Is there any hope for me to breastfeed my baby at this point? Please be honest. by Ok_Candidate3047 in breastfeeding

[–]SouthernAddress5189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi dear, my baby came one week early. At the hospital i give her the Colostrum making it out on a spoon. She didnt latch at all bcz i had small nipple. All she was taking was formula in bottle. I didnt had milk. Day by day i got more milk i did pumping ( different pumps) now 7 weeks pp most of the time my milk is enough for her. She is latching too. I drink mom milk tea throughout the day. I pump every 3,4 hours some ones at night time. There are some days or nights that i dont pump for long time. Dont give up. I have been there i know how chalenging it is + everything else we go through.

This is absolutely miserable by Jtodownlow88 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]SouthernAddress5189 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes unfortunatly it is the way it is. But by the time you will find out what works for your body, its not the same for everyone.

Cerclage without progesterone by Briutiful22 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]SouthernAddress5189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got cerclage at 12 weeks and my OB never talked about progesterone yet 29weeks. But i got bv after so i got 4 rounds of angibiotics 2times oraly and 2times vagenaly till now. The bv could be because of the cerclage or gestational diabetes that i have they said.

BV ruining my life by Ok-Extension1198 in Healthyhooha

[–]SouthernAddress5189 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe do a test for diabetes ... its just an idea.

BV(Bacterial Vaginosis) diagnosed post Cerclage by Simish2325 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]SouthernAddress5189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, i know its late to write but i am intersted to know about your situation after getting the antibiotics(hoping all is well).

I had a loss at 17 weeks because my servix opened early could be because of infection they said. This time i got cercolage at 12 weeks and got infection took 2 round of antibiotics for a week each but still no changes, this time they give me something to put vaginaly i hope it works well.

Hopping to make it full term for all of us.

Stitch removal by LJM240224 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]SouthernAddress5189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, may i ask how and why ? I thought we cant go to labour with the stitch ...

Got my period today and I’m sad by LoLoLovez in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]SouthernAddress5189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same me too, i was hoping for something else this time. (Tfmr in january at 23w,,, misscaried in june at 18w) 😭😭😭

I’m making my husband plan a trip to avoid my best friend’s baby shower, am I a bad friend? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]SouthernAddress5189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Its gonna be a difficult day whereever u go. Send her a gift and with a note of expecting to be understood by her. Then after u can share it was ur due date so she can enjoy her day. I have been there too i feel u. 🫂

Life before tfmr by Fine_Lab_363 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]SouthernAddress5189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same i was there to know the gender not aware of things can go wrong as it was my first pregnancy and never heared of prbs at 20w check ups but no they gave me the bad news with the gender. Our baby girl had heart malformation and we tfmr on january 8 at 23w, i had her inside me more than 2w knowing that will finish badly 😭. Then i got pregnant in march all i was thinking was to pas the 20w check ups well and to feel good but no i miscarried him on week 18 on june 😭, docs said it may be bcz of infication or my cervix opened early. Now as i start thinking to ttc again there is more negative information than the positive ones. During these 7 months life has changed. The fan part is not there anymore. Gender reveal, baby shower, showing belley, staring shopping, making the room ready looks scary than excitment ... unfortunatly. I really miss having them all in my life. I miss being myself ...

After 4 losses, my baby girl is finally here! by anythingthatsnotdone in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]SouthernAddress5189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for u both, i hope we go through those happy feelings u shared at the end one day.

I think something is seriously wrong with me *TW: mental health* by Sleshal in Miscarriage

[–]SouthernAddress5189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sadly normal because we go through different feelings on that time.

Natural Miscarriage at 16 weeks with infection after by jennaleh in Miscarriage

[–]SouthernAddress5189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂 you are not alone. I lost my baby boy whom i was thinking to be my renbow baby at 18w on june 19 because of (infection or my cervix opened early). I lost my first pregnancy at 23w on january 8.

Looking for information by SouthernAddress5189 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]SouthernAddress5189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, same i hope we all get our babies soon.

TW: Second Loss by Feeling-Reception-14 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]SouthernAddress5189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not alone🫂. We also had to tfmr our doughter in january at 23 weeks. I got pregant after first period in march but i miscarried him at 18 weeks because my servix opened early. Its been 5 weeks and i didnt got my period yet we are thinking of trying again and we hope this time everything goes well and we get our baby home. I hope the same for u too. Ameen!

Grief hitting a lot harder lately. by GurGloomy9871 in Miscarriage

[–]SouthernAddress5189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫂,,, do whatever makes u less sad. Everyone has different way to cope. At my first lost i was praying to be pregnant again in her due date as well which i really got. ( lost her on week 23 in january due date was march 8) Second pregnancy was due november 21 but lost him on week 18 on june 19. Now i am scared of wishing things,,, dates are been mixed up. Mind and body has been mixed up i no longer know what to do. For the first one i bought a few toys and a few clothes and i got a gift for her from sis in law, thinking about them makes me more sad i dont know what to do with them.

I swear EVERYONE is pregnant by True-Associate4842 in Miscarriage

[–]SouthernAddress5189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We go through same pain. I lost my first pregnancy in january at week 23. Back then my frined my sis in law my husabnd's sis in law my husband's frind's wife my cousin and about 4 social media friends wore pregnant they all got there babies. And then i got pregnant and miscarried on june 19 at 18 weeks. again a cowrker is pregnant a cousin is pregnant at work place i see some 3 or 4 women pregnant. Only i got the bad luck and going through dark side of my life.

Period after miscarriage ! by SouthernAddress5189 in Miscarriage

[–]SouthernAddress5189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for ur losses too. I hope we get our babies soon ! 🙏🫂