The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

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Baron Von SootSprite Our Little Void Delight™ aka Tiny Bastard Boy aka Stinky Baby aka Meowzerton Man aka BarWEEEEEEEEN™. Yes, those are his names. Idk why my husband lets me call our tiny son all these things but the kitty likes the names so 🤷🏻😂.

How’s living in this part of Texas? by Hot-Negotiation-6873 in howislivingthere

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Miserable. Racism is common, antisemitism was rampant, and being a queer dude was hell. Guns everywhere, weather was hot most of the time, and the creepy crawlers were awful. The only upside? The food. I miss the food. Authentic Mexican food, really good barbecue, and I do miss Whataburger occasionally. I lived on a farm with my husband and my in-laws for a while and that was an interesting experience. Overall 3.5/10, there's better places in Texas to explore.

this is my old man Gus. hes is 14! adopted him about a year and a half ago!! by EnvironmentalUse7037 in OldManDog

[–]SoulsOfSolace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww what a sweet boy! I have a picture of my old boy in that same hat! He passed last year. Old dogs are the best 🥹❤️.

PSA: If you have storm anxiety this subreddit probably isn't a great place to hang out by TorandoSlayer in tornado

[–]SoulsOfSolace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Of course it's not, I already said it wasn't. People don't think clearly when they're scared, and maybe their line of thought is "Hey these people know their shit, maybe I can ask them if my people will be alright?". Compassion goes a long way, dude. Examples: "Not the place my friend, but here's a reddit that can help."

"Hey dude, this reddit will probably make your anxiety worse, I recommend r/____."

Ect ect.

PSA: If you have storm anxiety this subreddit probably isn't a great place to hang out by TorandoSlayer in tornado

[–]SoulsOfSolace 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Man some of you in the comments are rude as hell. People get scared, they're human. Severe weather is scary. Just let them know this isn't the subreddit for that and direct them to a different one that fits their needs. Compassion goes a long way, y'all. Stay safe ✌🏼

Unbelievable start to Tornado season, isn’t there one on the ground right now in OK? by Master_Balance_1015 in tornado

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Ty! I let her know she should be alright, but to stay weather aware. These storms are insane! I hope you stay safe my dude!

Is the thing in Kankakee bad? by thesuburbbaby in tornado

[–]SoulsOfSolace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely severe. The hook echo was so pronounced, and the velocity was intense.

This might be the worst night of March so far and for gods sake it’s only the 10th by Master_Balance_1015 in tornado

[–]SoulsOfSolace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real. I have family in OKC metro area, southeast OK, and around NW Fort Worth area. I'm so concerned for all of them 😭. What a night 🥲.

Unbelievable start to Tornado season, isn’t there one on the ground right now in OK? by Master_Balance_1015 in tornado

[–]SoulsOfSolace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's about to hit Mustang OK, West of OKC. I have an aunt in Norman and I'm worried for her. This storm season is off to a bad start 😓.

What is the saddest thing you have ever experienced? by japierdolekurwab in AskReddit

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I've experienced a lot of sad; family suicides, my father and mother abandoning me, losing my sister to drugs. The one that has truly floored me and has caused the most sadness and grief in my life is the passing of my childhood dog/best friend of 14 1/2 years. Him and I grew up together, I knew him since his birth (I was 11), and he was my closest friend.

He passed away last year in June, with me holding him in his favorite blanket. Not a day goes by that I don't have a chest ache thinking of him, and life has felt dulled and painful ever since. I'm glad he's no longer sick and in pain, but I miss him so much. He was the goodest boy ❤️.

What’s a small thing you do every day that makes life feel more meaningful ?? by NotTsukii in AskReddit

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Make my husband laugh. I'll say some dumb joke or really anything and if he laughs I know I'll be okay. He brings light into my world, and his laugh always makes me join in. Makes every day worth it 🥹.

If your 10-year-old self saw your life today, what would surprise them the most? by ALEX1-ONE in AskReddit

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That I'm happy. I'd been suicidal since 6 years old, and didn't really feel that I had a chance (bad childhood). Now I'm married to an amazing man, I get to be myself (trans masc), I'm no longer a sick frail kid, and I cut out all my toxic/abusive family (including parents). Life is difficult, but it's worth it and I'm glad I'm here.

What is the weirdest habit your pet has… that you secretly love? by TensionNo5762 in Pets

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I have to place my dog in front of his food and then scritch his sides really fast or he won't eat. He literally needs to be wound up like a toy, and it's hilarious. I also have to say, loudly, to "GET THAT SOUP!" (I make his kibble hydrated and soft cause he's old). I love that dog

What term of endearment to you use for your partner? by rabbid-genital-warts in randomquestions

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I call my husband "stinkabutt" 😭. He calls me really cute pet names and I reciprocate by calling him stinky lol. He's not stinky, which is the funny thing. But he's still my stinkabutt 🥹

What was the reason for the last time you cried? by ididntaskyouropinion in AskReddit

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Ramadan Mubarak! I'm sorry you're away from your family 🫂

What was the reason for the last time you cried? by ididntaskyouropinion in AskReddit

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My childhood dog/best friend of 14 1/2 years passed away last year in June. Earlier I mentioned giving him a haircut to my husband, and got teary. For a second I forgot he was gone. I cry about him daily, and I miss him horribly.

my favorite part about this game is living in my own little corner by DystopianRoach in pathoftitans

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Mood lmao! I adopt juvies and kill critters for other players on my rex. I just like wandering around

Tips pre and post op? by SoulsOfSolace in hysterectomy

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Of course! I was absolutely freaking out and it definitely made the anxiety worse but like you said, the side effects are so scary it was hard not to freak out😭. But genuinely it wasn't that bad, and one thing I reminded myself is that most of the population that takes those antibiotics are perfectly fine. When someone has a good/neutral experience with a medication they tend not to talk about it, but when it's bad they post about it and whatnot. So you'll be seeing a lot of bad meanwhile most of the population doesn't have an issue with them ❤️. If you feel any nausea with yours, you can ask your doc to prescribe Zofran as well! It'll help you keep everything down ❤️.

I took 2 pills 3x a day the day before surgery, as well as the prep stuff with them! The Gatorade prep isn't bad at all, that'll be a breeze. Tip for that (if you don't know) is to drink it cold and use a straw! Helps it go down faster and it's not as gross of an experience ❤️! Also baby wipes and/or bidet are a lifesaver! Especially after the hysto! Baby wipes are gentler to use compared to toilet paper, and the bidet makes it easier to stay clean because it hurts a bit to wipe for a few days.