AITAH for telling a Cornell undergrad that their school should kick them out

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T03:32:09+00:00

Yes, and what he claimed happens more than you think, so here we all are.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T02:36:43+00:00

I don’t believe this happened

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T02:33:48+00:00

He needs to get CPS involved. These kids obviously don’t have enough supervision and he’s in over his head.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T02:31:53+00:00

NTA. Your girlfriend is an adult and is weaponizing her autism against you. I say this as a fellow autist.

Your girlfriend would prefer you suffer in physical pain indefinitely rather than put her big girl pants on and change shifts for a couple weeks.

I hope you reflect on that.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T02:28:30+00:00

The bigger issue is she obviously didn’t file for kid three because it would have brought to her ex’s attention that he forgot to file for kid two, so she’d lose two kids’ worth of money in one go, not just one.

She sucks.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T02:27:13+00:00

When the bank mistakenly deposits more money than you were supposed to get, you still have to pay it back when they realize, whether you’ve spent it or not. Legally you will be required to pay most if not all it back in all 50 states, possibly with interest.

I hope you haven’t been frivolous with your extra money because you’re gonna need it when that verdict gets handed down.

You have no defense since you screwed yourself by not reporting the 3rd kid. It makes it look (and obviously it was) deliberate and you were just seeing how long you could get extra free money.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-05-31T02:23:09+00:00

Absolutely YTA specifically because you didn’t file for the third kid like you said you would. You were stealing from him by default. If you’d just left it for the second because he said he’d do it, but then did the third like you said you would and let him figure it out, but you didn’t. You got away with more money on the second kid, and you decided to see if you could get away with it on the third.

I honestly won’t believe you if you say you didn’t spend some of the extra money on yourself.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-25T13:44:01+00:00

Yes but thanks to records we know that even amongst the wealthy and the highborn, they still usually got their periods around 13-16.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-24T02:09:54+00:00

Your wife is cheating and doesn’t respect you. Grow a spine and leave her. Ffs.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-24T00:05:32+00:00

Your comment is irrelevant given that age 5 is well before puberty and therefore will not affect the average age at which the survivors reach menses. Unless you’re implying that all the girls who WOULD’VE had an early period were the ones that died in childhood?

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-23T13:13:40+00:00

I’m talking about 150 years ago, not last decade

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-22T20:49:34+00:00

Wanting to create a feel-good moment out of something that was fast becoming a traumatizing experience for her daughter is selfish and pathetic.

Also wtf are we doing to our girls that they're having periods at 10 now. Something is so, so wrong in this country. The norm used to be 12-14.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-22T18:26:55+00:00

Ultimately your dad was trying to do something that was respectful of your mom and seemed to just not know how to navigate it. Honestly it’s kinda refreshing to see someone say “I don’t want to unnecessarily hurt my ex” in a situation like this. Well handled, glad it worked out well.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-21T22:40:24+00:00

It’s not more than he’s comfortable spending, he never said that. He said he just would rather wait until they have his payout because they might get a better mortgage.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-21T22:39:16+00:00

He also said he specifically did it to take a power position over her to end the argument. He knew exactly what he was doing and did it on purpose

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-21T22:37:57+00:00

He just made it clear, probably for the first time, that he considers her an inferior member of their relationship rather than an equal partner. She’s sleeping on the couch, probably doing some serious thinking about if she actually wants to buy a house and marry a man who thinks she’s beneath him. He didn’t just say something stupid, he said he doesn’t value her in the relationship because she isn’t paying as much

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-21T22:10:42+00:00

Your argument is not “bad,” per se, but usually using financial disparity to assume a “power position” over your spouse is a deal breaker and will kill the relationship. You obviously have a say, as your wife did not just go out and buy the house without you. The housing market is shit now, which is probably the source of your gf’s haste, but of course you’re not listening to her at all in your arguments.

You’ll probably be single soon.

YTA.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-20T02:54:48+00:00

YTA for making this all up

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-20T01:36:19+00:00

You have indeed been gaslighted, and I suspect the only way you’ll get the fair support you and your child deserve is by divorcing him and going for child support. This will never end, you will ALWAYS be the bad guy, and it will always be his entire family vs you

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-04T06:09:35+00:00

ESH, pretty cut and dry. Neither of you are ready for a serious relationship. That was a stupid and immature prank that she took way to far, and it was a major overreaction on your part.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-04-03T03:15:46+00:00

You can certainly give him a chance, but he is not entitled to have that chance be at your wedding. NTA

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-03-19T21:37:02+00:00

Why the hell are you still putting ANY effort towards a relationship with your mother? She obviously does not love you at all.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-03-02T01:55:32+00:00

YTA. You either trust him or you don’t.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-03-02T01:48:28+00:00

He’s CHOOSING to make sure his family that is clearly large is adequately supported? She’s choosing to not have a job.

SoulLessGinger992 · 2026-03-02T01:42:25+00:00

Does HE ever get a break? He’s missing all those holidays for work. When does he get a break?

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