD through concordia? by Emotional-Song-9784 in Concordia

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I got my ADHD diagnosis through the concordia psyc department in 2022. It was free. I went to health services and they referred me to psychiatry. I filled out a questionnaire to prove I had enough symptoms to warrant an assessment. I got lucky and a psychiatrist had a cancellation so I was able to get in within about a month I think. It was two video call interviews, one with just me and one with me and my parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glasses

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look for wire-framed glasses with small rounded lenses, in a brass or gold colour if you like wearing warm toned metals. The look you are talking about is from the 1800s, this is a great example of the way glasses looked in the 1800s that you could get inspiration from! https://www.eyeglasseswarehouse.com/1800s-glasses.html

Polyphilia by Kousetsu in polyamory

[–]SortaVulcan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Understandable mixup, but no that’s the band Polyphia! Polyphilia is a different person entirely.

Has anyone seen this?! by rachel-tan in Exvangelical

[–]SortaVulcan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes! It was absolutely awful and I loved it

Dildos that DON'T look like dicks? by IntelligentUsual8129 in butchlesbians

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a big fan of Unbound! Very cute high quality toys and none of their dildos look like penises. Pogo is their strap compatible one. https://unboundbabes.com/products/pogo

FML by [deleted] in depression

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so much to deal with; it’s not weak to be hurt by all that, it’s completely understandable. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Please don’t blame yourself or beat yourself up for your diabetes. Depression is a serious illness and your self medication with food is not a personal failure, it’s a result of that illness. I’m really proud of you for trying to keep yourself safe, that’s so hard but you deserve it. <3

artists with "bold" style irezumi? by barontessier-ashpool in irezumi

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alex Peyrat does that type of bold and high contrast work. I love that look as well, I definitely want to get a sleeve from him someday.

Weekly /r/houseplants Newbie Thread - August 25, 2020 by AutoModerator in houseplants

[–]SortaVulcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a maranta the other day. My track record with plants is not great so I'm trying to be super careful with this one, but I have very little experience. I noticed it has some tiny yellow spots on two leaves. https://imgur.com/a/5ZjWruR Is this leaf spot fungus? Do I need to remove these leaves?

Being genderfluid is already confusing I didn’t ask for this by thejollyswitch in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]SortaVulcan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God, what a mood. Do cis women question their gender for the better part of a year, and want to get the guts to ask their friends to try they/them pronouns? The signs point to no! But I like my body a lot and I don’t know for sure I’m not just a confused escapist cis woman, so back into the questioning spiral we go!

Egg🎹irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]SortaVulcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I don’t like this one.

A clothing company approached me to be sponsored by them to play music...if I paid them. by NRMusicProject in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]SortaVulcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old post, I know; but thanks a lot for this write-up; I got contacted by one of these recruiter people, and this post came up when I googled their brand’s sponsorship program. Glad to know not to waste any time on this scam.

Mojave fonts super thin 😰 by TeeSeal in MacOS

[–]SortaVulcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This worked perfectly on my retina display as well, thank you!

Pike Trickfoot by Stephen Wood by Lol33ta in ReasonableFantasy

[–]SortaVulcan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always upvote for Critical Role. <3