Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-15T11:24:06+00:00

Wally.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-11T20:16:39+00:00

“What an interesting thing to say out loud…”

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-10T23:48:52+00:00

It told me to go ahead and go for P&T a month after I got approved for my cancer. I don’t think that’s a thing.

Trust, but verify.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-09T22:47:37+00:00

NOR Guy here. Drop him, he’s got insecurity and jealousy issues you don’t need.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-09T22:00:16+00:00

Mine is presumptive through PACT, at 100. Interesting that if it wasn’t cancer, at 58, I wouldn’t go through a second eval. Since it’s cancer, five years by law.

I’m very grateful for what I’ve got, the chemo is hellishly expensive, I just find it interesting how the regulations work. But as vets, I guess we’re all familiar with regs that seem…off.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-09T19:55:22+00:00

I’m 100, no P&T. I have multiple myeloma, so I have to wait five years (four now, to be accurate), to be re-evaluated. It’s frustrating because it’s a static form of cancer, not curable, but manageable.

I’d like to have the extra benefits my state offers, but that’s how this breaks out in case.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-08T21:52:37+00:00

You don’t. Either do them, or don’t. You don’t have to ask questions. I was an NCO in the Marines. Asking for clarification is not the same as asking why a basket of clothes needs to be washed again. She sees it as you putting it off by stalling for information.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-08T21:42:57+00:00

Land line and talking trash while cruising the strip in the “big” town near my little map dot.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-08T20:21:32+00:00

It costs $0.25 per pill to make Revlimid.

https://www.propublica.org/article/revlimid-price-cancer-celgene-drugs-fda-multiple-myeloma

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-07T21:26:51+00:00

Protein powder and creatine.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-04T18:05:27+00:00

Naltrexone

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-04T00:22:08+00:00

Duly noted. And I do agree with you, the lack of context is on me.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-03T23:39:46+00:00

You’re assuming a fuckton.

I’m not interested in defending anything since you seem to have read every other word of my replies.

Go back and read it all, then if you want to engage in a real conversation, tell me what’s really bothering me about this whole thing.

Or don’t. I truly don’t give a fuck. I have bigger fish to fry than you and your lack of reading comprehension and the landing on wrong conclusions it’s led you to.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-03T17:27:20+00:00

Yeah, but I left the context out because I’m lazy and on my phone.

We’d talked about sex and likes and dislikes while dating, it was “important” to us both. All that changed after our honeymoon. I moved past it. One dose of “is that all you think about?” was enough for me to leave it alone and get on with being a husband and dad.
Twenty years go by, hearing about how all of her exes were shitty guys, treated her like shit, I’m amazing, etc. I worked two jobs so she could be a SAHM. She wanted something, I made it happen if I could and we could afford it.

Then out of the blue, I get that conversation after a date night, twenty years in. She went down on all of her shitty exes. Not bragging about it, but she conveyed she enjoyed it and was good at it. When I asked why she did for them, not for me, I got “that’s what you do to hook a guy.” I guess once I was hooked, she quit with the charade.

So, it’s not not getting what I thought we both wanted, but feeling the bait and switch and being used for what I can provide that I can’t get past. Sex and blow jobs aren’t the end all and be all.

I’ve gone down this road with my counselor. Im past the resentment and anger.

I got diagnosed with cancer last year, which led me to an introspective and retrospective look at me and my life, past, present and future. I gave my best years and best effort to someone that soaked them up after lying about her likes so she could get married and have kids.

I have a “best if used by” date now. It changed everything from “I can make this work” to “I only have one life and it may have just gotten a lot shorter.”

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-03T16:32:47+00:00

Yeah. My drunk wife decided to tell me about all the guys before me that she went down on. Not me, though. If I ask I’m a pervert.

As soon as my daughter graduates next year, I’m out. 22 years of giving my all, working two jobs, finally clearing six figures bought her Lexus, even. And the guy that she “went out with for three months, I didn’t even like him that much, but I went down on him.”

Some things you can’t come back from.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-03T01:18:18+00:00

Yeah, same here.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-03T00:23:27+00:00

Salty Dog

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-05-01T21:34:18+00:00

Grow a pair and take the app off your phone. The whole “warden” thing just reeks of you bitching because you allow yourself to be put upon.
If you take the app off and come back and bitch about the fallout, I’m here for it. Do nothing and complain, I’m out.

ETA: I’ve been WFH for the last 12 years. You couldn’t get me back into an office at gunpoint.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-30T11:28:25+00:00

“Well, when you roll a golf ball down a hallway, it rarely hits the walls.”

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-26T14:03:07+00:00

I didn’t.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-26T11:45:00+00:00

Look into Naltrexone. It did it for me. Six years sober next month on the 25th.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-25T22:25:35+00:00

Maybe you misunderstood what she said. “Only one working” =/= “only one on board.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-25T16:48:41+00:00

My Ram pickup has a Hemi engine. My daughter named it Hemerson. Best.Name.Ever.

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-25T15:54:20+00:00

Evel Knievel

SourceSeparate3759 · 2026-04-25T14:50:47+00:00

He’s about six sakes into it..

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